Fetish Men is an organization driven by the brotherhood and camaraderie of its members. We are dedicated to the continued growth and education of our Men by providing an ongoing series of events, workshops, and socials.
Wednesday, May 29, 2019
Taco Trio, Cigars, Park & Burgers this weekend!
Saturday, June 1, 4pm - 7pm at Pecs (monthly on the 1st Saturday)
Monthly event, First Sunday of the month, Noon to 2pm
Starting Sunday June 2nd!!! the San Diego Eagle Bar B Que and Beer Bust!! from 4:00 PM until we run out of food.
Wednesday, May 22, 2019
A packed June!
2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
Come join us! Even if you don’t smoke cigars or you sample a pipe or other things it’s a good time to make new friends in the leather community. Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free.
Sunday, June 2
Noon - 2pm - Sunday in the Park
Noon - 2pm - Sunday in the Park
Balboa Park at 6th & Laurel, San Diego, CA
Join club brother Jody -- as Mr. San Diego Leather 2019 -- for games and fun every first Sunday!
Next up,
FMSD at The Eagle (also June 2)
2pm-6pm: - Sunday Cookout at The Eagle
3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
Come out and support fellow FMSD member, Myles, at his first Sunday cook-out as Mr. San Diego Eagle 2019!
Followed by,
4pm-6pm: - Planning Group Meeting at The Eagle
3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
==> Venue correction: The Eagle is indeed the correct place for June's planning group meeting! <==
June's meeting is especially important as it will help us plan our presence in the Leather Realm at San Diego Pride this year.
Do you have an idea, request or venue suggestion for an FMSD workshop, demo, discussion, or social? Come let us know! We'll be planning what we're doing for the next three months, each month. These friendly gatherings happen monthly on the first Sunday.
Save the dates!
June 8, 6pm – 9pm: Swap Meat @ Urban MO’s Bar & Grill (bi-monthly on the second Saturday)
308 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, USA
Hey Kinksters, missed IML? No worries, Sat. June 8th 6-9pm, clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that might need a new dungeon. Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear in real time (off the apps.) Introduce new curious guys to your turn-ons or try gear on. Demos welcome (w approval.) Feel free to forward this to any groups/blogs or peeps who’d be interested. Free to enter, $5 to sell. More Info: 619-352-0666 -Fox.
June 14, 10pm – midnight: FMSD's Flogging Friday @ The Eagle (monthly on the second Friday)
3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
As requested by our customers, Flogging Fridays are back!
June 19, 7-9pm: FMSD at Pleasures and Treasures (every month on the third Wednesday)
This will be an electrical workshop by me -- Officer Wes. Join us as I share one of my kink passions with my club brothers. My first slave came to me via a question about electro I'd done at a party... I promise it's going to be a fun evening! More info as the date gets closer.
FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events
Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html
You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.
Local Event Pages
- FetishMen SanDiego Facebook page
www.Facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego
- For information from Mr. San Diego Leather 2019, Jody
www.facebook.com/MrSanDiegoLeather2019/
- For news from Mr. San Diego Eagle 2019, Myles
www.facebook.com/MRSDEAGLE2019/
- For upcoming events at the San Diego Eagle
www.Facebook.com/groups/255559724621047
- Leather boys of San Diego
www.facebook.com/LeatherboysofSanDiego
- San Diego Cigars & Boots (monthly, 1st Saturday, 4-7pm at Pecs)
www.facebook.com/groups/sdcigarsandboots
www.Facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego
www.facebook.com/MrSanDiegoLeather2019/
www.facebook.com/MRSDEAGLE2019/
www.Facebook.com/groups/255559724621047
www.facebook.com/LeatherboysofSanDiego
www.facebook.com/groups/sdcigarsandboots
Tuesday, May 14, 2019
WEDNESDAY 5/15: Rope Bondage workshop!
FetishMen SanDiego: Rope Bondage May 15
Pleasures and Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92104
Wednesday, May 15, 7:00pm – 9:00pm
Workshop description:
Rope Bondage play can be an exciting addition to our kink play.It is a form of sensory deprivation, enhancing a submissive’s sensation and dominant's level of control.
We will share our negotiation skills, thoughts on trust, and limitations on both sides of the slash, Top / bottom, Dominant / submissive, etc.
During this workshop you will have an opportunity to practice some basic rope ties that when creatively combined can become a predicament.
There will be limited rope available. Some recommended rope supplies to bring:
- Rope -- for beginning levels, 1/4 inch woven nylon, 25-30 feet long
- Safety scissors (think paramedics) -- strong enough to cut through the rope with one cut
- Yoga pad/rug -- to kneel/sit on while tying
Presenter bio:
Sir Francis / ExplorerFrank dove into the Leather community in 2013 and was presented a Leatherman's cover in 2016 to recognize his ethics and quick learning of skills, particularly his artistry with rope. That work was featured in a pictorial spread in The Advocate, and can be seen at this link www.advocate.com/photography/2016/11/21/sophisticated-tastes-mature-men-photosHe is fully committed to promoting Safe, Sane and Consensual BDSM play among leather men and women by sharing any and all safe practices he has learned.
His practice has a strong spiritual connection. He is happily married with his husband of over 30 years. In 2016 he was taken in to Daddy Barry's and Officer Wes' and dog's Leather family as Officer Wes' slave. He identifies as a switch and works under a Leatherman ethos of Respect | Honor | Trust | Love.
He is open to continued exploration and encourages veteran leathermen as well as newcomers to explore their fetish desires.
About FetishMen SanDiego:
Fetish Men is a welcoming group of gay kinky/fetish men. FMSD a non-organization/organization driven by the brotherhood and camaraderie of its members.We are a group for Leather & Fetish Men, Leathermen, and Kinky Guys seeking Brotherhood, Support, Kindness, and Education in San Diego.
