Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Flogging Demo - Sat, 02 Jan 2021, 4pm

Flogging Demo ...Yes I said demo ...
Saturday January 2nd at 4:00 pst.


Scott B Smith will be teaching and demonstrating this amazing demo. Hope to see you all there!!!!!! 
You will find the Zoom link for this meeting below.

When you enter please turn on your camera for age verification. NO EXCEPTIONS. If we cannot verify your age you will be banned from the room.

If you have any questions please let us know and we will do our best to answer them.

Invitation to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Flogging Demo!!!!!
Time: Jan 2, 2021 04:00 PM Pacific Time (US and Canada)
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Wednesday, November 25, 2020

Sat, 28 Nov, 4-6pm - Show & Tell, Videos, discussion, whatever

The day after the day after National Gluttony Day,
Saturday, 28 November, 4-6pm

Yes, we're meeting after Most of us have recovered from eating too much on Thursday. 

Come join us to chat, watch some "Watts The Safeword" videos and discuss them, have a bit of Show and Tell, and whatever else we feel like.

Same format as before .... a Zoom room. Please request the info by sending email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

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Sunday, November 15, 2020

18 Nov, 7-9pm via Zoom - Robert Black: Creation of a Separate Idenity

Wednesday, 18 Nov, 7-9pm via Zoom
Robert Black: Creation of a separate identity

Send email requesting Zoom event info for Robert Black's presentation to:
SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Join us as we watch Robert Black share how the creation of a separate identity impacted his journey in leather/BDSM.....and life. 




Grabby Award winner and GayVN Award nominee Robert Black has appeared in more than 50 adult films and was named a “ZEUS boy of the Year.” He has been featured in magazines including Honcho, Bound & Gagged, and International Leatherman. A proud member of the leather/kink community, he is the host of Sexual Heroes, a podcast with a mission to inform, entertain, and inspire listeners to embrace their sexuality.”


When does FMSD Meet?

3rd Wednesday: 7-9pm via Zoom
18 November: Robert Black: Creation of a Separate Identity
16 December: Watts Wednesday

4th Saturday: via Zoom - time varies
28 November: Show Me Saturday
26 December: Show Me Saturday


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Tuesday, October 20, 2020

Wed, 21 Oct, 7-9pm: Watts Wednesday & upcoming events

When does FMSD Meet?

3rd Wednesday: 7-9pm via Zoom
21 October: Watts Wednesday
18 November: Robert Black: Creation of a Separate Identity
16 December: Watts Wednesday

4th Saturday: via Zoom - time varies
24 October: Show Me Saturday
28 November: Show Me Saturday
26 December: Show Me Saturday


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Saturday, October 3, 2020

Sunday, 04 Oct, Planning Meeting

 Morning guys! 

Hope you’re keeping cool during this heatwave! Wanted to remind everyone that tomorrow, Sunday, 04 October, at 4PM PST is our planning meeting. We would love for you to join and help give us some ideas to discuss! 

We need your involvement to keep things going and interesting. This is a call for volunteers, help, assistance, ideas, and suggestions.

Can't attend? Please send your thoughts to us in an email or text message.

Email SignMeUpForEvent[AT}Gmail that you’re interested and you’ll receive an email with the needed information to login! Can’t wait to see you there!

Have you registered to vote?

You can do so on-line until 18 October 2020


Register to vote in California via RegistertoVote.CA.gov

To register online you will need:
  • Your California driver license or California identification card number,
  • The last four digits of your social security number and
  • Your date of birth.

FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at

https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.

FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.FetishMenSanDiego.org


Local Event Pages on Facebook

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Thursday, September 24, 2020

Show Me Saturday! Sounding. 26 Sept, 6-9pm

Show Me Saturday! Sounding 
w/Francisco Perales, Mr. Sanctuary 2019

Saturday, 26 September 2020, 6-9pm Pacific Time

Via Zoom, please send a request for the Zoom info to: SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Hey guys,

Hope you’re having an easy Thursday! Wanted to remind you that this Saturday (9/26) at 6PM we will be having a Sounding Demo via Zoom. We will be learning the steps of this fun and orgasm intensive kink from a great friend up in LA, Mr. Sanctuary Leather 2019 Francisco Perales! Please join for an educational and kinky evening!

Presenter's Bio: Francisco Perales aka “The Navy Cub” was born and raised in Fort Worth, Texas. He joined the U.S. Navy at the age of 18, is a 10 year war veteran who served three tours in Iraq, one in Kuwait, and his last tour was in Afghanistan. Francisco works for the V.O.A., Volunteers of America, a nonprofit organization that aims to help homeless veterans find housing and jobs. 

