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Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Upcoming Events, For June 2014

If the photos below are gorgeous, they are usually from our brothers Scott Smith or Mike.

The purpose of this listing is to provide a one-stop, unbiased and reasonably complete listing of events that would attract gay FetishMen in and around the San Diego area.  It is meant to be spread as widely as possible, so that folks inside and outside Facebook have free access.

If you have a posting that you would to go out on the FMSD social network, post it on our Facebook page, and we will send it out the next Tuesday.

 ======= UPCOMING EVENTS=======

Wednesday, June 4, 7PM: Men's Discussion at Mission Gathering


From Brett: Coming off a groundbreaking weekend, Magnum and I will co-lead a meta-discussion night. How are we doing and where are we going? What should be our priorities for the months ahead? What topic ideas and directions for the group will gain the most traction and propel us forward? Come prepared to share your ideas! 

Followed by… PUPPY NIGHT at the Eagle!

Welcome Back Scottie Party

Friday, June 4, 6:00pm - 8:00pm

3845 Fifth Ave., San Diego, California 92103

Invited by Tiger Sd
Please join us on the back patio at #1 Fifth Avenue Friday, June 6, at 6 PM to welcome back Scottie from IML! He did an amazing job representing San Diego! 

Hope to see you there!
The Producers of Romp SD

Every Sunday, 4-8PM: Barbecue at the San Diego Eagle, at 3040 North Park Way

June 6-8: Los Angeles Pride, with the parade on SUNDAY, June 8.

Saturday, June 7 from 6 p.m. -12 a.m. (right after Cigars & Boots!)

MEN'S PARTY! The girls will be at Desire this weekend. The guys need to get busy too!

We have a swimming pool, BBQ, slings, crosses, cages, massage tables and lots of guys ready to play!

Bring a towel, some food to share and a Donation for the SD Leather Realm.
RSVP to sdbusdrivers for the location or contact Cobi for more info.

June 12-14: FistFest West

Friday, June 13 (second Friday of each month), 10PM:  Harness Party @ Numbers Bar, at 3811 Park Blvd.

June 13-15 - All Male Butchmanns Experience, Phoenix, AZ

Friday, June 20, 10PM - 2am: LEATHER DADDY Party at Numbers Bar, at 3811 Park Blvd.

Join Us for a new Leather Party here in San Diego the 3rd Friday of June! It's about Leather and Daddies and Boys so if you're into those 3 things we promise you will have some fun!

Cigars on the Patio provided by

A portion of the proceeds will be going to the Sunburst Youth Housing Project.

Friday June 20- 8:30 pm - 1:00 am -- Doors close at 10:30pm!

Friday Night Beat and Greet

Hosted by Bryan Teague - American Leatherboy 2010, Caryl, Mike Underwood, Minta, PuP and Frank

Downtown San Diego Dungeon - Email addresses below for information.

The Friday Beat and Greet is usually held on the 3rd and 5th Fridays each month - 3rd Fridays open to all, 5th Fridays for men only

** This event will NOT be held the 3rd Friday of December **

This event is open to people age 18 and above.

Soft drinks and water will be available at the dungeon, we are asking for $1.00 donation for each drink.

This social/ impact play event is for friendly people who would like to learn more about flogging, paddling and the like. We'll be demonstrating techniques on eager volunteers and curing the curiosities of those who have questions. Nothing too wild, just pleasantly kinky enough to bring a smile that lasts a while!

Please bring a flogger, paddle, cane or two with you, if you have one. This will help you learn with your own toys. If you do not have toys, we do have toys you may use.

Do not be intimidated by coming to a dungeon or being in the night life of Downtown San Diego, this event is open to all levels of experience, and beginners are particularly welcome. If you're new to this sort of thing, you can always trust that you'll end up with a positive experience. You'll be surrounded by very, very nice folks who have a lot of expertise and a deep level of trust with each other. We've been doing this a long time, and we like to share what we now.

