Sunday, November 28, 2021

Sensation Play Workshop - 11 Dec 2021, Noon - 4pm

Before Midnight, Friday, 10 Dec, please send email indicating your commitment to attend the event (RSVP) --> SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Responses will be sent starting Wednesday, 08 Dec.

Sensation Play, and Potluck @Tom's Place

Open to those who identify as male who are 18 years of age and older.

Saturday, 11 December 2021, Noon-4pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of verifying you completed COVID-19 Vaccination prior to 26 Nov 2021. 

If you have previously verified your vaccination status there is no need to send it again.


Fetish Men San Diego is hosting a Sensation Play Workshop, Saturday, December 11th from Noon - 4:00pm.

FMSD supports negotiation and consent in all kink play and granting consent and negotiating well is hindered if you are in an altered state. Therefore this is a non-alcoholic event and is open to all of our brothers 18 years of age and older. It's also a potluck so break out your best entrée or appetizer to share with the group. We will provide soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and salsa and queso.

Description of Event:
Certainly, we are all familiar with the sense of touch from light and sensual to intensely strong. What about the other senses? Do they add or detract from the overall experience? What if you significantly reduce one of them like wearing a blindfold or putting in ear plugs? How do things change? What do you want to experience?

Please bring your sensation play toys, blindfolds, and other sensory play items you have to share with others. Please bring a massage table if you have it so we can have several stations set up for all of you.

Of course we'll need stunt bottoms, too.

Event Location Info:
This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail by Friday, 10 December. 
Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 26 November 2021) is required to attend this event.

There is no need to send a picture of your vaccination card if you have attended one of our events this calendar year. We have noted you have verified your vaccination and also have signed the wavier of liability form.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.
Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Sunday, November 7, 2021

Flogging Workshop and Impact Play w/Potluck

Before Midnight, Friday, 12 Nov, please send email indicating your commitment to attend the event (RSVP) --> SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Responses will be sent starting Wednesday, 10 Nov.

Flogging Workshop, Impact Play, and Potluck @Tom's Place

Saturday, 13 November 2021, Noon-4pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of verifying you completed COVID-19 Vaccination prior to 29 Oct 2021. If you have previously verified your vaccination status there is no need to send it again.


Fetish Men San Diego is hosting a Flogging Workshop, Saturday, November 13th from Noon - 4:00pm.

FMSD supports negotiation and consent in all kink play and granting consent and negotiating well is hindered if you are in an altered state. Therefore this is a non-alcoholic event. It's also a potluck so break out your best entrée or appetizer to share with the group. We will provide soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and salsa and queso.

This event is a bit different from past demos. The thrust of this event is to get you involved in flogging. Please bring your flogger(s) if you have them and be prepared to throw them. Please be willing to be coached to improve your technique and increase your skill. Of course we'll need stunt bottoms, too.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail by Friday, 12 November. 
Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 29 October 2021) is required to attend this event.

There is no need to send a picture of your vaccination card if you have attended one of our events this calendar year. We have noted you have verified your vaccination and also have signed the wavier of liability form.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.
Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Wednesday, October 13, 2021

Last Call! - Mummification and Suspension Demo/Workshop and Potluck, Sat 16 Oct, Noon - 4pm, Tom's Place

Responses were Wednesday, 13 October.

SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Pallet Wrap Mummification & Suspension Demo/Workshop and Potluck Social @Tom's Place

Saturday, 16 Oct 2021, Noon-4pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of verifying you completed COVID-19 Vaccination prior to 01 Oct 2021. If you have previously sent a picture of your card or showed your COVID-19 vaccination card at a previous event, there is no need to send it again.

Fetish Men San Diego is hosting a Mummification and Suspension 
Demo and Workshop with a Potluck, 
Saturday, October 16th from Noon - 4:00pm.

Huge rolls of plastic wrap aren't just for food leftovers or for keeping boxes stacked on a pallet from tumbling during shipment. It can also be used for mummification and restriction of movement. Combine that with being suspended and that is what we will be demonstrating.

