Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Demo/Play Party: "FISTING 101" With Slut Bottom Boy Chris

Wednesday, Apr 23, 7PM: DEMO/PLAY PARTY "FISTING 101" WITH SLUT BOTTOM BOY CHRIS" from Club X, who is eager and excited to share his knowledge and experience, and strongly encourages audience participation. We want a group of "hungry" bottoms & "eager" tops to assist in this "hands on & in" demo. Our demo/play parties are held at a private residence, and it's encouraged to RSVP due to our large attendance and space limitations. RSVP at signmeupforevent @gmail.com.


slut bottom chris' bio:

slut bottom chris's insatiable ass appitite started when a naughty girl poked her fingers in his butt in 1987. Ever since, he's been feeding that appetite larger and larger items! Some time around 1998, his wife started putting her whole hand and forearm in his ass. She suggested he seek out guys for sex, too.

As he's from the south and also a time slightly before the internet, it didn't really occur to him before. He was blessed to meet and get mentoring from the late Perry Morris (Ringold Alley, next to Wolf's), who noticed chris's sexual self-shame; and also saw the excitement behind it! He guided chris into better understanding and appreciation for his sexuality. And being next to Wolf's? Well, you can guess. You might have heard the stories.

For the ten years 2002 on, chris explored himself and the San Diego Leather community through Club X as well as Roadkill's SuperPigs parties and Leather Guild classes. Towards the end of that time, as chris won the leather title California Puppy 2012. About the same time as the title, chris started performing in adult films, mostly FemDom or cuckold, but there was one actual "gay" film with Hole Hunter where chris got to be a puppy!

chris has demo bottomed for and presented anal sex and fisting workshops for the last ten years. So greedy: anything to get people in his ass! The topics tought range from "into to anal; open your ass and your mind will follow" to an all day "everything butt" class with slides.

Southern California Leather Gathering (SCLG) 2014

SCLG 2003

Saturday, June 21 at 11:00am - 4:00pm

Whittier Narrows Recreation Area Group Picnic Area E2 (Corner of Santa Anita Ave. & Durfee Ave) South El Monte, CA 91733-4423

SCLG is an annual outdoor picnic gathering that is open to ALL leather, bdsm, fetish, kink, motorcycle and bear individuals and/or groups of all genders and orientations. The aim of the event is to provide an opportunity for these various folk to interact in a relaxed atmosphere, have fun and raise awareness about the size and diversity of the leather/bdsm groups within Southern California.

*BYOF&B: Bring Your Own Food & Beverages (non-alcoholic only). Feel free to bring extra food if you want to share! There will be grills heated up and available for anyone that wants to grill some food.*

Check the SCLG website for more information!
http://www.sclg.org/

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Please help us spread the word and send this announcement out to any and all relevant or interested groups/individuals!

Event Basics
~ Bring your own food. BBQ grills are available for use at the site.
~ Bring your own beverages (water, soda, etc. No alcohol.).
~ Games and prizes!
~ Shading, such as shelters and umbrellas are welcome and encouraged.

Guidelines
- Attendees must be 18 or older. Please, NO minors!
- Smoking is no longer permitted on park grounds (smoking is no longer permitted inside any LA County Park).
- No alcohol or drugs permitted.
- No solicitation.
- No s/m or b/d play at the event.
- No vending.
- No fundraising.
- Service or therapy companion animals welcome. No other biological animal pets, please. Please be responsible and clean up after your service pet(s).
- Leather and bdsm groups are welcome and **encouraged** to bring their club colors/banners and to provide flyers/literature about their groups. Let people know about your group/event!!!
- Please clean up your area at the end of the event.

*Attire: Most folks wear comfortable, casual clothing that you would typically wear to a picnic. Leather/fetish clothing is perfectly acceptable, as long as it is "street legal", meaning. Make sure there is at least one inch of clothing covering the middle of the rear. The basic rule of thumb is that, if your clothing covers less than what a skimpy bathing suit would cover, you may want to rethink what you will wear.*

For general questions regarding SCLG, e-mail: pug@sclg.org.