Currently, Francisco resides in Los Angeles, is a member of the Onyx chapter Southwest since its initial conception in 2015, is on the board of Bears L.A., and holds the following titles: Mr. Los Angeles Cub 2016 (the last person to hold this title) and Mr. Sanctuary Leather 2019. 

Francisco considers himself to be a heavy BDSM and Kinky man that lives by the motto “Let no body set the narrative to your leather journey!"

FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at

https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.

FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.FetishMenSanDiego.org


Local Event Pages on Facebook

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Tuesday, September 22, 2020

Show Me Saturday! 9/26 We Are Learning Sounding!

 Hey guys! 

Hope you’re having an amazing Tuesday! This Saturday(9/26) at 6PM PST we are having a Sounding Demo via Zoom! An amazing friend of the Leather Community, Mr. Sanctuary 2019 Francisco Perales! Not only is he an amazing flogger he’s very educated on sounding and I am so excited that he agreed to do this for us, he will be showing us to steps from beginning to end. 

Please email SignMeUpForEvent{at] Gmail that you’re interested and you’ll be given the login information! Please bring questions and if you have your own equipment join along! Looking forward to seeing your faces!

FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at

https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.

FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.FetishMenSanDiego.org


Local Event Pages on Facebook

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Monday, September 14, 2020

Watt Wednesday (9/16)

 Hey fellas!

Hope your weekend was fun and relaxing! Wanted to let you guys know we are having another Watt Wednesday coming up this week from 7PM PST - 9PM PST via Zoom. We will be watching a couple videos and discuss about them afterwards! (These guys are hilarious, kinky and nice to look at) they touch on a bunch of different kinks and it brings up some great topics. We are also going to try something but need your participation! I’m sure you’ve heard/seen the bdsm quiz to gauge how kinky you are, we were curious if you think the test is accurate? Has it changed over time and where do you use it? (Link below)

If any or all of this interests you please come and join us! To get the login information please email SignMeUpForEvent {aT]GMAIL that you’re interested in Wednesday’s event and you’ll get a response with the login.

Also! An amazing new title holder Mr. Bullet 2020 (Brandon) has been hosting a discussion called Leather Talk via Zoom every Tuesday at 9PM PST. He interviews current/previous title holders and influential people within the leather/kink community for about 30 minutes and then there’s an open discussion with the attendees and speakers. It’s a lot of fun and I highly recommend popping your head in and checking it out, you won’t be sorry! I’ll post the link below!

Leather Talk

https://www.facebook.com/events/733253044120865/


BDSM Quiz:

https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode


Future events:

FMSD meets the 3rd Wednesday of the month, 7-9pm via Zoom

FMSD meets the 4th Saturday of the month, time varies, via Zoom

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Sunday, September 6, 2020

9/6 Sunday Planning Meeting

 Hey fellas! 

Hope you’re keeping cool and staying safe with these crazy fires and terrible heatwave that’s going on. Wanted to let you know that today (9/6) at 4PM PST we will be having our planning meeting via zoom. Please email SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMAIL that you’re interested and you’ll get a response with the login information. We would love to hear your thoughts and see your face!

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Monday, August 17, 2020

Wednesday Zoom Social

 Hey guys,

Hope you had a great weekend and you’re keeping cool during this heatwave! This coming up Wednesday (8/19) at 7PM PST we will be having a Zoom social. We will be watching 2 Watts the Safeword videos and discuss our takeaways. The show is hosted by 2 guys who are very popular in the leather/kink community Pup Amp and Mr. Kristofer, they touch on a lot of topics and thought it would be good to watch and talk about them. 

To RSVP please email SignMeUpForEvent{aT]Gmail that you’re interested in this weeks event and you will get a response with the Zoom login information. Hope to see you there and if you have any questions please contact Myles Ramos on Facebook. 

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Saturday, August 1, 2020

Sunday Planning Meeting

Morning fellas! 

Tomorrow is the first Sunday of the month which means....PLANNING MEETING!
Please cum and join us while we plan the events for the month, the meeting will start at 4PM PST to 6PM PST. We would love to get your input on what you would like to see or learn. We normally have demos but that was when we could see each other in person! If anyone would like to offer their time and expertise, please let us know! We would love to hear from you. 

Please email SignMeUpForEvent{at)Gmail to RSVP. If you have any questions please contact Myles Ramos on Facebook. Have an amazing rest of your Saturday and see you tomorrow!
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Wednesday, July 29, 2020

BDSM in the time of COVID-19

Morning guys!