We will also have IMPACT PLAY instructors available to teach and to demo techniques and tools. Did you not have an opportunity to learn how to throw a flogger or some of the spanking techniques? Please feel free to step up and say you want to learn. The more flogging Tops we train and vet the more flogging bottoms can be pleased. By the way, we will need flogging and spanking bottoms otherwise it is an exercise in the sound of one hand clapping.

We hope to see you at this event!

FMSD supports negotiation and consent in all kink play and granting consent and negotiating well is hindered if you are in an altered state. Therefore this is a non-alcoholic event. It's also a potluck so break out your best entrée or appetizer to share with the group. We will provide soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and salsa and queso.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail by Friday, 15 October
Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 01 October 2021) is required to attend this event.

There is no need to send a picture of your vaccination card if you have attended one of our events this calendar year. We have noted you have verified your vaccination and also have signed the wavier of liability form.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.

Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Sunday, October 10, 2021

Pallet Wrap Suspension Demo/Workshop and Potluck, Sat 16 Oct, Noon - 4pm, Tom's Place

Responses will be sent starting Wednesday, 13 October.

SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Pallet Wrap Mummification & Suspension Demo/Workshop and Potluck Social @Tom's Place

Saturday, 16 Oct 2021, Noon-4pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of verifying you completed COVID-19 Vaccination prior to 03 Sept 2021. If you have previously sent a picture of your card or showed your COVID-19 vaccination card at a previous event, there is no need to send it again.

Fetish Men San Diego is hosting a Mummification and Suspension 
Demo and Workshop with a Potluck, 
Saturday, October 16th from Noon - 4:00pm.

Huge rolls of plastic wrap aren't just for food leftovers or for keeping boxes stacked on a pallet from tumbling during shipment. It can also be used for mummification and restriction of movement. Combine that with being suspended and that is what we will be demonstrating.

We will also have IMPACT PLAY instructors available to teach and to demo techniques and tools. Did you not have an opportunity to learn how to throw a flogger or some of the spanking techniques? Please feel free to step up and say you want to learn. The more flogging Tops we train and vet the more flogging bottoms can be pleased. By the way, we will need flogging and spanking bottoms otherwise it is an exercise in the sound of one hand clapping.

We hope to see you at this event!

FMSD supports negotiation and consent in all kink play and granting consent and negotiating well is hindered if you are in an altered state. Therefore this is a non-alcoholic event. It's also a potluck so break out your best entrée or appetizer to share with the group. We will provide soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and salsa and queso.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail by Friday, 15 October
Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 01 October 2021) is required to attend this event.

There is no need to send a picture of your vaccination card if you have attended one of our events this calendar year. We have noted you have verified your vaccination and also have signed the wavier of liability form.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.

Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Saturday, October 2, 2021

SWAP MEAT - Halloween Edition

 


Hi Kinksters!  Next SWAP MEAT is on Oct. 22, 2021 7-10pm at The Merrow’s open lot space. Clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that may need a new home (or dungeon.) Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet other men to connect over fetishes, toys & gear (off the apps.) This is a space for all men into leather, fetish gear and the kink curious to connect with other male energy and make new friends. If you're curious about the leather/kink, this is a safe and open atmosphere to start exploring. :-) (Swap Meat is on the 4th Friday of the month.) ⛓😎⛓ 

-We follow all current state, local  guidelines for health & safety. Masks required for non-vaxxed. Recommended for vaxxed. DM for more info.
 

7-10pm
No Cover
Open Air Space
Live Demos
St. Andrews Cross
Pup Mosh Area
Bootblack
DJ/Visuals

 

WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO GEAR UP PROUDLY IN LEATHER/RUBBER/HARNESS/ALL KINK GEAR FOR PRIORITY SEATING.

SWAP MEAT showcases a variety of live fetish demos (w approval.) Forward this to those interested. Free to enter/$10 to sell/$20 for commercial retailers/labels and $10 for a reservation. -Fox.