This is not your typical BDSM event, it's not a fundraiser, a workshop, or a class really. Even though teaching and learning will be involved, Friday Night Beat and Greets are just a pleasant way to share some good times in a relaxed kinky setting. We all need to get the heck out of the house once in a while - why not hang out with some folks that enjoy doing what you enjoy doing?

There is no charge to attend the event, we just ask that you leave any Attitude outside the door, be playful and open-hearted!

Things to keep in mind for this event:

This event is held in a private space; however, you are responsible for your own actions at all times. Safety measures will be in place during the event. Please bring a valid ID and be prepared to sign a liability form. All information given will be kept confidential.

Because the dungeon resides within the confines of a residential and commercial building, we ask that you act and dress appropriately anywhere outside of the dungeon.

Anyone behaving in a manner that is considered inappropriate will be asked to leave the property and may not be allowed reentry for future events. The decisions of the Dungeon Servitus staff and hosts are final.

Please note a few things about the Beat and Greet:
1) The maximum capacity is 50 people. There is a chance you may be asked to wait until someone leaves before being permitted to enter.

2) In order to allow everyone a chance to try things, we ask that you limit your time on the play equipment to a short time. If there are people waiting, we may ask you to wrap up your time on the equipment after 10 minutes.

3) This is a community event that is hosted by members of the community. Membership in any club or organization is not required.

For more information about the Beat and Greets, please contact us at info or Caryl at caryl-cx

Saturday, June 21, 9:30PM: LL Bear Dance PartyRich's, at 1051 University. Third Saturday of each month. Watch the video - You will be grrrratified!

Saturday, June 21, 11:00am - 4:00pm: Southern California Leather Gathering (SCLG) 2014

Wed June 25th 7-9pm Our Monthly Demo/Play Party featuring: “Tie me up…tie me down & restrain me!

Cobi, resident member of Club X and Southwest Bootblack 2010 will share his expertise and masterful knowledge of basic ropes & restraints in a “bondage” scene that contributes to states of arousal, stimulation and being brought to orgasm while being immobilized. This demo is hands-on interactive. In addition to the demo, cum and indulge in other “nasty pig” fetishes!

Send an RSVP to SignMeUpForEvent for location.

June 28-29: San Francisco Pride, with the parade on SUNDAY, June 29.

Saturday, June 28 (fourth Saturday of each month), 10pm: Underwear Party and Contest @ the San Diego Eagle, at 3040 N Park Way, hosted by our own Mr. San Diego Eagle 2014 Paulo!

Wednesday, July 2, 7PM: Men's Discussion at Mission Gathering.

Wednesday, July 2, 9PM: Puppy Night @ San Diego Eagle, at 3040 North Park Way

Hosted by Jon LeatherBoy Somerville and Ron Brundige LeatherAlpha

Cigars, tobacco pipes, cigarettes, and dip welcome.
You don't have to be a tobacco enthusiast to enjoy the socializing!

$3 Well Drinks, $3 Domesic Bottled Beers, and Happy Hour Menu Specials until 6PM.

Bootwhite on site, so bring your leathers!

Open to all genders/sexualities (21 and over).

Bring your hankies to this event, so that there will be NO mistaking your intentions!

Saturday, July 5 (first Saturday of each month), 10PM: BearNight Dance @ Numbers Bar, at 3811 Park Blvd.

Sunday, July 6: Off Sunset Junction Festival in Silverlake.

Wednesday, July 9, 7PM: Men's Discussion at Mission Gathering

Friday, July 11 (second Friday of each month), 10PM:  Harness Party @ Numbers Bar, at 3811 Park Blvd.

July 11-13: Wet ’n Hot Weekend in Palm Springs. Over 500 sexy, attitude-free guys will descend upon an underground location in Palm Springs for a weekend filled with uninhibited pig play, brotherhood and fun. It’s the Biggest Piss Party on the Planet, and it’s unlike anything else that you’ve ever experienced

Wednesday, July 16, 7PM: Men's Discussion at Mission Gathering

The 2013 Leather Contingent. 2014's will be MUCH bigger!