Hope your week has been going smoothly! Tonight at 7PM PST via Zoom, Avatar Los Angeles is having a panel discussion with Jen Laws, Joe Gallagher, Tyger Yoshi and Daddy Rod ONYX! Should be an amazing talk about public health and being kinky during a pandemic. There is a link below That’ll take you to there Facebook event with the Zoom information!

Facebook Event:
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Wednesday, July 22, 2020

Saturday Social (7/25)

Hey fellas!

Hope your hump day is going wonderful and you’re being extra naughty! Wanted to let you know that this Saturday’s (7/25) social will start a bit later, we will have the room open at 6PM PST and will be going till 8PM PST. There is no agenda for this social, just having fun and being with our brothers! 


Please email SignMeUpForEvent(AT)Gmail to RSVP! If you have any questions please message Myles Ramos via Facebook. Can’t wait to see your sexy faces!

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Monday, July 20, 2020

Kink Exhibition Video for Virtual Leather Realm 2020 is now on the FMSD website

BLUF: FMSD made a video for Virtual Leather Realm 2020 of some of the kinks we enjoy. Click on "Kink Exhibition 2020" on the FMSD webpage

https://FetishMenSanDiego.org/ 

Detailed message -- 
As you know, big social events we look forward to are canceled. Fortunately technology exists that allow us to connect with each other without being in close physical proximity with each other. Examples include the socials and discussions FMSD, and other groups, have had via Zoom over the past several months. 

San Diego Pride 2020 was last weekend and even though there was not a large gathering of people and the festival grounds were not set up, Leather Realm ran several Zoom sessions both Saturday and Sunday. On both days, at noon, the video of images FMSD made was shown. 

Where did the images come from? Several weeks ago a call went out to FMSD to send the images of kink they'd like included in the video. We used what was sent and filled in with images from Scott's / SmithBeard's library of images from FMSD and other local San Diego events since 2012. 

Where did the music come from? Our own John Maynard created the music. Why is this name familiar? He ran a nightly series of music and singing, called "No One Should Be Alone", for 80 of the first 90 days of physical distancing when COVID-19 hit us.
https://www.FaceBook.com/JustJohn760, 

This is the first time FMSD has undertaken this kind of creative endeavor. Your thoughtful comments, reactions, and responses of what we did and suggestions of what to do differently next time are welcome. 

Thank you!

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Monday, July 13, 2020

Social & Kinky Show & Tell

Hey guys!

Hope you’re keeping cool during this heatwave! I wanted to let you guys know that this Wednesday (7/15) at 7pm PST we will be having a social and Kinky Show and Tell. Please bring an item you would like to share that makes you feel sexy while using it! 

Please email SignMeUpForEvent{at]Gmail for the login information! If you have any questions please contact Myles R. on Facebook. 
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Thursday, July 2, 2020

FMSD Planning Meeting 7/5

Hey guys!

Hope your week is going well and you’re keeping safe! We will be having a planning meeting this Sunday (7/5) at 4pm-6pm. Wanting to learn about the Pup lifestyle? Want to learn about flogging? Curious about CBT? Would you like more social time via Zoom, perhaps with games? 

We would love for you to join us and let us know what YOU would like to learn for future zoom sessions. We are racking our brains to come up with future topics to discuss and we need your help! 

If you would love to join please email SignMeUpForEvent {at] Gmail for the login information. 

What: FMSD Planning Group Meeting
When: Sunday, 5 July 2020, 4-6pm
Where: Zoom, request info from SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail
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Saturday, June 27, 2020

REMINDER Zoom Social (6/27)

Morning guys!

Hope your day is starting out well! I wanted to remind everyone that we will be having our Zoom Social today (6/27) at 12pm PST. Please email SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMAIL that you’re interested in joining today’s afternoon festivities! If you have any questions please contact Myles R. on Facebook. 

Can’t wait to see your sexy faces!
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Thursday, June 25, 2020

FMSD Social Via Zoom, Sat. 27 June 2020, noon-2pm

Morning gentlemen,

Hope your day is going great! Wanted to let you know that this coming up Saturday (6/27) we will be having a social at noon till 2pm. It’ll be like our past zoom meetings where we check on how our brothers are doing and talk about random fun stuff! We would love to see your sexy faces and catch up! If you are interested please send an email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail. If you have any questions please contact Myles R. via Facebook. 

Zoom info will be sent out Friday evening and Saturday morning.

Have an amazingly kinky day!

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Tuesday, June 16, 2020

Kinky Show & Tell, Wed 17 June, 7-9pm - corrected email address

Update: 10:58pm, 16 June 2020: Apologies for the typo in the email address. It is:
SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail dot com
Please send an email and request the Zoom meeting information for the event. Thank you.