Info/Questions:
619-352-0666
email swapmeatmarket@gmail.com
IG: instagram.com/swapmeatmarket

 

SWAP MEAT continues to grow in Southern California locations as an ongoing leather/kink/cruise event to meet and connect over leather, fetishes, toys & gear. We host puppy mosh pits, cigar socials, boot blacks, rope and flogging demos, new and used leather/items, custom harnesses and accessories. Come sell/buy/used leather gear and check out new gear and items from San Diego's finest leather custom hand crafters and tailors. If anyone has any great pics they’d like to share, please send them to swapmeatmarket@gmail.com

Pallet Wrap Suspension Demo/Workshop and Potluck, Sat 16 Oct, Noon - 4pm, Tom's Place

Responses will be sent starting Wednesday, 13 October.

SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Pallet Wrap Mummification & Suspension Demo/Workshop and Potluck Social @Tom's Place

Saturday, 16 Oct 2021, Noon-4pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of verifying you completed COVID-19 Vaccination prior to 03 Sept 2021. If you have previously sent a picture of your card or showed your COVID-19 vaccination card at a previous event, there is no need to send it again.

Fetish Men San Diego is hosting a Mummification and Suspension 
Demo and Workshop with a Potluck, 
Saturday, October 16th from Noon - 4:00pm.

Huge rolls of plastic wrap aren't just for food leftovers or for keeping boxes stacked on a pallet from tumbling during shipment. It can also be used for mummification and restriction of movement. Combine that with being suspended and that is what we will be demonstrating.

We will also have IMPACT PLAY instructors available to teach and to demo techniques and tools. Did you not have an opportunity to learn how to throw a flogger or some of the spanking techniques? Please feel free to step up and say you want to learn. The more flogging Tops we train and vet the more flogging bottoms can be pleased. By the way, we will need flogging and spanking bottoms otherwise it is an exercise in the sound of one hand clapping.

We hope to see you at this event!

FMSD supports negotiation and consent in all kink play and granting consent and negotiating well is hindered if you are in an altered state. Therefore this is a non-alcoholic event. It's also a potluck so break out your best entrée or appetizer to share with the group. We will provide soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and salsa and queso.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail by Friday, 15 October
Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 01 October 2021) is required to attend this event.

There is no need to send a picture of your vaccination card if you have attended one of our events this calendar year. We have noted you have verified your vaccination and also have signed the wavier of liability form.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.

Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Wednesday, September 22, 2021

Pallet Wrap Suspension Demo/Workshop and Potluck, Sat 16 Oct, Noon - 4pm, Tom's Place

Responses will be sent starting Wednesday, 13 October.

SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Pallet Wrap Mummification & Suspension Demo/Workshop and Potluck Social @Tom's Place

Saturday, 16 Oct 2021, Noon-4pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of verifying you completed COVID-19 Vaccination prior to 03 Sept 2021. If you have previously sent a picture of your card or showed your COVID-19 vaccination card at a previous event, there is no need to send it again.

Fetish Men San Diego is hosting a Mummification and Suspension 
Demo and Workshop with a Potluck, 
Saturday, October 16th from Noon - 4:00pm.

Huge rolls of plastic wrap aren't just for food leftovers or for keeping boxes stacked on a pallet from tumbling during shipment. It can also be used for mummification and restriction of movement. Combine that with being suspended and that is what we will be demonstrating.

We will also have IMPACT PLAY instructors available to teach and to demo techniques and tools. Did you not have an opportunity to learn how to throw a flogger or some of the spanking techniques? Please feel free to step up and say you want to learn. The more flogging Tops we train and vet the more flogging bottoms can be pleased. By the way, we will need flogging and spanking bottoms otherwise it is an exercise in the sound of one hand clapping.

We hope to see you at this event!

FMSD supports negotiation and consent in all kink play and granting consent and negotiating well is hindered if you are in an altered state. Therefore this is a non-alcoholic event. It's also a potluck so break out your best entrée or appetizer to share with the group. We will provide soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and salsa and queso.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail by Friday, 15 October
Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 01 October 2021) is required to attend this event.

There is no need to send a picture of your vaccination card if you have attended one of our events this calendar year. We have noted you have verified your vaccination and also have signed the wavier of liability form.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.

Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Sunday, September 19, 2021

SWAP MEAT - Folsom Edition, Fri 24 Sep, 7-10pm, @The Merrow



Hi Kinksters! We’ll be celebrating Folsom weekend 7pm-10 on Sept. 24, 2021 at The Merrow’s open air space. Clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that may need a new home (or dungeon.) Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear (off the apps.) This is a place for all leather men, fetishists, and the kink curious to reconnect with their familiar carnal tribe and make new friends. If you're curious about the kink and leather side of gay life, this is a safe and open atmosphere to start exploring. :-)

We follow all current state, local and The Merrow guidelines for health and safety. Masks required for non-vaxxed. Recommended for vaxxed. DM for more info.

7-10pm
No Cover
Open Air Space
Live Demos
St. Andrews Cross
Pup Mosh Area
Bootblack
DJ/Visuals

WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO GEAR UP PROUDLY IN LEATHER/RUBBER/HARNESS/ALL KINK GEAR FOR PRIORITY SEATING.

Whether you are first time curious or seasoned fetishist, this is a great event to explore kink, rubber, leather instincts. (or just kick back and cruise other guys in gear). SWAP MEAT showcases a variety of live fetish demos (w approval.) Forward this to friends interested. Free to enter/$10 to sell/$20 for commercial retailers/labels. -Fox.

Info/Questions:
619-352-0666
email swapmeatmarket@gmail.com
IG: instagram.com/swapmeatmarket

SWAP MEAT continues to grow in Southern California locations as an ongoing leather/kink/cruise event to meet and connect over leather, fetishes, toys & gear. We host puppy mosh pits, cigar socials, boot blacks, rope and flogging demos, new and used leather/items, custom harnesses and accessories. Come sell/buy/used leather gear and check out new gear and items from San Diego's finest leather custom hand crafters and tailors such as:
Moose Leather
Detoxxx Leather
Leather Love

Tuesday, September 14, 2021

Reminder: Impact Play Workshop & Potluck Social, Sat, 18 Sept, Noon-4pm

Before Midnight, Friday, 17 Sept, please send email indicating your commitment to attend the event (RSVP). Responses will be sent starting Wednesday, 15 Sept.

SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Impact Play Workshop and Potluck Social @Tom's Place

Saturday, 18 Sept 2021, Noon-4pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of verifying you completed COVID-19 Vaccination prior to 03 Sept 2021. If you have previously sent a picture of your card or showed your card at a previous event, there is no need to send it again.


Fetish Men San Diego is hosting an Impact Play Demo and Workshop, Saturday, September 18th from Noon - 4:00pm.

Have you wondered what the big deal is about receiving or giving a flogging or spanking? Would you like to dust off your tools and get some pointers on your technique? Are you starting from nothing and would like to learn about impact play and then try receiving or throwing a flogger or your hand(s)? 

In that case, we hope to see you at this event!

FMSD supports negotiation and consent in all kink play and granting consent and negotiating well is hindered if you are in an altered state. Therefore this is a non-alcoholic event. It's also a potluck so break out your best entrée or appetizer to share with the group. We will provide soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and salsa and queso.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail by Friday, 17 September. 
Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 03 September 2021) is required to attend this event.

There is no need to send a picture of your vaccination card if you have attended one of our events this calendar year. We have noted you have verified your vaccination and also have signed the wavier of liability form.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.
Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Thursday, September 9, 2021

Impact Play Workshop @Tom's Place, Sat, 18 Sept, Noon - 4pm

Before Midnight, Friday, 17 Sept, please send email indicating your commitment to attend the event (RSVP). Responses will be sent starting Wednesday, 15 Sept.

SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Impact Play Workshop and Potluck Social @Tom's Place

Saturday, 18 Sept 2021, Noon-4pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of verifying you completed COVID-19 Vaccination prior to 03 Sept 2021.


Fetish Men San Diego is hosting an Impact Play Demo and Workshop, Saturday, September 18th from Noon - 4:00pm.