We are dedicated to the continued growth and education of our men by providing an ongoing series of events, workshops, and socials.
Check out FetishMenSanDiego dot org for more information about socials, demos, and other kinky events.
FMSD is a cohesive and cooperative gay-male kink/fetish group. If you're curious about kink, or you're already into it, you belong here.
We welcome men of all ages (18+), all colors, all body-styles, and all experience-levels.
Local event pages
- FetishMen SanDiego Facebook page www.Facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego
- For information from Mr. San Diego Leather 2019, Jody
www.facebook.com/MrSanDiegoLeather2019/ - For news from Mr. San Diego Eagle 2019, Myles www.facebook.com/MRSDEAGLE2019/
- For upcoming events at the San Diego Eagle www.Facebook.com/groups/255559724621047
- Leather boys of San Diego www.facebook.com/LeatherboysofSanDiego
- San Diego Cigars & Boots (monthly, 1st Saturday, 4-7pm at Pecs) www.facebook.com/groups/sdcigarsandboots
Monday, May 6, 2019
Rope Bondage Wednesday 5/15 7-9 at P&T
FetishMen SanDiego Rope Bondage workshop May 15
Pleasures and Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92104
Wednesday, May 15, 7:00pm – 9:00pm
Workshop description:
Rope Bondage play can be an exciting addition to our kink play.It is a form of sensory deprivation, enhancing a submissive’s sensation and dominant's level of control.
We will share our negotiation skills, thoughts on trust, and limitations on both sides of the slash, Top / bottom, Dominant / submissive, etc.
During this workshop you will have an opportunity to practice some basic rope ties that when creatively combined can become a predicament.
There will be limited rope available. Some recommended rope supplies to bring:
- Rope -- for beginning levels, 1/4 inch woven nylon, 25-30 feet long
- Safety scissors (think paramedics) -- strong enough to cut through the rope with one cut
- Yoga pad/rug -- to kneel/sit on while tying
Presenter bio:
Sir Francis / ExplorerFrank dove into the Leather community in 2013 and was presented a Leatherman's cover in 2016 to recognize his ethics and quick learning of skills, particularly his artistry with rope. That work was featured in a pictorial spread in The Advocate, and can be seen at this link www.advocate.com/photography/2016/11/21/sophisticated-tastes-mature-men-photosHe is fully committed to promoting Safe, Sane and Consensual BDSM play among leather men and women by sharing any and all safe practices he has learned.
His practice has a strong spiritual connection. He is happily married with his husband of over 30 years. In 2016 he was taken in to Daddy Barry's and Officer Wes' and dog's Leather family as Officer Wes' slave. He identifies as a switch and works under a Leatherman ethos of Respect | Honor | Trust | Love.
He is open to continued exploration and encourages veteran leathermen as well as newcomers to explore their fetish desires.
Local event pages
- FetishMen SanDiego Facebook page www.Facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego
- For information from Mr. San Diego Leather 2019, Jody
www.facebook.com/MrSanDiegoLeather2019/ - For news from Mr. San Diego Eagle 2019, Myles www.facebook.com/MRSDEAGLE2019/
- For upcoming events at the San Diego Eagle www.Facebook.com/groups/255559724621047
- Leather boys of San Diego www.facebook.com/LeatherboysofSanDiego
- San Diego Cigars & Boots (monthly, 1st Saturday, 4-7pm at Pecs) www.facebook.com/groups/sdcigarsandboots
Wednesday, May 1, 2019
Planning Meeting 5/5 + monthly meetings return
FMSD Planning Meeting (every 1st Sunday)
Sunday, May 5, 4:00pm – 6:00pm
This month we'll meet at a private residence in Hillcrest.
Write fmsd@officerwes.com for location.
Do you have an idea, request or venue suggestion for a FMSD workshop, demo, discussion, or social? Come let us know!
We'll be planning what we're doing for the next three months, each month.
This month we'll meet at a private residence in Hillcrest. Write fmsd@officerwes.com for location.
Do you have an idea, request or venue suggestion for a FMSD workshop, demo, discussion, or social? Come let us know!
We'll be planning what we're doing for the next three months, each month.
This month we'll meet at a private residence in Hillcrest. Write fmsd@officerwes.com for location.
FetishMen SanDiego meetings return to Pleasures and Treasures the 3rd Wednesday of every month, 7-9pm!
Pleasures and Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92104
Third Wednesdays 7:00pm – 9:00pm
We are happy to announce that we will be holding regular monthly meetings at Pleasures and Treasures on the third Wednesday each month from 7-9pm. Mark your calendars! In the next six months those dates are:
- May 15
- June 19
- July 17
- August 21
- September 18
- October 16
The first gathering will be an FMSD Rope Bondage Workshop presented by Sir Francis / ExplorerFrank on Wednesday, May 15, 7-9pm. Save the date. A separate blog/e-mail will come out with even more details.
- May 15
- June 19
- July 17
- August 21
- September 18
- October 16
Local event pages
- FetishMen SanDiego Facebook page www.Facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego
- For information from Mr. San Diego Leather 2019, Jody
www.facebook.com/MrSanDiegoLeather2019/ - For news from Mr. San Diego Eagle 2019, Myles www.facebook.com/MRSDEAGLE2019/
- For upcoming events at the San Diego Eagle www.Facebook.com/groups/255559724621047
- Leather boys of San Diego www.facebook.com/LeatherboysofSanDiego
- San Diego Cigars & Boots (monthly, 1st Saturday, 4-7pm at Pecs) www.facebook.com/groups/sdcigarsandboots