Hey Guys,

Hope your weekend has been a fun one and you're not getting into to much trouble! Just wanted to remind you all that we are having our Kinky Show & Tell coming up this Wednesday 6/17 at 7PM - 9PM. Please bring an item you enjoy playing with, either giving it or receiving it. We would love for you to introduce yourself, let us know how you are doing, and share with us why you enjoy the toy. 

Please send an email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMaiL to get the information to join the Zoom meeting. We'll send out the info Tuesday evening.

If you have any questions please contact Myles R. on Facebook.

Stay safe kinky men!

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Sunday, June 14, 2020

REMINDER Kinky Show & Tell, Wed 17 June, 7-9pm

Hey Guys,

Hope your weekend has been a fun one and you're not getting into to much trouble! Just wanted to remind you all that we are having our Kinky Show & Tell coming up this Wednesday 6/17 at 7PM - 9PM. Please bring an item you enjoy playing with, either giving it or receiving it. We would love for you to introduce yourself, let us know how you are doing, and share with us why you enjoy the toy. 

Please send an email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMaiL to get the information to join the Zoom meeting. We'll send out the info Tuesday evening.

If you have any questions please contact Myles R. on Facebook.

Stay safe kinky men!


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Sunday, June 7, 2020

CALL FOR VIRTUAL PRESENTERS

Hey Guys,

Hope your day is going easy. We had Leather Realm ask us if we have anyone within our group wanting to lead a demo or presentation for the online Leather Realm event as part of San Diego Pride 2020. We are wondering if anyone would like to step up and share you knowledge and present your stuff to the masses! Demos and presentations can be 30 minutes to 2 hours. This is for anytime between mid June to mid July and if you're interested let us know as soon as possible. If you have any questions please contact Myles R. or Scott S. via Facebook.
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Kinky Show & Tell, Wed 17 June, 7-9pm

Hello everyone,

Hope your day is going great! We will be having an online social the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month till we can get together. This coming up Wednesday (6/17), 7-9pm we will be having a check in and a Kinky Show & Tell! Please bring an item you enjoy playing with, either giving it or receiving it. We would love for you to introduce yourself, let us know how you are doing, and share with us why you enjoy the toy. 

Please send an email to SignMeUpForEvent {aT] GMail (dot) COM to get the information to join the Zoom meeting. If you have any questions please contact Myles R. on Facebook.

Be sure to mark your calendars to join us, on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month at 7-9pm, via Zoom. More details when we figure out what we'll be doing but we know we'll be doing something those evenings!
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Tuesday, May 26, 2020

SF LDG Presents: An Evening with Guy Baldwin

Host: San Francisco Leathermen's Discussion Group (SF LDG)

When: Wednesday, 27 May 2020, 7:30-9:30pm

Where: Online Event - https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89777151624


Connection, physical touch, all the things gay men have repeatedly been told not to do en masse—for various reasons—in the last fifty years; they are being told not to do again. Refreshingly so is everyone else this time, but still.

Ironically this virus, while capable of being deadly to anyone of any age or gender, is most dangerous to the survivors of the last epidemic—older men with compromised immune systems. As with any epidemic, the toll isn’t merely on the physical health of the infected, it is on the mental health of us all. What's more, evidence suggests that it is men aged 18 to 43 who are finding these isolating times the most challenging.

Given all that, we thought who better to talk to than someone who has more than a few times in his life, in more than a few ways, helped to lead his people - leathermen and kinksters, through difficult times—Guy Baldwin.

We’ll speak to Guy from his home in LA, and pick his brains on how we get through this without making it worse for ourselves, as we once again deal not only with managing our own needs and the risks we’re prepared to take to meet them, but also vastly diverse views on what constitutes responsible, respectful behavior and what doesn’t.

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Wednesday, May 20, 2020

How Are You Doing? TONIGHT!

Hey guys!

Hope your week has been going well and your hump day is going very....humpy!

Tonight we will be on Zoom at 7pm tonight, please send an email to SignMeUpForEvent[at]Gmail for the login information! If you have any issues or questions please send me a message to Myles Ramos on Facebook.
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Sunday, May 17, 2020

How Are You Doing?!

Hello Gentlemen,

Hope you are all keeping sane and healthy during these crazy times! We can’t wait to hug and love on each other once this is all over and things get back to semi normal.

We are setting up a Zoom room this coming up Wednesday (5/20 @ 7pm) to see how our brothers are coping with quarantine. We would love for you to join, show your smiling faces and talk with your tribe!

Please sign up at SignMeUpForEvent[at]Gmail so we can send you the information to join the room. If you have any questions please contact Myles Ramos via Facebook.