Have you wondered what the big deal is about receiving or giving a flogging or spanking? Would you like to dust off your tools and get some pointers on your technique? Are you starting from nothing and would like to learn about impact play and then try receiving or throwing a flogger or your hand(s)? 

In that case, we hope to see you at this event!

FMSD supports negotiation and consent in all kink play and granting consent and negotiating well is hindered if you are in an altered state. Therefore this is a non-alcoholic event. It's also a potluck so break out your best entrée or appetizer to share with the group. We will provide soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and salsa and queso.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail indicating your commitment to attend (a.k.a. RSVP) by Friday, 17 September. Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 03 September 2021) is required to attend this event.

There is no need to send a picture of your vaccination card if you have attended one of our events this calendar year. We have noted you have verified your vaccination and also have signed the wavier of liability form.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.
Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Thursday, September 2, 2021

Cigars & Boots, Sat, 04 Sept, 4-7pm, PECS Bar


August 7th: San Diego Cigars & Boots
Saturday, August 7, 4pm – 7pm
Pecs Bar
2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104


Come join us! Everyone is welcome with open arms whether you smoke cigars, cigarettes, pipes, vapes or nothing at all. Wear whatever you like but leather, uniforms, Levi's, and rubber are encouraged. 

Daddy Barry is the host so please feel free to come up and introduce yourself. It’s a good time to make new friends in the leather community.

Cost: Support the venue, otherwise free.

San Diego Cigars & Boots is held at Pecs Bar at the corner of University and Alabama from 4pm until 7pm on the first Saturday of the month.

Thursday, August 26, 2021

Reminder 2: Pot Luck Social & Hot Tub/Pool Party, 28 Aug, Noon-4pm 1

Reminder 2: Pot Luck Social & Hot Tub/Pool Party, 28 Aug, Noon-4pm
RSVP Responses will go out starting Wednesday evening.
This is a reminder about the FMSD Pot Luck Social & Hot Tub/Pool Party, 28 Aug, Noon-4pm.
 

Our July pool party was a hit (35+ guys), so we’re doing it again! Join us for swimming, hot tub and a potluck social at a private home in the SDSU area:
  • Saturday, Aug. 28, 2021
  • 12 noon to 4 p.m.
  • Proof of full COVID-19 vaccination required
Clothing optional. Bring your own towels. Potluck: please bring your favorite entrée or appetizer to share with six people. This is a non-alcoholic event. Soft drinks, chips, and dips will be provided.

To keep you and all of our members safe, proof of full COVID-19 vaccination is required. (Last shot must have been received on/before Fri., Aug. 13.)

You must RSVP in advance. Email: SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail by Friday, Aug. 27. Include a photo of your vaccination card showing your last shot on/before Fri., Aug. 13. We will confirm your reservation, with directions to the location in the SDSU area. (Please note: we will not be checking email on the day of the event.)

Any questions? Email us: SignMeUpForEvent {at) Gmail. We'll see you on Aug. 28!

Tuesday, August 24, 2021

Reminder: Pot Luck Social & Hot Tub/Pool Party, 28 Aug, Noon-4pm

RSVP Responses will go out starting Wednesday evening.
This is a reminder about the FMSD Pot Luck Social & Hot Tub/Pool Party, 28 Aug, Noon-4pm.
 

Our July pool party was a hit (35+ guys), so we’re doing it again! Join us for swimming, hot tub and a potluck social at a private home in the SDSU area:
  • Saturday, Aug. 28, 2021
  • 12 noon to 4 p.m.
  • Proof of full COVID-19 vaccination required
Clothing optional. Bring your own towels. Potluck: please bring your favorite entrée or appetizer to share with six people. This is a non-alcoholic event. Soft drinks, chips, and dips will be provided.

To keep you and all of our members safe, proof of full COVID-19 vaccination is required. (Last shot must have been received on/before Fri., Aug. 13.)

You must RSVP in advance. Email: SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail by Friday, Aug. 27. Include a photo of your vaccination card showing your last shot on/before Fri., Aug. 13. We will confirm your reservation, with directions to the location in the SDSU area. (Please note: we will not be checking email on the day of the event.)