Want to volunteer to help at the event? E-mail laroxy@yahoo.com.

Our Mistress of Activities for the event this year is Sister Fatty-Ma!

HARNESS Party: Presenting DADDY BAR, This Friday Night!


Every 2nd Friday,Cub Club and Numb3rs Nightclub will present HARNESS, a NEW monthly Leather/Gear event...You are always welcome to come out as you are, but LEATHER GEAR is encouraged, the least you can do is THROW ON A HARNESS!

PRESENTING DADDY BAR! CUB CLUB LOVES DADDIES.... AND WE WANT TO SHOW OUR DADDY LOVE WITH DADDY BAR! SO DADDIES....BRING YOUR BOYS....BOYS BRING YOUR DADDIES....SIRS COME OUT AND ENJOY! IF YOU HAVE A DADDY FETISH....CUM WET YOUR WHISTLE!!

RETURNING IN 2014....THE HARNESS SHADOWBOX. 
HARNESS IS LOOKING FOR EXHIBITIONISTS....GUYS WHO LIKE TO PUSH THE EDGE AND SHOW IT OFF....TO DANCE IN OUR SHADOWBOX.....IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE THE RIGHT STUFF...PULL IT OUT AND SHOW US. CHECK WITH MATT WALKER AT THE BOOTH.

With a rotating roster of kick-ass DJs and leatheratti hosts, we are sure entice the fuck out of you. This month
DJ....is DJ MICHAEL ROMANO... a FRESH, NEW, HUNGRY DJ who will be spinning DARK AND DIRTY sounds to promote close DANCING and CRUISING. 

WILL BE SHAKING THEIR MONEYMAKERS FOR FOR YOUR VISUAL PLEASURE.....MAKE SURE YOU CHECK OUT THE BACKROOM SHOW.....(WHAT HAPPENS IN THE BACKROOM...STAYS IN THE BACKROOM.)

This event features...LEATHER MEN, PORN STARS, MUSCLE DADDIES, TATTOOED GUYS, PUPS, OTTERS, WOLVES, AND CUBS!

MALE GOGO DANCER BOOT CAMP AUDITIONS: If YOU or someone you know has a hot face, owns their body, and can dance: SIGN THEM UP! At the next Harness, the PACK will be auditioning MEN of all sorts (Average Joe, Bears, Cubs, Daddies, Sirs, Muscle, Otters, Silver Foxes, Pups, scruffy, Fetish, Military, Athletes, BEEFY etc) We are looking for some guys to help round out our crew. We are looking for a few good MEN who are the life of the party, can hold their own on the dance floor, don't mind dressing like Sex, have team mentality, and that can dance like a muthafucker. We will be rotating auditioners throughout the night: to help fill our roster for our 2013 Events; that include but are not limited to the following Club Nights: Harness, Belt, Glitter Cub Disko, Geek Week, Heroes Vs. Villains, Brass Rail's Manic Monday, Rude Boy,WTF, CubClub's THE PACK and LL Bear. Wear shoes/boots you can move in, and briefs/gear that pushes the line but won't get you arrested. (There will be a small changing area for auditioners who don't under dress: CubClub and Numbers will not be held responsible for lost items: so bring a watchful friend or leave the good shit at home) REMEMBER: this is CUBCLUB, we DON'T care about a few extra pounds, and Shaving/manscaping is discouraged. Contact Cub Club SD(CubClubSD@yahoo.com) if you have any other questions...
STRAP UP. BUCKLE UP...and come take a ride.

HARNESS every 2nd Friday of the month at NUMB3RS.