We look forward to when we can meet face to face!
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Wednesday, March 18, 2020

FMSD - Join John on-line for song and conversation, daily at 6pm

Men,


In this time of PHYSICAL distancing and PHYSICAL separation, we do NOT need to be socially separated and distanced.


Please consider joining John, one of our own in FMSD (the main support behind Myles, Mr San Diego Eagle 2019) as he sings and chats with us on Twitch.


https://www.Twitch.TV/justjohn760

To text chat with John in the Twitch chat room you need to log in with a Twitch account. It's quick, easy, and free to create and log in with a Twitch account. Follow the prompts after clicking on the "Sign Up" button on Twitch.TV.


Here is John's message:

Thank you Scott for your support in this time .... I have talked to so so many people these last few days that just seem to be alone.... many people live alone and are unable to leave their homes in this hard time.... I want everyone to know that I love you and am here for you..... no one should have to be alone during these hard times and if I can just one person smile then I have done my job ..... it’s going to be hard but we are going to get through this..... TOGETHER!!!!

I am doing this every day at 6pm for the next few months.

==================

What: Songs and conversation with John

When: Daily, 6pm for an hour or so

Where: on-line at https://www.Twitch.TV/justsjohn760

Why: Remain connected with others and be with a friendly face and voice for a while

Who: John hosts and we're all invited.

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Sunday, March 15, 2020

FMSD postponing in-person events due to Coronavirus

FetishMen SanDiego&
Coronavirus / Covid-19

FMSD is postponing in-person events
until the Governor for California lifts
the "six foot radius" ban
on interpersonal contact.


Please contact us at
fetishmensandiego (at) gmail
if you have experience with --
and would like to help us figure out how to use --
one of the free video teleconferencing services.  

We'd like to investigate how to stay connected and keep the conversation going while we're being smart about health concerns.


FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.


FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.FetishMenSanDiego.org



Local Event Pages on Facebook


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Tuesday, March 10, 2020

SDLP - FMSD Volunteer call for All Clubs Night

San Diego Leather Pride - 

All Clubs Night and Leather Olympics

Friday, March 13, 2020
Worldbeat Cultural Center

2100 Park Blvd, San Diego, CA 92101
6 pm to 11 pm


FMSD has won both of the Leather Olympics we have attended. C'mon out to help us continue our winning streak and turn a hat trick!
We'll meet at the FMSD table and share with those who stop by what FMSD is and does. It's also an opportunity to see and chat with other groups.

Help us show off our Club Colors and reach out to new members.

We need two (02) men to form a team and compete for bragging rights and cool prizes in the Leather Olympics!!! There will be three events!
The winning teams are determined by the audience!!!
Prizes for 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place teams!!!!

2019 Winners:
1st Place Club X / FMSD
2nd Place SD Bears
3rd Place Leather Boys of San Diego

Previous winners include: San Diego Girl of Leather, FMSD, Club X, Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, and The Cash Cows!

Cost: Support the venue, otherwise free.


San Diego Leather Pride & Contest 2020

https://sdleatherpride.simpletix.com/

Saturday, Mar 14 at 5 PM 11:30 PM

All SDLP Events at WorldBeat Cultural Center unless otherwise noted...

2100 Park Blvd, San Diego, CA 92101



https://www.facebook.com/events/worldbeat-cultural-center/san-diego-leather-pride-contest-2020/122229135666842/



FMSD - "Rope for Capture" w/boy doriam

Wednesday, 18 March 2020, 7 PM – 9 PM 

Upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures

2525 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104



Rope is nice to look at and feels great, but when you're ready to take someone down and use their hole(s), there just isn't enough time for the pretty shit.
Join boy doriam in this class for take down play and aggressive style rope, inspired by Hojojutsu, used to capture the bottom and keep them there. This class will cover two basic knots and several hitches used for quick and dirty rope and how to safely and securely bind your bottom.

*note: Class will be divided into theory and practical application, please be prepared to tie/be tied by bringing rope and/or stretching before the class itself.

Bio - boy doriam

boy doriam is a LatinX, Poly, Homosexual, Panromantic, Leatherman and Full-time College student by day, and by night he is ALSO a Full-time college because college is hard. He’s been active in San Diego's community since 2015 as a member of Club X (2016-Present), President of Fetish Men San Diego (2016-2018) Co-Founder and Headmeister of Ledermore (2019-present), and Producer of SCALE Weekend (@SCALE_Weekend). In 2018 he represented the San Diego community as Mr. San Diego Leather and the boy traveled sampling conferences nationwide, and bringing back his learnings.