Any questions? Email us: SignMeUpForEvent {at) Gmail. We'll see you on Aug. 28!
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Sunday, August 22, 2021

Pot Luck Social & Hot Tub/Pool Party, 28 Aug, Noon-4pm


We’re doing another pool party!

Our July pool party was a hit (35+ guys), so we’re doing it again! Join us for swimming, hot tub and a potluck social at a private home in the SDSU area:
  • Saturday, Aug. 28, 2021
  • 12 noon to 4 p.m.
  • Proof of full COVID-19 vaccination required
Clothing optional. Bring your own towels. Potluck: please bring your favorite entrée or appetizer to share with six people. This is a non-alcoholic event. Soft drinks, chips, and dips will be provided.

To keep you and all of our members safe, proof of full COVID-19 vaccination is required. (Last shot must have been received on/before Fri., Aug. 13.)

You must RSVP in advance. Email: SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail by Friday, Aug. 27. Include a photo of your vaccination card showing your last shot on/before Fri., Aug. 13. We will confirm your reservation, with directions to the location in the SDSU area. (Please note: we will not be checking email on the day of the event.)

Any questions? Email us: SignMeUpForEvent {at) Gmail. We'll see you on Aug. 28!

Sunday, August 15, 2021

Pot Luck Social & Pool Party, 28 Aug near SDSU @Joe & Ed's Place, Noon till 4pm

Send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail to RSVP
28 August 2021 , NOON till 4PM
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Potluck Social & Pool Party & Hot tub

When: Saturday, 28 Aug 2021, Noon - 4pm
Please RSVP no later than noon on Friday, 27 Aug so we can send you the information.

Where: Private Venue near SDSU. RSVP at SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail


Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.


Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of your COVID-19 Vaccination completed prior to 14 August 2021.


Men, you are invited to show up with food/drinks. Being in gear is always welcome.


This private venue has a great outdoor space (pictured above) and seats many comfortably. Enjoy sitting around the table, fire pit, or the hot tub next to the pool.


If you would like to enjoy the hot tub or pool, please bring a towel or two. Bathing costumes are not required.


This is a non-alcoholic event. Soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and dips will be provided so bring your best entrée or appetizer to share with the group.

This event is at "Joe and Ed's Place", a private residence, near SDSU. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail indicating your commitment to attend (a.k.a. RSVP) by Friday, 27 August. Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep us all safe, proof of full vaccination (last shot received prior to August 14, 2021) is required to attend this event.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.


Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!


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FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at

https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



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Thursday, July 29, 2021

Last Call - FMSD Pot Luck Social, Hot Tub/Pool/Play Party @Tom's Place, 31 July 2021

Before Midnight, Friday, 30 July, please send email indicating your commitment to attend the event (RSVP).

SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Pot Luck Social, Hot Tub/Pool/Play Party

Saturday, 31 July 2021, 4-8pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of COVID-19 Vaccination completed prior to 17 July 2021.


Fetish Men San Diego is hosting its first in person gathering on, Saturday, July 31st from 4:00 - 8:00pm. (set-up: 3pm-4pm, event: 4pm-8pm, clean-up: 8pm-9pm)

It has been well over a year since we have met in person so we are doing it right. Get our your recipes and lets get together for a potluck social, swim and hot tub, and play party.

The dungeon in the garage houses a St. Andrew's cross, sling, suspension harness, and other restraint gear. Bring your gear and accoutrement if you are so inclined/reclined.

If you would like to enjoy the hot tub or solar heated pool, please bring a towel or two. Bathing costumes are not required.

This is a non-alcoholic event and soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and dips will be provided so break out your best entrée, desert, or appetizer to share with the group.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail indicating your commitment to attend (a.k.a. RSVP) by Friday, 30 July. Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 16 July 2021) is required to attend this event.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.
Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Wednesday, July 28, 2021

FMSD Potluck Social, Hot Tub/Pool/Play Party - Sat 31 Jul 2021, 4-8pm

Pot Luck Social, Hot Tub/Pool/Play Party

Saturday, 31 July 2021, 4-8pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of COVID-19 Vaccination completed prior to 17 July 2021.