COVER $8 DOLLARS...(don't want to SHOOT YOUR WHOLE WAD? and a enjoy $5 cover for the first HOUR we are open)

NUM3ERS
PLEASURES AND TREASURES
CUB CLUB SD
CubClub's THE PACK
DANGILO the UBERGLITTERATI
VOLGUR
FETISH MEN SAN DIEGO
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San Diego Pride Parade 2014: Leather Contingent


Saturday, July 19, 2014 at 11:00am

2014 Pride Parade Leather Contingent

To All in our Leather Tribe and affiliated communities:


San Diego has a very special community who welcome you with open arms to join us for San Diego Pride and the San Diego Pride Parade!




Please join with Mr. and Ms. San Diego Leather 2013, Eli and Colt, and the San Diego leather, kink, fetish and affiliated communities on Saturday, July 19, 2013, and show your PRIDE by walking with the Leather Contingent in the San Diego Pride Parade.


The parade kicks off on Saturday, 11:00 a.m. and ends just in time to visit the Pride Festival grounds and the Alt-Pride area in beautiful Balboa Park in San Diego.

All are welcome to join us!


Please message WishLinda at MsSanDiegoLeather2012 @gmail.com to rsvp, for questions, information or assistance.

General information about San Diego Pride can be found here: http://www.sdpride.org/

Club X Black And White Party, Saturday, April 19

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Friday, April 4, 2014

Photos and Audio From Aaron's Bon Voyage Dinner

These excellent photos are by our own Scott Smith, who continues to document our history.




Thursday, April 3, 2014:

There was a dinner at DiMille's Italian Restaurant on the patio, in honor of our brother Aaron, who was Mr. San Diego Leather 2012, and then American Leatherman 2013.  Titles aside, he has been a major force for brotherhood in our local Tribe. He has been a consummate ambassador, shuttling from city to city, spreading the philosophy of being open-hearted and caring, and representing those of us cheering him on, back home. 

He has set a very high bar for those who follow, but the men who are stepping up to fill the gap are eager to take on the challenge in their own ways.

This dinner was our chance to let him know that he is loved, admired, and has influenced us in wonderful ways.




As more and more men arrived, more tables had to be added!







Time to speak from the heart.






Telling us what his journey has been like.







Time for Dan's Powerpoint tribute to Aaron!


As Aaron heads off to continue making history, our newest brothers are stepping up to fill the gap.



Pre-Event Publicity:

Our brother Aaron is heading off to his new career in Los Angeles. It's sad to see him go, but it will be a wonderful move up in income and opportunity for him.

Rather than just have him pack up and disappear silently, leaving an Aaron-sized hole in our hearts, this will be your chance to let him know what he has meant to you so far in your life. He has made a huge impact in the time that he has been among us. It's time to tell him so, and provide some affectionate closure for him, and for us.

This isn't "goodbye", it's "Bon Voyage!"

Due to the limited seating, we will need an RSVP (mentioning the dinner, specifically) at SignMeUpForEvent @gmail.com - Thanks for your patience!

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Upcoming Events

The purpose of this listing is to provide a one-stop, unbiased and reasonably complete listing of events that would attract gay FetishMen in and around the San Diego area.  It is meant to be spread as widely as possible, so that folks inside and outside Facebook have free access.

Please follow the standard reference for events listings:


If you post your event, it will be sent out via email each week, after being edited for appropriateness and completeness.

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Aaron Duke's Bon Voyage Dinner. Our brother Aaron is heading off to his new career in Los Angeles. This is our chance to send him off with our love.


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From Magnum: Here's FMSD tentative schedule of our Wednesday Night Men's Discussion & Events for April:

Apr 2: Pup Nikita leads more discussion of "puppy play" and the "turn offs" of fetish/leather play.

After the discussion, we will head over to the Eagle and join in on the "Pup Play Night" featuring "Pounce"! A fundraiser with a "big basket" contest w/XXX prizes and much more!

Apr 9: SIR Erik from The Next Generation (TNG) with their active members will lead, share and discuss the challenges and triumphs about young adults staying visible and participating in the San Diego leather/BDSM/kink community.