He now is incredibly fortunate and thankful to continue travelling across the country to conferences and events teaching a variety of classes between hard skills, soft skills, and discussion panels. boy doriam was honored with being the 2019 Man of the Year during the San Diego Leather Community Awards, and was a Pantheon of Leather nominee the same year.



Monthly Recurring Events:

- 1st Sunday, 4-6pm, FMSD Planning Meeting, RSVP for venue info
- 1st Saturday, 4-7pm, Cigars & Boots, back deck at PECS
- 2nd Friday, 10pm-midnight, Flogging Friday at the San Diego Eagle
- 3rd Wednesday, 7-9pm, FMSD discussion/demo/workshop, upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures
- 4th Saturday, noon-4pm, FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop/social/potluck/demo, RSVP for venue info

Events in March 2020:

- Sat, 07 March, 4-7pm: Cigars & Boots, back deck at PECS
- Sun, 8 Mar, 4-6pm, FMSD Planning Meeting: RSVP for venue info (NOTE: 2nd Sunday in March)
- Fri, 13 March, 4pm, Leather Pride Flag raising at Hillcrest Pride Flag
- Fri, 13 March, 6-10pm, All Clubs Night at Worldbeat Cultural Center
- Fri - Sun, 13-15 Mar, time varies by event: San Diego Leather Pride Weekend, at the World Beat Cultural Center
- Sat, 14 March, ??am - ??pm, SDLP Contestant Interviews open to the public, Worldbeat Cultural Center
- Sat, 14 March, ??pm - ??pm, SDLP workshops and demos, Worldbeat Cultural Center
- Sat, 14 March, 5pm - 11pm, SDLP Mr and Ms San Diego Leather 2020 and Bootblack competition, Worldbeat Cultural Center
- Sun, 15 March, ??am - ??pm, SDLP Victory Brunch and Keynote Speaker, Worldbeat Cultural Center
- Wed, 18 Mar, 7-9pm: FMSD Demo and Discussion: "Rope for Capture" by Doriam, upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures
- Sat, 28 Mar, noon-4pm: FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop: Bastadino with Rob Ray, private venue near SDSU

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Thursday, March 5, 2020

Cigars & Boots + Leather Pride week

San Diego Cigars & Boots

Saturday, March 7, 2020
Pecs Bar
2046 University Avenue 92104
4 pm to 7 pm

Everyone is welcome whether you smoke cigars, cigarettes, pipes, vapes or nothing at all. Wear whatever you like but leather, uniforms, levis, rubber are encouraged. Everyone is welcome with open arms. Daddy Barry is the host so please feel free to come up and introduce yourself. Come help us celebrate the New Year with old and new friends.

San Diego Cigars & Boots is held at Pecs Bar at the corner of University and Alabama from 4pm until 7pm on the first Saturday of the month.

Cost: Support the venue, otherwise free.




The Butch Revenue & Daddy's Bake Sale

SATURDAY MAR 7 AT 4 PM – 7 PM, The Merrow

San Diego Leather Pride and Annie Romano proudly present THE BUTCH REVUE.

Come out on Saturday, March 7 from 4PM to 7PM, before Bear Night San Diego  for the Cocktail Hour and Show benefiting San Diego Leather Pride and SCALE Weekend !



San Diego Leather Pride & Contest 2020
MAR 11 AT 7:30 PM – MAR 15 AT 10:30 PM

https://sdleatherpride.simpletix.com/

Mar 11 at 7:30 PM – Mar 15 at 10:30 PM

Events at WorldBeat Cultural Center unless otherwise noted...
Celebrate your Leather during San Diego Leather Pride week, and help us celebrate our outgoing Titleholders while welcoming those who have stepped up for 2020!


San Diego Leather Pride is on schedule for March 11-15! Social and educational events happening throughout the week all lead up to the much anticipated San Diego Bootblack, Ms. and Mr. San Diego Leather contests on Saturday, March 14th.

Celebrate the kickoff at Tiger's Pictionary on March 11 at #1 Fifth Avenue, and All Club's Night + Opening Ceremonies on March 13th!

Come and join us for a weekend of revelry and celebration, as we celebrate you who make our community so unique!

A HUGE "Thank You" to:
SD Bootblack 2019 Pup Rowdy, Ms. San Diego Leather 2019 Serafine Sawyer, and Mr. San Diego Leather 2019 Jody Mitchell for their work representing San Diego in 2019.





https://www.facebook.com/events/worldbeat-cultural-center/san-diego-leather-pride-contest-2020/122229135666842/

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Tiger's Pictionary - Sdlp2020 Edition 

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 11, 2020 AT 7:30 PM – 10:30 PM at #1 Fifth Avenue

Join us at 7:30(ish) Sharp! for Tiger's Pictionary, San Diego's longest running weekly fundraising and pictionary game! Meet the contestants and get to know the outgoing Title Family as we start the celebration!





