Fetish Men is an organization driven by the brotherhood and camaraderie of its members. We are dedicated to the continued growth and education of our Men by providing an ongoing series of events, workshops, and socials.
Wednesday, March 18, 2020
Sunday, March 15, 2020
FMSD postponing in-person events due to Coronavirus
FetishMen SanDiego&
Coronavirus / Covid-19
FMSD is postponing in-person events
until the Governor for California lifts
the "six foot radius" ban
on interpersonal contact.
Please contact us at
fetishmensandiego (at) gmail
if you have experience with --
and would like to help us figure out how to use --
one of the free video teleconferencing services.
We'd like to investigate how to stay connected and keep the conversation going while we're being smart about health concerns.
fetishmensandiego (at) gmail
if you have experience with --
and would like to help us figure out how to use --
one of the free video teleconferencing services.
FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events
Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.
FetishMen San Diego Web site
www.FetishMenSanDiego.org
Local Event Pages on Facebook
- FetishMen SanDiego Facebook page
www.Facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego
- For information from Mr. San Diego Leather 20, Dustin
https://www.facebook.com/Mr-San-Diego-Eagle-2020-101561874805448
- For upcoming events at the San Diego Eagle
www.Facebook.com/groups/255559724621047
- Leather boys of San Diego
www.facebook.com/LeatherboysofSanDiego
- San Diego Cigars & Boots (monthly, 1st Saturday, 4-7pm at Pecs)
www.facebook.com/groups/sdcigarsandboots
www.Facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego
https://www.facebook.com/Mr-San-Diego-Eagle-2020-101561874805448
www.Facebook.com/groups/255559724621047
www.facebook.com/LeatherboysofSanDiego
www.facebook.com/groups/sdcigarsandboots
Tuesday, March 10, 2020
SDLP - FMSD Volunteer call for All Clubs Night
San Diego Leather Pride -
All Clubs Night and Leather Olympics
Friday, March 13, 2020
Worldbeat Cultural Center
2100 Park Blvd, San Diego, CA 92101
6 pm to 11 pm
FMSD has won both of the Leather Olympics we have attended. C'mon out to help us continue our winning streak and turn a hat trick!
We'll meet at the FMSD table and share with those who stop by what FMSD is and does. It's also an opportunity to see and chat with other groups.
Help us show off our Club Colors and reach out to new members.
We need two (02) men to form a team and compete for bragging rights and cool prizes in the Leather Olympics!!! There will be three events!
The winning teams are determined by the audience!!!
Prizes for 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place teams!!!!
2019 Winners:
1st Place Club X / FMSD
2nd Place SD Bears
3rd Place Leather Boys of San Diego
Previous winners include: San Diego Girl of Leather, FMSD, Club X, Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, and The Cash Cows!
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise free.
We'll meet at the FMSD table and share with those who stop by what FMSD is and does. It's also an opportunity to see and chat with other groups.
Help us show off our Club Colors and reach out to new members.
The winning teams are determined by the audience!!!
Prizes for 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place teams!!!!
2019 Winners:
1st Place Club X / FMSD
2nd Place SD Bears
3rd Place Leather Boys of San Diego
Previous winners include: San Diego Girl of Leather, FMSD, Club X, Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, and The Cash Cows!
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise free.
San Diego Leather Pride & Contest 2020
https://sdleatherpride.simpletix.com/
Saturday, Mar 14 at 5 PM 11:30 PM
All SDLP Events at WorldBeat Cultural Center unless otherwise noted...
2100 Park Blvd, San Diego, CA 92101
FMSD - "Rope for Capture" w/boy doriam
Wednesday, 18 March 2020, 7 PM – 9 PM
Upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures
2525 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104
Rope is nice to look at and feels great, but when you're ready to take someone down and use their hole(s), there just isn't enough time for the pretty shit.
Join boy doriam in this class for take down play and aggressive style rope, inspired by Hojojutsu, used to capture the bottom and keep them there. This class will cover two basic knots and several hitches used for quick and dirty rope and how to safely and securely bind your bottom.
*note: Class will be divided into theory and practical application, please be prepared to tie/be tied by bringing rope and/or stretching before the class itself.
Bio - boy doriam
boy doriam is a LatinX, Poly, Homosexual, Panromantic, Leatherman and Full-time College student by day, and by night he is ALSO a Full-time college because college is hard. He’s been active in San Diego's community since 2015 as a member of Club X (2016-Present), President of Fetish Men San Diego (2016-2018) Co-Founder and Headmeister of Ledermore (2019-present), and Producer of SCALE Weekend (@SCALE_Weekend). In 2018 he represented the San Diego community as Mr. San Diego Leather and the boy traveled sampling conferences nationwide, and bringing back his learnings.
He now is incredibly fortunate and thankful to continue travelling across the country to conferences and events teaching a variety of classes between hard skills, soft skills, and discussion panels. boy doriam was honored with being the 2019 Man of the Year during the San Diego Leather Community Awards, and was a Pantheon of Leather nominee the same year.