Apr 16: Papa Tony leads discussion on "navigating challenges in poly/open relationships" including jealousy, conflict and agreements.

It's easy to walk from the meeting to the Redwing!

Afterwards, we'll all stroll over for "Karaoke Nights" at the Redwing Bar & Grill, nearby. This event will regularly happen on the 3rd Wednesday of every month, after our Discussion.  If you haven't tried it, give it a chance. It's a jolly gathering of fun brothers!

Apr 23: Demo/Play Party "Fisting 101" w/Slut Bottom boy Chris" from Club X, who is eager and excited to share his knowledge and experience and strongly encourages audience participation. We want a group of "hungry" bottoms & "eager" tops to assist in this "hands on & in" demo. Our demo/play parties are held at a private residence and it's encouraged to RSVP due to our large attendance and space limitations. RSVP at signmeupforevent @gmail.com.

Apr 30: Jon Sommerville leads discussion on "does size matter"? embracing weight, size & body image in the "perfect body" obsession in gay male culture.

Note: All FMSD Wednesday Night Men's Discussions are held on the first, second, third (and sometimes fifth) Wednesday of each month, in the upper classroom of the Mission Gathering Church (3040 Polk Ave San Diego, CA 92104). Please arrive at 6:45pm to allow time to locate parking.



Puppy Night



Wednesday, April 2, 10PM: Puppy Night at the Eagle - Here are pics from March, and from a year ago.

From LeatherBoy Jon: Please come out and support this very worthy cause and our brother Jay Heimbach.

This will also be the first Eagle SD Puppy Night that my brother GladiatorDog Nikita will be able to attend. (YAY 21!) He would love to see you all there in support of The Imperial Court Toy Drive, Jay, and the pups here in San Diego.

pig boy richard is looking forward to being there for the AlphaPup's 1st Pup Play Nite at The Eagle !!!




Saturday, April 5 (first Saturday of each month), 10PM: BearNight DanceNumbers Bar, at 3811 Park Blvd.




April 5-6: Phoenix Pride, with the parade on SATURDAY, April 5th.





Friday, April 11 (second Friday of each month), 10PM:  Harness Party @ Numbers Bar, at 3811 Park Blvd.



Saturday, April 19, 9:30PM: LL Bear Dance PartyRich's, at 1051 University. Third Saturday of each month. Watch the video - You will be grrrratified!





From Leatherboy Jon:

 Cigars & Boots is back, in our old location!

Starting Saturday, May 3, 4-7PM, on the First Saturday of every month:

The patio at Redwing is ours for socializing, smoking, eating, drinking, and bootblacking. Sarah did request attire that legally covers all of our favorite parts, and that no "play" (whipping, flogging, etc.) happen on the premises. They offer a Happy Hour Food Menu, $3 wells, and $3 Domestic Bottled Beer from 4-6PM. Our event is 4-7, so that is great.! :-)

It's awesome that this can remain an FMSD-hosted event and I am very excited. Flyers to come and more info to follow.


Saturday, May 10, 5-9PM: Eli's Saturday Night Variety Show at Numbers, 3811 Park Boulevard.

From Mr. San Diego Leather 2013 Eli:

Calling all the Bears, Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, Imperial Court, Pups, FMSD, Club X, Leather, and any others I missed. Do you have talent and want to show it off. All those interested please private message me. Deadlines for all performers will be April 20.

Otherwise come out to see the variety of performers for one night and on one stage. We will have raffles throughout the night and half of the money will go to the Leather Foundation and the other half to Eli Correa's travel fund in order to send him off to IML in 2015. 

After the event ends you can stay for the Harness Event to enjoy great music and hot men.



Tuesday, May 13, 8PM-2AM, First Annual San Diego Bartenders Bash Fundraiser

The First Annual San Diego Bartenders Bash will be an annual celebration for all those that tend/work in a bar and for those bar flies that keep us happy.  Very Casual, PURPLE ATTIRE SUGGESTED !!!  Vendors with samples and giveaways TBA! Proceeds from the cover charge will be donated to charity.