Fetish Men San Diego is hosting its first in person gathering on, Saturday, July 31st from 4:00 - 8:00pm. (set-up: 3pm-4pm, event: 4pm-8pm, clean-up: 8pm-9pm)

It has been well over a year since we have met in person so we are doing it right. Get our your recipes and lets get together for a potluck social, swim and hot tub, and play party.

The dungeon in the garage houses a St. Andrew's cross, sling, suspension harness, and other restraint gear. Bring your gear and accoutrement if you are so inclined/reclined.

If you would like to enjoy the hot tub or solar heated pool, please bring a towel or two. Bathing costumes are not required.

This is a non-alcoholic event and soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and dips will be provided so break out your best entrée, desert, or appetizer to share with the group.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail indicating your commitment to attend (a.k.a. RSVP) by Friday, 30 July. Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 16 July 2021) is required to attend this event.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.
Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Saturday, July 24, 2021

Cigars & Boots, Sat, 07 Aug, 4-7pm, at PECS Bar


 

August 7th: San Diego Cigars & Boots
Saturday, August 7, 4pm – 7pm
Pecs Bar
2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104
Come join us! Everyone is welcome with open arms whether you smoke cigars, cigarettes, pipes, vapes or nothing at all. Wear whatever you like but leather, uniforms, levis, rubber are encouraged. Daddy Barry is the host so please feel free to come up and introduce yourself. It’s a good time to make new friends in the leather community.
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise free.
San Diego Cigars & Boots is held at Pecs Bar at the corner of University and Alabama from 4pm until 7pm on the first Saturday of the month.


 


Pot Luck Social & Pool Party



Fetish Men San Diego is hosting its first in person gathering on, Saturday, July 31st from 4:00 - 8:00pm. (set-up: 3pm-4pm, event: 4pm-8pm, clean-up: 8pm-9pm)
It has been well over a year since we have met in person so we are doing it right. Get our your recipes and lets get together for a potluck social, swim and hot tub, and play party.
The dungeon in the garage houses a St. Andrew's cross, sling, suspension harness, and other restraint gear. Bring your gear and accoutrement if you are so inclined/reclined.
If you would like to enjoy the hot tub or solar heated pool, please bring a towel or two. Bathing costumes are not required.
This is a non-alcoholic event and soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and dips will be provided so break out your best entrée, desert, or appetizer to share with the group.
This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail indicating your commitment to attend (a.k.a. RSVP) by Friday, 30 July. Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.
In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 16 July 2021) is required to attend this event.
If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.
Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Thursday, June 17, 2021


Friday, June 25th:

Come join us at The Merrow for an evening of fun
8PM: Cigars & Boots Social, combined with the excellent Leather Swap Meat, followed by:
It's been a very long 15 months since the last San Diego Cigars & Boots gathering but it's finally here.
With the generosity of the people at Swap Meat our first official gathering will be Friday, June 25th from 8:00 pm to 10:00 pm at the Merrow, 1271 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103.
We miss you all and hope to see you there!

Hello! For those new or curious to leather we are 1 week away from enjoying our first SWAP MEAT in our new outdoor area at The Merrow. SWAP MEAT provides the safest, friendliest environment to explore, ask questions (or just respectfully observe.) Please ask permission before taking pics of anyone you didn't arrive with. Your participation is voluntary, yet we hope you see something that may challenge your mind to join when you are ready. You’ll find all vendors and guests happy to answer questions about leather, kink, rubber and fetishes. That’s what makes this event the fun, welcoming mixed social space for the last 3 years. (OK, minus last year, 😉) Feel free to forward the SWAP MEAT link to anyone you feel has a wild side. If you have any questions, text/call me at 619-352-0666 or swapmeatmarket@gmail.com -Fox



10PM, the LOCKER ROOM kinky dance & cruise party (same location), featuring DJ Eli ($10 cover)

This event is open to all genders and encourage everyone to wear what makes them feel sexy. That can be leather, drag, rubber, sporty, or whatever it is just bring it! We want everyone to know they are welcome! Get your cruise on, dance, drink, socialize in a safe place. DJ Eli will be bringing the beats and sponsored by Humanity.
Come a little early to check out the swap meat by fox finds. You can buy, trade, and sell gear. This is the perfect place to find your outfit for the night or just socialize before the dancing starts.


