Thursday, August 29, 2019

Sunday in the Park: THIS Sunday Sept 1


Sunday in the Park: September 1 @ noon



Join Mr San Diego Leather 2019, Jody Mitchell, in Balboa Park (6th & El Prado) for games and fun every first Sunday of the month, noon-2pm.





FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events


Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.


FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org




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Wednesday, August 28, 2019

SEPTEMBER

September 1:  Planning Meeting

Sunday, September 1, 4pm – 6pm
This month we'll again meet at a private residence in Hillcrest.
e-mail Sign Me Up For Event {at} GMail.com for the venue address.

Do you have an idea, request or venue suggestion for a FMSD workshop, demo, discussion, or social?  Come let us know!

We'll be planning what we're doing for the next three months, each month on the 1st Sunday.
This month we'll meet at a private residence in Hillcrest.

e-mail Sign Me Up For Event {at} GMail.com for the venue address.




September 4:  FMSD at Tom's Place

Wednesday, September 4, 7pm-9pm

As summer comes to a close, we have one last opportunity to utilize Tom's Place for an intimate electrical discussion/demo/workshop.

Daddy Barry and Officer Wes are hosting in Tom's beautiful setting.
Bring some food to share at the beginning.

We'll do some electrical with slave frank
plus others as possible
and have warm fellowship together.

Social time: until 7:30
Discussion/Demo/Workshop: 7:30-8:30
Debrief/Close: 8:30-9

It's a handsome private venue.
e-mail Sign Me Up For Event [at] GMail for the address



September 7:  San Diego Cigars & Boots

Saturday, September 7, 4pm – 7pm
Pecs Bar
2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA  92104


Come join us! Even if you don’t smoke cigars or you sample a pipe or other things it’s a good time to make new friends in the leather community.

Cost: Support the venue, otherwise free.




San Diego Cigars & Boots is held at Pecs Bar at the corner of University and Alabama from 4pm until 7pm on the first Saturday of the month. 



September 13:  Flogging Friday at the Eagle

Friday, September 13, 10pm-midnight
The San Diego Eagle
3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Flogging Friday is the 2nd Friday each month at the Eagle.

Come out and enjoy fellowship with your club brothers!



September 14: Pre-Folsom SWAP MEAT


Saturday, September 14, 6-9pm
Urban MO's
308 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, USA

Hey Kinksters, Pre-Folsom St. Fair SWAP MEAT is back just in time for you to grab something new or comfortably worn in for SF Folsom St. Fair. We will meet up Sat. SEPT. 14th 6-9pm, clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that might need a new dungeon. Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear in real time (off the apps.) This is a great way to introduce new curious guys to your turn-ons or if you are curious about leather and wanna ask questions in a chill, kick back atmosphere. We have a dressing room to try gear on. Demos welcome (w approval.) Feel free to forward this to any groups/blogs/peeps who’d be interested. Free to enter, $5 to sell.

More Info: 619-352-0666






SWAP MEAT is San Diego’s bimonthly social event for all kink backgrounds to meet and connect over our fetishes, toys & gear. Our event takes place in Mo’s semi-private dance floor for an intimate setting outside the apps and back into real time cruising. We’ve had the pleasure in the past to host pup mosh pit, boot black, rope and flogging demos, custom harnesses by Anthony Rollar Greika of LeatherLove, Detoxxx custom leather, custom suits by Ryder-Gear.com and more.  


© Copyright [2019] Fox & Fiends. 308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103










September 18:  Cock & Ball Torture ("CBT")

Wednesday, September 18, 7-9pm
Pleasures & Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92104


Join us for a fun evening covering Cock & Ball Torture hosted by FetishMen SanDiego member Officer Wes.  

Officer Wes has been presenting on a variety of fun kink topics for 26 years.  His experiences and viewpoints have appeared in many publications including USA Today and The Advocate.  He is credited as an influence in the books Protocol Handbook for the Leather Slave and Master/slave Relations.  His Web sites on sexuality, health and kink have been visited by over a million people.  He was an inaugural mentor for SAADE, a formal mentoring program for new dominants that instructs its apprentices not only in physical SM practices but on the mental, emotional and spiritual dynamics of BDSM as well.  Officer Wes has an open leather family built around shared values of respect, honor, trust, and love.  He has a slave and dogslave and is himself in service to a Daddy.  Resources and information at www.officerwes.com






FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events


Wondering what we have planned on a coming date? In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.


FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org




Local Event Pages on Facebook

Tuesday, August 20, 2019

WEDNESDAY: Negotiation & Consent

Negotiation & Consent: WEDNESDAY August 21

Pleasures & Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92104
Wednesday, August 21, 7-9pm


Negotiation -- defined as "discussion aimed at reaching an agreement"  (I like to call it the art of asking for what you want) -- and consent -- giving permission to having something done -- are key to BDSM/leather/fetish/kink interactions.

Join us for a lively discussion of negotiation and consent facilitated by FetishMen SanDiego members Jerry and Scott.  We'll talk about communicating clearly and effectively to help successfully connect with your leather brothers.


About our facilitators:

Jerry

Jerry started his involvement in the leather community at the height of the AIDS crisis in the late 80’s by passing out condoms at the Levi/Leather bar Yukon Trading Co. in Rhode Island. In an effort to explore leather and kink Jerry has attended the Butchmanns Experience and the Body Electric School’s Power, Surrender, & Intimacy workshop. Jerry has attended regional and national leather conferences to continue to learn more.  

For the past six years, he has been active in San Diego’s Leather community as well as a participant and leader in FMSD. Jerry has presented and facilitated discussions on such topics as: power exchange, consent, flogging, impact play, rope, and surrender. Service to the leather community is important and Jerry can be found providing flogging at a monthly Flogging Friday event and at San Diego’s Pride Leather Realm as an ambassador/player introducing leather/kink to new folks interested in their first experience of leather.

Scott

Scott started his leather and kink exploration in the mid 1990s through a partner who gently introduced him to the basics of leather attire, restraints, toys, mummification, hot wax, and fisting. After a long pause, and when he moved to America's Finest City in 2011, Scott committed to exploring his kink side. He discovered Fetish Men San Diego (FMSD) and Club X San Diego in short order and continues to participate in both groups.  

Scott has attended many events presented by both FMSD and Club X including discussions, demos, and workshops on topics ranging from spanking, to fire play, sounding, rope bondage, deflatables; as well as supported and participated in play parties. His service to the local leather community includes providing individual, group, and event photography; behind the scenes support for FMSD; providing flogging at a monthly Flogging Friday event; gently giving new folks their first taste of a leather flogging at the San Diego Pride Leather Realm as an ambassador/player; leading the FMSD Planning Meeting; and facilitating discussions and hosting demos.




September Sneak Peeks:

  • Sunday, Sept. 1 (1st Sunday each month): FMSD Planning Meeting 4-6pm
  • Wednesday, September 4 (1st Wednesday each month):  FMSD social
  • Saturday, September 7 (1st Saturday each month):  Cigars & Boots, 4-7pm
  • Friday, September 13 (2nd Friday each month):  Flogging Friday, 10pm-midnight
  • Saturday, September 14:  Pre-Folsom SWAP MEAT 6-9pm
  • Wednesday, September 18 (3rd Wednesday each month):  FMSD presents CBT (cock & ball "torture"/ torment), 7-9pm




FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



Local Event Pages

Saturday, August 17, 2019

SUNDAY: Gear Invasion

Gear Invasion: SUNDAY August 18
70th Birthday Edition

Hillcrest Brewing Company
1458 University, San Diego, CA 92103
Sunday, August 18, 6-8pm

Join your fellow Fetish men as we do another great Gear Invasion of Hillcrest Brewing Company.  The folks at HBC have always been welcoming and we have a great time.  It's semi-outside -- good for leather and gear -- and the weather is slated to be mild. 

This time we're helping my leather Daddy, Daddy Barry, celebrate his 70th Birthday!  Guaranteed good time.  And some yummy cake.  Join us!






Sneak peek:

  • Wednesday 8/21: Negotiation & Consent
    A round chair discussion with facilitation by Jerry Moreau & Scott Smith
    (Pleasures and Treasures, Wednesday 8/21, 7-9pm)
  • 9/4: Cathartic Flogging
    (Tom's Place, Wednesday, 9/4, 7-9pm)




FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



Local Event Pages

Thursday, August 8, 2019

Flogging Friday, Swap Meat, Gear Invasion

Flogging Friday at the Eagle: August 9

Friday, August 9, 10pm-midnight
The San Diego Eagle
3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Flogging Friday is the 2nd Friday each month at the Eagle.