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FRIDAY, MARCH 13, 2020 AT 4 PM

Leather Pride Flag Raising 
Hillcrest Pride Flag

The San Diego Leather Pride weekend officially begins Friday with the raising of the Leather Pride flag at the Hillcrest flagpole (University & Normal). Join us as we kick off the official SDLP events with the flag raising at 4pm!


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Monthly Recurring Events:

- 1st Sunday, FMSD Planning Meeting, RSVP for venue info, 4-6pm (Special Date in March: 2nd Sunday, 8 March)
- 1st Saturday, Cigars & Boots, back deck at PECS, 4-7pm
- 2nd Friday, Flogging Friday at the San Diego Eagle, 10pm-midnight
- 3rd Wednesday, FMSD discussion/demo/workshop, upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures, 7-9pm
- 4th Saturday, FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop/social/potluck/demo, RSVP for venue info, noon-4pm

Events in March 2020:

- Sat, 07 March, 4-7pm: Cigars & Boots, back deck at PECS
- Sun, 8 Mar, 4-6pm, FMSD Planning Meeting: RSVP for venue info (NOTE: 2nd Sunday in March)
- Fri - Sun, 13-15 Mar, time varies by event: San Diego Leather Pride Weekend, at the World Beat Cultural Center
- Wed, 18 Mar, 7-9pm: FMSD Demo and Discussion: "Rope for Capture" by Doriam, upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures
- Sat, 28 Mar, noon-4pm: FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop: Bastadino with Rob Ray, private venue near SDSU

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Friday, February 28, 2020

SD Leather Community Awards Saturday, 29 Feb, 6-10pm, Urban Mo's

It's finally here!



The San Diego Leather Community Awards is Saturday evening, 6-10pm at Urban Mo's.

Urban MO's Bar & Grill

308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103

Urban Mo's

From the producers of the award event, "This is to honor our fellow community members, businesses and organizations for the outstanding support they give to everyone regardless of orientation, ethnicity, or sexual identity."

Come join us to learn who won as well as socialize with some of the Finest Leather Folk in town.
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Friday, February 21, 2020

TOMORROW! Sat, 22 Feb, Noon-4pm: Potluck, Social, hot tub and pool, and "Things That Pinch" workshop

Reminder: Please send email with "Pinch" in the subject line and your first and last name in the body of the email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail for venue information even if you have RSVP'd to previous events at this location. 

Thank you!

Things That Pinch "Learn It - Do It" workshop w/social, hot tub, and pool with Officer Wes

Saturday, February 22, 12:00 – 4:00pm
FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop/social/potluck/demo

NOTE: This event is for 18+ male identifying persons.


About this workshop

Things That Pinch: clips, clamps, and other pinchers is a welcoming workshop for all to discuss ways to play with some common household items for a great time of sensual torment with your loved ones. We'll touch on the how’s, where’s, and with-what’s you need to know to enjoy a good pinchy time by yourself or with a friend.

About our presenter

Officer Wes has been presenting on a variety of fun kink topics for over twenty eight years.  Officer Wes has an open leather family built around shared values of respect, honor, trust, and love.  He has a slave and dogslave and is himself in service to a Daddy. 

Resources and information at www.officerwes.com


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San Diego Leather Community Awards

Saturday, February 29⋅6:00 – 10:30pm
Urban MO's Bar & Grill 308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA


To honor our fellow community members, businesses and organizations for the outstanding support they give to everyone regardless of orientation, ethnicity, or sexual identity.

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FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at

https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.


FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.FetishMenSanDiego.org



Local Event Pages on Facebook


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Wednesday, February 19, 2020

Sat, 22 Feb "Learn It - Do It" Workshop, social, potluck, pool, and hot tub

Please RSVP to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail for venue information even if you have RSVP'd to previous events at this location. Thank you!

This is one of the months where the 3rd Wednesday and 4th Saturday are in the same week. Can you handle all the FMSD goodness?

Things That Pinch "Learn It - Do It" workshop w/social, hot tub, and pool with Officer Wes

Saturday, February 22, 12:00 – 4:00pm
FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop/social/potluck/demo
Send email with "Pinch" in the subject line and your first and last name in the body of the email message to: SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail to receive the venue info.

NOTE: This event is for 18+ male identifying persons.