July 18-20: San Diego Pride, with the parade on SATURDAY, July 19, and the Leather Realm on Saturday and Sunday.

Saturday, July 19, 9:30PM: LL Bear Dance Party @ Rich's, at 1051 University. Third Saturday of each month. Watch the video - You will be grrrratified!

Sunday, July 27: Up Your Alley Street Fair in San Francisco

July 30-Aug 4: Lazy Bear Weekend in Guerneville, California

Friday, August 8: Cirque Reinvente
Cirque Réinventé is just that for one night the San Diego LGBT Center will be transformed into a Circus unlike any other. Drawing on the Power of 6 and the build up to AIDS Walk San Diego, help raise money for this amazing cause!!


******Guaranteed to be a night packed full of surprises! With acts including and not limited to stilt walking, Poi, Burlesque, Impersonations, shenanigans and excitement.
Tickets are 15$ on the night of the event in exchange you will receive 20 tickets that you can use to enjoy the nights festivities with more tickets available for purchase once under the big top for 1$ a piece.

Join together and enjoy the many Fantastic facets of the San Diego LGBT Community.
Circus theme Shot Boys and Candy Girls will be walking around all night along with a bar for even more indulging.


**I call upon as many members of the San Diego community to support and in the spirit ask if there are any talented performers that are interested in join the line up of performers. please message me.

Cant make the event?? Wanna donate?? No worries feel free to donate directly to the Power of 6 online!

ROMP 2014 Schedule (San Diego Leather Pride)

Download an application to be the next Mr or Ms San Diego Leather

Friday, 8/22/13: located at the Victory Theater:

8 pm - 9:30pm: Meet and Greet
9:30 pm - 9:45 pm: Opening Ceremonies
9:45 pm - 11 pm: Celebrate Eli and Colt at the Cigar Social, with Hors d'oeuvres and drinks

Saturday, 8/23/13: all events located at the Victory Theater

10:00am - 4:00pm - Unofficial Gay Day at Sea World Learn more here
10 am - 3pm: Educational Classes
6 pm - 8:30 pm: Mr and Ms San Diego Leather Contest and Bootblack Contest
8: 30 pm - 9:30 pm: High Leather Cocktails with Tray Service and Cigar Social
9:30 pm: Announcement of Mr and Ms San Diego Leather 2013 winners
9:30pm-11:30pm: Cigar Social celebration with our new titleholders!
11:30pm: Afterparty at the San Diego Eagle

Sunday, 8/24/13

11 am - 1 pm - Victory Brunch Location TBD
Time To be announced: Leather Streetfair - Urban Mo's

September 5-6: Las Vegas Pride, with the parade at NIGHT, from 7-10PM, on SATURDAY, Sep. 5.

Sunday, Sep 21: Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco

Tips for Folsom Newbies


Annual fetish fair will take place on Folsom Street between 8TH and 13TH Streets

((San Francisco, CA - Wednesday, June 4, 2014) While the South of Market streets have changed fairly drastically over the last 20 years, the location of Folsom Street Fair hasn't changed at all. In 1995, the fair expanded its footprint to include the block of Folsom between 11TH and 12TH Streets; however, in all of the years since then, the fair's footprint has remained constant and unwavering. Until this year, that is. For the first time since 1995, Folsom Street Fair will be updating its layout to accommodate the needs of a changing city.

According to Demetri Moshoyannis, Executive Director, "The Board of Directors agreed to move the fair slightly in order to achieve three major objectives: 1. Improving street traffic around the fair; 2. Minimizing impact on residential side streets; and, 3. Engaging new community businesses. The shift of just one block in our fair footprint means that we can improve traffic flow by opening up 8TH Street to live traffic; we can engage fewer residential side streets; and, we can create new or improved relationships with community businesses like The SF Eagle, Sports Authority, and Cat Head's BBQ - all of whom will be able to participate more actively now. Getting the Eagle onto the fairgrounds feels especially relevant for many of us in the leather community!"

