Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Photos from Puppy Night at the Eagle

As always, the excellent photography is from our own Scott Smith!


On Wednesday, March 5th, 2014, Dayton O'Connor (AKA our beloved brother Jay) celebrated his birthday with a rocking' good time at the Eagle.  Jay is a born impresario, he knows how to ENTERTAIN, and I don't think that I've ever seen a bad photo of this man. 

Check it out for yourself:

























Photos from GladiatorDog Nikita's 21st Birthday at the Eagle

Photos by our stellar photographer, Scott Smith

From Magnum:


Happy Birthday Pup! It was great to share your special moment at the pre-party at Daddy Ron's! Enjoy!


From Daddy Ron LeatherAlpha:

Thanks for making this special for my pup. He is one of a kind and the most special thing in my life. We plan to start making more of the events/runs in LA and PS too



From Papa Tony:

On Saturday night, just before midnight, on March 15, 2014, the men of FetishMenSanDiego gathered outside of the San Diego Eagle to show support for our youngest member.

GladiatorDog Nikita (who will always be "Tommy" in my heart) was about to turn 21, and the men inside the bar knew what was coming up.  Those of us who were outside, socialized as the clock ticked closer to the magical hour.


I asked everyone to gather together for a group photo, and before it was taken, I gave a speech, which sort-of went like this:

When I created FMSD, I did so with the clear intention of creating a mutual support-system like the one that I used to know. Back when I was Tommy's age, I had a big, affectionate and caring extended leather family. Those wonderful men were there for me, when I needed to learn how to be a good man, after a very bad beginning.


When they all died back in the early days of AIDS, I never stopped hungering for that same community spirit.  I didn't know how to do it, in an age when so many of us have grown apart due to the internet's distractions.  Somehow, I kept trying until I found the right team, and all of that work has now come to its fruition.  


When I see these good-hearted men showing such encouragement for our youngest brothers, I feel as happy as I was, when I was the focus of so many "loving uncles".  I can rest now, knowing that the Tribal culture is back, and thriving like the good old days.


When we celebrate life's passages for each other, we create lifelong memories for these younger brothers, that will have rippling effects that spread ever outward and upward.

Sir Nicholas (the owner of the Eagle) buys our Nikita his first drink EVER in his whole life!



Our newest Master, Timothy, administers Nikita's Birthday Flogging.  Some of the observers were alarmed by Tommy's thrashing around like a tuna on a hook. They didn't know what we know - that's just what he always does when he's happy and stimulated!

From Master Timothy:

Looking at the pics I find myself getting a bit of chub...




Leatherboy jon says:
I seem to be enjoying watching my brother/pup getting beat. 
(Could have something to do with the 2 beatings he had given me that weekend.)








From Donald Vella:

Last Night was a Special Passage for Nikita, his Age is finally catching up with his full adult mind. He is definitely wise beyond his years, and should be commended for the truths that he shows us all on a daily basis. I was Very Happy to partake in the fun and offer my Love and Support to a friend that I admire and care for.






From boy richard:

So proud! I was spillin' over with Joy at standin' together with my Dad, 
my big Brother Boy Jon and my little Brother Pup GladiatorDog Nikita, 
and so many of our Friends, to celebrate Pups' 21st B'day !!!

And pig boy was thinking "my brother/pup's back is starting to get as red as my shirt ... hope that this pig doesn't get so excited for brother/pup that i spill his drink i'm holding for him! "



From LeatherBoy Jon (on the left, above):

It was great to help celebrate my brother/pup's rite of passage into full-fledged adulthood. Dad Ron made such a special weekend for him (and us). Thanks so much to all FMSD brothers in attendance. You made it a night our family will not soon forget. Much love to all of you.






Monday, March 17, 2014

Welcome to FetishMenSanDiego!


IF YOU ARE NEW TO THE FETISH MEN SAN DIEGO GROUP:

If you have NOT yet done so, please add your email above this, 
or follow us on our Facebook page.


We want to help you to fit in. FMSD is a HUGE, swarming and somewhat intimidating group, but we aren't a clique. We WANT new members and welcome them at every opportunity. Each one of us started out as shy, unsure and wondering if we would find people of like-mind. We have all fit in just dandy, and so will you.








There will be friendly folks who will greet you (but you have to walk up to them and say howdy).


They will invite you to help set up chairs for the Men's Discussion, starting at 7PM. You can quietly observe during the discussion, or you can jump right in - we won't pressure you either way. Just be aware that your shyness will pass very quickly. We are friendly, warm and nice guys. You'll see.


The Men's Discussions were created as a safe, quiet, non-bar-oriented way for folks to actually TALK about things that really matter, and build real friendships in a highly scattered Internet age. There will be optimal social opportunities during the break, and after the meeting is done.


Our other social events can be wonderful as well, but can be a bit LARGE and may be intimidating for shy newbies. Don't fret - Just come up to the folks who seem to be running things. They are gracious hosts, and can get you connected.


Work with us, so that we can enjoy your friendship for years to come! We are NOT what you are expecting!



What We Do


Here are some typical representative events that we either host, or like to attend together as loving brothers, so that you can see us in action. This is a TINY sample of what we have to offer in our local Tribe, and the reviews that are linked beneath each photo will help you to understand our ways:


SWITCHES Discussion, Wednesday, March 5, 2014






Interclub Event, Saturday, March 1, 2014




Mr. San Diego Eagle 2014: Contest Photos and Reviews






Hot Wax Hands-On Demo Night, Friday, Dec. 29, 2013