Monthly Recurring Events:
- 1st Sunday, 4-6pm, FMSD Planning Meeting, RSVP for venue info- 1st Saturday, 4-7pm, Cigars & Boots, back deck at PECS
- 2nd Friday, 10pm-midnight, Flogging Friday at the San Diego Eagle
- 3rd Wednesday, 7-9pm, FMSD discussion/demo/workshop, upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures
- 4th Saturday, noon-4pm, FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop/social/potluck/demo, RSVP for venue info
Events in March 2020:
- Sat, 07 March, 4-7pm: Cigars & Boots, back deck at PECS- Sun, 8 Mar, 4-6pm, FMSD Planning Meeting: RSVP for venue info (NOTE: 2nd Sunday in March)
- Fri, 13 March, 4pm, Leather Pride Flag raising at Hillcrest Pride Flag
- Fri, 13 March, 6-10pm, All Clubs Night at Worldbeat Cultural Center
- Fri - Sun, 13-15 Mar, time varies by event: San Diego Leather Pride Weekend, at the World Beat Cultural Center
- Sat, 14 March, ??am - ??pm, SDLP Contestant Interviews open to the public, Worldbeat Cultural Center
- Sat, 14 March, ??pm - ??pm, SDLP workshops and demos, Worldbeat Cultural Center
- Sat, 14 March, 5pm - 11pm, SDLP Mr and Ms San Diego Leather 2020 and Bootblack competition, Worldbeat Cultural Center
- Sun, 15 March, ??am - ??pm, SDLP Victory Brunch and Keynote Speaker, Worldbeat Cultural Center
- Wed, 18 Mar, 7-9pm: FMSD Demo and Discussion: "Rope for Capture" by Doriam, upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures
- Sat, 28 Mar, noon-4pm: FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop: Bastadino with Rob Ray, private venue near SDSU
Thursday, March 5, 2020
Cigars & Boots + Leather Pride week
San Diego Cigars & Boots
Saturday, March 7, 2020
Pecs Bar
2046 University Avenue 92104
4 pm to 7 pm
Everyone is welcome whether you smoke cigars, cigarettes, pipes, vapes or nothing at all. Wear whatever you like but leather, uniforms, levis, rubber are encouraged. Everyone is welcome with open arms. Daddy Barry is the host so please feel free to come up and introduce yourself. Come help us celebrate the New Year with old and new friends.
San Diego Cigars & Boots is held at Pecs Bar at the corner of University and Alabama from 4pm until 7pm on the first Saturday of the month.
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise free.
The Butch Revenue & Daddy's Bake Sale
SATURDAY MAR 7 AT 4 PM – 7 PM, The Merrow
San Diego Leather Pride and Annie Romano proudly present THE BUTCH REVUE.
Come out on Saturday, March 7 from 4PM to 7PM, before Bear Night San Diego for the Cocktail Hour and Show benefiting San Diego Leather Pride and SCALE Weekend !
San Diego Leather Pride & Contest 2020
MAR 11 AT 7:30 PM – MAR 15 AT 10:30 PM
https://sdleatherpride.simpletix.com/
Mar 11 at 7:30 PM – Mar 15 at 10:30 PM
Events at WorldBeat Cultural Center unless otherwise noted...
Celebrate your Leather during San Diego Leather Pride week, and help us celebrate our outgoing Titleholders while welcoming those who have stepped up for 2020!
San Diego Leather Pride is on schedule for March 11-15! Social and educational events happening throughout the week all lead up to the much anticipated San Diego Bootblack, Ms. and Mr. San Diego Leather contests on Saturday, March 14th.
Celebrate the kickoff at Tiger's Pictionary on March 11 at #1 Fifth Avenue, and All Club's Night + Opening Ceremonies on March 13th!
Come and join us for a weekend of revelry and celebration, as we celebrate you who make our community so unique!
A HUGE "Thank You" to:
SD Bootblack 2019 Pup Rowdy, Ms. San Diego Leather 2019 Serafine Sawyer, and Mr. San Diego Leather 2019 Jody Mitchell for their work representing San Diego in 2019.
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Tiger's Pictionary - Sdlp2020 Edition
WEDNESDAY, MARCH 11, 2020 AT 7:30 PM – 10:30 PM at #1 Fifth Avenue
Join us at 7:30(ish) Sharp! for Tiger's Pictionary, San Diego's longest running weekly fundraising and pictionary game! Meet the contestants and get to know the outgoing Title Family as we start the celebration!
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FRIDAY, MARCH 13, 2020 AT 4 PM
Leather Pride Flag Raising
Hillcrest Pride Flag
The San Diego Leather Pride weekend officially begins Friday with the raising of the Leather Pride flag at the Hillcrest flagpole (University & Normal). Join us as we kick off the official SDLP events with the flag raising at 4pm!
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Monthly Recurring Events:
- 1st Sunday, FMSD Planning Meeting, RSVP for venue info, 4-6pm (Special Date in March: 2nd Sunday, 8 March)- 1st Saturday, Cigars & Boots, back deck at PECS, 4-7pm
- 2nd Friday, Flogging Friday at the San Diego Eagle, 10pm-midnight
- 3rd Wednesday, FMSD discussion/demo/workshop, upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures, 7-9pm
- 4th Saturday, FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop/social/potluck/demo, RSVP for venue info, noon-4pm
Events in March 2020:
- Sat, 07 March, 4-7pm: Cigars & Boots, back deck at PECS- Sun, 8 Mar, 4-6pm, FMSD Planning Meeting: RSVP for venue info (NOTE: 2nd Sunday in March)
- Fri - Sun, 13-15 Mar, time varies by event: San Diego Leather Pride Weekend, at the World Beat Cultural Center
- Wed, 18 Mar, 7-9pm: FMSD Demo and Discussion: "Rope for Capture" by Doriam, upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures
- Sat, 28 Mar, noon-4pm: FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop: Bastadino with Rob Ray, private venue near SDSU