Come out and enjoy fellowship with your club brothers!





Swap Meat: August 10

Urban MO's
308 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, USA
Saturday, August 10, 6-9pm


Hey Kinksters, Sat. Aug. 10th 6-9pm, clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that might need a new dungeon. Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear in real time (off the apps.) This is a great way to introduce new curious guys to your turn-ons or if you are curious about leather and wanna ask questions in a chill, kick back atmosphere. We have a dressing room to try gear on. Demos welcome (w approval.) Feel free to forward this to any groups/blogs/peeps who’d be interested. Free to enter, $5 to sell. More Info: 619-352-0666 -Fox.




SWAP MEAT is San Diego’s bimonthly social event for all kink backgrounds to meet and connect over our fetishes, toys & gear. Our event takes place in Mo’s semi-private dance floor for an intimate setting outside the apps and back into real time cruising. We’ve had the pleasure in the past to host pup mosh pit, boot black, rope and flogging demos, custom harnesses by Anthony Rollar Greika of LeatherLove, Detoxxx custom leather, custom suits by Ryder-Gear.com and more.  

© Copyright [2019] Fox & Fiends. 308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103





Gear Invasion: August 18
70th Birthday Edition

Hillcrest Brewing Company
1458 University, San Diego, CA 92103
Sunday, August 18, 6-8pm

Join your fellow fetish men as we do another great Gear Invasion of Hillcrest Brewing Company.  The folks at HBC have been welcoming and we always have a great time.  It's semi-outside -- good for leather and gear.  

This time we're helping my leather Daddy, Daddy Barry, celebrate his 70th Birthday!  Guaranteed good time.  Join us!






Sneak peeks:

  • 8/21: Negotiation & Consent
    (Pleasures and Treasures, Wednesday 8/21, 7-9pm)
  • 9/4: Cathartic Flogging
    (Tom's Place, Wednesday, 9/4, 7-9pm)




FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



Local Event Pages

Saturday, August 3, 2019

Planning meeting, Flogging Friday, Swap Meat, Gear Invasion

Planning Meeting: August 4

Sunday, August 3, 4pm – 6pm
This month we'll again meet at a private residence in Hillcrest.
e-mail Sign Me Up For Event {at} GMail.com for the venue address.

Do you have an idea, request or venue suggestion for a FMSD workshop, demo, discussion, or social?  Come let us know!

We'll be planning what we're doing for the next three months, each month on the 1st Sunday.
This month we'll meet at a private residence in Hillcrest. 

e-mail Sign Me Up For Event {at} GMail.com for the venue address.


Flogging Friday at the Eagle: August 9

Friday, August 9, 10pm-midnight
The San Diego Eagle
3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Flogging Friday is the 2nd Friday each month at the Eagle.

Come out and enjoy fellowship with your club brothers!





Swap Meat: August 10

Urban MO's
308 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, USA
Saturday, August 10, 6-9pm





Hey Kinksters, Sat. Aug. 10th 6-9pm, clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that might need a new dungeon. Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear in real time (off the apps.) This is a great way to introduce new curious guys to your turn-ons or if you are curious about leather and wanna ask questions in a chill, kick back atmosphere. We have a dressing room to try gear on. Demos welcome (w approval.) Feel free to forward this to any groups/blogs/peeps who’d be interested. Free to enter, $5 to sell. More Info: 619-352-0666 -Fox.




SWAP MEAT is San Diego’s bimonthly social event for all kink backgrounds to meet and connect over our fetishes, toys & gear. Our event takes place in Mo’s semi-private dance floor for an intimate setting outside the apps and back into real time cruising. We’ve had the pleasure in the past to host pup mosh pit, boot black, rope and flogging demos, custom harnesses by Anthony Rollar Greika of LeatherLove, Detoxxx custom leather, custom suits by Ryder-Gear.com and more.

© Copyright [2019] Fox & Fiends. 308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103





Sneak peeks:

  • 8/18: Gear Invasion - Daddy Barry's 70th Birthday Edition
    (Hillcrest Brewing Company, Sunday 8/18, 6-8pm)
  • 8/21: Negotiation & Consent
    (Pleasures and Treasures, Wednesday 8/21, 7-9pm)
  • 9/4: Cathartic Flogging
    (Tom's Place, Wednesday, 9/4, 7-9pm)



FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



Local Event Pages