May 17-18: Long Beach Pride, with the parade on SUNDAY May 18.

http://www.longbeachpride.com/




Saturday, May 17, 6 PM: International Mr. and Ms Olympus Leather 2014 Contest

Doors open at 5 PM

Los Angeles Ballroom on the second floor of the Hilton LAX on Century Blvd.

Approximately 12 men and women will compete for this International title. Each will present tantalizing fantasies on stage.

You can attend International Mr. and Ms Olympus Leather 2014 without missing Long Beach LGBT Pride Parade and Festival. The contest will be over in time to make it back to Long Beach for the late parties and the parade on Sunday morning.

Attached are International Mr. and Ms Olympus Leather 2014 log at 294px and photo of International Mr. Olympus Leather 2013 Praxxis and International Ms Olympus Leather 2014 robyn. robyn is lower case by design.




May 23-26: International Mr. Leather 2014 Contest in Chicago




May 30 & 31: Second Annual Family Reunion Weekend, featuring the return of the Flog Swarm, and a visit by the folks who run the Folsom Street fair, to be our honored guests for our HUGE Movie Night!





June 6-8: Los Angeles Pride, with the parade on SUNDAY, June 8.





June 12-14: FistFest West





June 13-15 - All Male Butchmanns Experience, Phoenix, AZ




Saturday, June 21, 6PM-Midnight: SoCal LeatherSIR, Leatherboy, Community Bootblack & Puppy Contest, at Queen Bee's Art & Cultural Center, 3925 Ohio St., San Diego, California 92104 (one block north of the Eagle)





June 28-29: San Francisco Pride, with the parade on SUNDAY, June 29.





July 11-13: Wet ’n Hot Weekend in Palm Springs. Over 500 sexy, attitude-free guys will descend upon an underground location in Palm Springs for a weekend filled with uninhibited pig play, brotherhood and fun. It’s the Biggest Piss Party on the Planet, and it’s unlike anything else that you’ve ever experienced




The 2013 Leather Contingent. 2014's will be MUCH bigger!

July 18-20: San Diego Pride, with the parade on SATURDAY, July 19, and the Leather Realm on Saturday and Sunday.





Sunday, July 27: Up Your Alley Street Fair in San Francisco





July 30-Aug 4: Lazy Bear Weekend in Guerneville, California





September 5-6: Las Vegas Pride, with the parade at NIGHT, from 7-10PM, on SATURDAY, Sep. 5.





Sunday, Sep 21: Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco





October 18-19: Bearquake in San Diego. BearQuake grew out of an idea of forming an alliance between the various clubs in Southern California and elsewhere. A "Bear Weekend" was planned where we could all get together and get to know each other. A contest was also held for Mr. So Cal Bear and Cub. The success of that first event opened the door to future gatherings which has become "BearQuake".





October 30 - November 2: Desert Leather Pride in Palm Springs

Note: This is a BIG CHANGE in the scheduling, since this usually happens on the SECOND weekend of the month  - Make a note of it!


Here are pics from last year:





Nov. 7-9: Palm Springs Gay Pride, with the parade on SUNDAY, Nov. 9




January 16-19, 2015: Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend

Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend is a three-day long party and event with participants that now number in the thousands. The heart of the weekend is the historic leather formal Saturday evening cocktail social, Leather Cocktails. Leather Cocktails is the weekend lynchpin gathering from which all other weekend events evolved.

The Weekend also includes official events organized by weekend hosts, Centaur MC that include a bustling Leather Exhibit Hall; Sunday brunch; Mr. MAL Contest and the official Sunday night closing party, REACTION. In addition, Weekend hosts provide hotel space for what has evolved into a huge leather-loving community and affinity annual reunion. Weekend participants may purchase a full weekend package that includes access to all events. Tickets to a few select events are sold separately.

http://www.leatherweekend.com