According to Phillip Babcock, Board President, "Folsom Street Events hopes that this shift is an improvement for the event, the community, the businesses and our fairgoers. We don't want to keep producing the same fair year after year. In fact, we meet and plan frequently in order to work towards a more improved experience for everyone. We hope that the community likes the change; we're excited to try something a little different."

Sponsorships for 2014 include: PRESENTING RECON, Steamworks, Mr. S Leather,, and GLOSS; PRESENTING LIQUOR Distillery 209, Jack Daniel's Tennessee Honey, and Southern Comfort; PREMIER 9x6 Lubes, Blow Buddies; CHARTER, Factory Video and CumUnion; SUPPORTING Powerhouse, Orchid & Serpent, 440 Castro, Falcon Studios/Raging Stallion Studios, and Adult FriendFinder; MEDIA Bay Area Reporter, SF Bay Guardian, SF Weekly, Frontiers, and GayCities; OFFICIAL PARTIES PLAY T-Dance, Full Fetish, and Aftershock; and, HOST HOTELS Kimpton Hotels,

Bay of Pigs - Saturday, July 26, 2014 

Up Your Alley - Sunday, July 27, 2014

Magnitude - Saturday, September 20, 2014

Folsom Street Fair - Sunday, September 21, 2014

DEVIANTS - Sunday, September 21, 2014

Folsom Street Events is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that creates world-class leather and fetish events that unite adult alternative lifestyle communities with safe venues for self expression and exciting entertainment. Our events raise funds to sustain San Francisco Bay Area-based and national charities. For more information, please visit

Dear BDSM Enthusiast,

This September, over 500,000 men and women will be gathering in San Francisco for the "Folsom Street Fair", "Leather Week" and for our Inaugural open house - BOND CON!

Please join us to exhibit your crafts, artwork, gear, toys and demos at the first annual BOND CON!

At BOND CON 2014, you'll be exhibiting to bondage enthusiasts, models, practitioners and the curious for two days Friday, September 19, 2014 and Saturday, September 20, 2014 at's recently remodeled drill court, now The Armory Community Center. 30,000 square feet of exhibit-hall space has been made available to YOU and other vendors from around the country for an international, national and local audience, located just 3 blocks from Folsom Street Fair!

We plan to have something for everyone at BOND CON 2014 and we know you won't want to miss this opportunity with a "Meet & Greet" on Thursday, September 18; followed by the expo! Check out our exciting schedule of events, tours, workshops and entertainment.

And, turn your two day exhibit exposure to a three day EVENT and exhibit at the 31st Annual Folsom Street Fair, our partners in kink, leather and BDSM.

To exhibit at BOND CON 2014, click on the link below to complete your application. See you at BOND CON 2014!

Michael Beatty

Exhibitor Manager


October 18-19: Bearquake in San Diego. BearQuake grew out of an idea of forming an alliance between the various clubs in Southern California and elsewhere. A "Bear Weekend" was planned where we could all get together and get to know each other. A contest was also held for Mr. So Cal Bear and Cub. The success of that first event opened the door to future gatherings which has become "BearQuake".

October 30 - November 2: Desert Leather Pride in Palm Springs

Note: This is a BIG CHANGE in the scheduling, since this usually happens on the SECOND weekend of the month  - Make a note of it!

Here are pics from last year:

Nov. 7-9: Palm Springs Gay Pride, with the parade on SUNDAY, Nov. 9

January 16-19, 2015: Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend

Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend is a three-day long party and event with participants that now number in the thousands. The heart of the weekend is the historic leather formal Saturday evening cocktail social, Leather Cocktails. Leather Cocktails is the weekend lynchpin gathering from which all other weekend events evolved.

The Weekend also includes official events organized by weekend hosts, Centaur MC that include a bustling Leather Exhibit Hall; Sunday brunch; Mr. MAL Contest and the official Sunday night closing party, REACTION. In addition, Weekend hosts provide hotel space for what has evolved into a huge leather-loving community and affinity annual reunion. Weekend participants may purchase a full weekend package that includes access to all events. Tickets to a few select events are sold separately.

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