!!OFFICIAL LOCKER-ROOM AFTER PARTY!!
Come get [USED]
After Locker-Room on June 25, join us for the After Party at Club San Diego starting at Midnight (12AM) for [USED], a new Male-Energy Play Party presented by boyDaddy Productions.
Dust off your gear and toys and let's get dirty in the dark room. Enjoy the transformation of the club including dungeon spaces, St. Andrew's Crosses, slings throughout the building.
Be prepared to witness and live out your fantasies.
!!OFFICIAL LOCKER-ROOM AFTER PARTY!!
All Attendees must complete Release of Liability waivers and be in full-compliance of the Club San Diego code of conduct and qualify for membership at Club San Diego. Open flames and bloodletting are not permitted on the premises, if you have concerns please contact the event host(s), or for more information, visit: https://clubsandiego.com/


Sunday, May 9, 2021

Benefits of a Play Name or Alias w/Robert Black

 


WEDNESDAY, MAY 19, 2021 AT 7 PM PDT

Benefits of a Play Name or AliasRobert Black is a leatherman, BDSM porn actor, and host of the podcast Sexual Heroes

Join us as Robert Black shares how the creation of a separate identity impacted his journey in leather/BDSM.....and life.
Grabby Award winner and GayVN Award nominee Robert Black has appeared in more than 50 adult films and was named a “ZEUS boy of the Year.” He has been featured in magazines including Honcho, Bound & Gagged, and International Leatherman. A proud member of the leather/kink community, he is the host of Sexual Heroes, a podcast with a mission to inform, entertain, and inspire listeners to embrace their sexuality.
Checkout his website at https://robertblackxxx.com/
Twitter : @RobertBlackXXX
John Maynard is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Robert Black
Time: May 19, 2021 07:00 PM Pacific Time (US and Canada)
Meeting ID: 881 1877 1934
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Saturday, May 1, 2021

TRADE ALLEY: A SAFE, SOCIAL OUTDOOR FETISH EVENT


 SWAP MEAT and Fox Finds host:

TRADE ALLEY
A SAFE, SOCIAL OUTDOOR FETISH EVENT

Live Demos
Cigar Area
Bootblack
Visuals
Table Service

All state/local Covid guidelines enforced.
Mask and Temp. check on arrival.

Wear leather/fetish/rubber/pup/gear for priority seating.
7:30-10pm
No cover
NO RSVP for tables.
First come, first seated.
Info: 619-352-0666
swapmeatmarket@gmail.com

TRADE ALLEY is a nod to Dore Alley as well as Peacock Alley, in the same location for this leather event for those San Diego gay bar history buffs.

Pound the pavement in your boots in a OPEN AIR safe space for gathering and cruising.

Sorry kids, this is an event for Fetish Men in gear (and their allies). The ‘But my belt/shoes are made of leather!’ won’t get you to the front. 😜

Leave the family behind, this isn’t Folsom. This is a place for all leather men, fetishists and the kink curious to reconnect with their familiar carnal tribe and make new friends. Welcome back to those who are ready. For those who aren’t, we will see you when you are. -Fox Finds

PS. The regular SWAP MEAT event will be returning next month hopefully, local restrictions pending.😉

The Merrow
1271 University Ave
San Diego, Ca 92103
 

Friday, April 30, 2021

FMSD "HANG" out and talk kink, Saturday 01 May, 4pm on Zoom


 Let's "HANG" out and talk kink.

May 1st is the First Saturday of the Month.
Come and join us at 4:00 pst in our zoom chat and talk about kink (or really anything)
Hope to see you there
John Maynard is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
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Time: May 1, 2021 04:00 PM Pacific Time (US and Canada)
Meeting ID: 883 3738 2856
Passcode: leather
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