About this workshop

Things That Pinch: clips, clamps, and other pinchers is a welcoming workshop for all to discuss ways to play with some common household items for a great time of sensual torment with your loved ones. We'll touch on the how’s, where’s, and with-what’s you need to know to enjoy a good pinchy time by yourself or with a friend.

About our presenter

Officer Wes has been presenting on a variety of fun kink topics for over twenty eight years.  Officer Wes has an open leather family built around shared values of respect, honor, trust, and love.  He has a slave and dogslave and is himself in service to a Daddy. 

Resources and information at www.officerwes.com


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San Diego Leather Community Awards

Saturday, February 29⋅6:00 – 10:30pm
Urban MO's Bar & Grill 308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA


To honor our fellow community members, businesses and organizations for the outstanding support they give to everyone regardless of orientation, ethnicity, or sexual identity.

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FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at

https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.


FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.FetishMenSanDiego.org



Local Event Pages on Facebook


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Tuesday, February 18, 2020

Reminder: Wed, 19 Feb, 7-9pm, "Meanings, Uses and Mis-uses of Pain" lecture with Dr. John McConnell

Gentle Reminder: "Meanings, Uses, and Mis-uses of Pain" lecture

Wednesday, 19 Feb, 7-9pm, upstairs at Pleasures & Treasures

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Come hear a local voice with decades of experience and insight to kink, Leather, and BDSM speak about pain in our BDSM relationships. 

"Meanings, Uses, and Mis-uses of Pain" lecture with Dr. John McConnell

Wednesday, February 19, 7:00pm – 9:00pm
Pleasures and Treasures, 2525 University Ave, San Diego


About this presentation

This 90-minute workshop will cover pain-play from the biological, evolutionary, and psychological perspectives. The meanings of pain in Western Culture has morphed over the centuries. In the late 20th century, the (then named) BDSM community fixated on the simple idea that the endorphin high explains why people enjoy pain-play. This focus came at the expense of exploring more complex emotional motivations related to the places pain-players go inside their heads. As pain play moves from gentle to intense, players move through complex emotional and mental states which gives their play deeper meaning. These meanings give a fuller understanding of motivations which are adaptive and healthy, leading to the conclusion that pain-play can be synergistic with deep loving relationships.

The last part of this talk looks at the shadow sides of physical and psychological pain, which is how they can erupt unwanted or be consciously abused in relationships. Most often psychological pain between partners is not intentional. What does pain mean, here, when it is neither wanted nor useful? When pain is mis-used then at least one of the partners feels worse about their self: they feel de-valued. This is the exact opposite of healthy erotic pain which leaves both partners feeling more valued by both self and other.


About our presenter

Dr. McConnell is a Psychologist, a Marriage and Family Therapist, and an Adjunct Professor at the Chicago School of Professional Psychology (PSY100673.)  He has a private GSRD-affirming practice in Hillcrest. He supervises two Interns who provide therapy on a sliding fee. About half his clients are in complex relationships such as poly or D/s. He also provides individual counseling for clients dealing with such typical issues as depression, anxiety, life transitions, conflicts at work, and inner financial health. Licensed in 1987, for 30 years Dr. McConnell has given presentations to both professional and community audiences on Gender, Relationship and Sexual Diversity (GSRD).

 www.JohnMcConnellPhd.com ∙ John@JohnMcConnellPhD.com ∙ 619-993-3397


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This is one of the months where the 3rd Wednesday and 4th Saturday are in the same week. Can you handle all the FMSD-goodness?

Things That Pinch "Learn It - Do It" workshop w/social, hot tub, and pool with Officer Wes

Saturday, February 22, 12:00 – 4:00pm
FMSD "Learn It - Do It" workshop/social/potluck/demo
RSVP to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail for venue info

About this workshop

Things That Pinch: clips, clamps, and other pinchers is a welcoming workshop for all to discuss ways to play with some common household items for a great time of sensual torment with your loved ones. We'll touch on the how’s, where’s, and with-what’s you need to know to enjoy a good pinchy time by yourself or with a friend.


About our presenter

Officer Wes has been presenting on a variety of fun kink topics for over twenty eight years.  Officer Wes has an open leather family built around shared values of respect, honor, trust, and love.  He has a slave and dogslave and is himself in service to a Daddy. 

Resources and information at www.officerwes.com


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San Diego Leather Community Awards

Saturday, February 29⋅6:00 – 10:30pm
Urban MO's Bar & Grill 308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA


To honor our fellow community members, businesses and organizations for the outstanding support they give to everyone regardless of orientation, ethnicity, or sexual identity.

---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at

https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.


FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.FetishMenSanDiego.org



Local Event Pages on Facebook


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