Fetish Men San Diego
Fetish Men is an organization driven by the brotherhood and camaraderie of its members. We are dedicated to the continued growth and education of our Men by providing an ongoing series of events, workshops, and socials.
Tuesday, October 15, 2024
Discussion: Limits - How to Set them and How to Push Them, Sat, 19 Oct, noon-4pm
Saturday, October 12, 2024
Rope Bondage Workshop and potluck, Sat, 26 Oct, Noon-4pm
Wednesday, June 19, 2024
Leather 101: Rope Bondage, Thr, 20 June 2024, 6-9pm, The Rail
Join us at The Rail for a Rope Bondage workshop
Who/Host: Earl Gray, Mr. SD Leather 2024What: Leather 101: Rope Bondage
When: Thursday, 20 June 2024, 6-9pm
Where: The Rail, 3796 5th Ave, San Diego, CA 92103-4224
What is Leather 101?
Leather 101 is an educational series set up by Mr. San Diego Leather 2024 in coordination with San Diego's experienced educators to provide a safe space for those who are curious to explore leather, kink, and fetishes that they have always been interested in, but didn't know how or where to begin.Classes will rotate between different locations monthly so that learners can experience more of San Diego's LGBT spaces, and to accommodate the needs of each course.
Class 2: Rope Bondage!
Let's get tied up learning the ins and outs of beginner rope bondage. Doriam Coel, MR. San Diego Leather 2018, brings you his nationally traveled Shibari class.Some rope will be provided, ties can be performed solo or with a partner!
This course will be held at the Rail. While the event is scheduled 6pm- 9pm to allow time to be social, class will start promptly at 7pm to be respectful of our educator's time.
This is a free event but purchasing drinks/food from our host location is encouraged.
Saturday, June 8, 2024
Non-Flogging Impact Play, Sat 22 June 2024
First of all thank you to everyone who attended our social last month! We had a great turn out and hope to see more folks as we get things up and running! This month we’re doing a workshop and it’s all about impact! But rather than go straight to floggers, this time it’ll be all about the other fun ways to do impact including, hands, toys, pervertibles, etc! Workshop will be presented by Rune on Saturday June 22nd, from 12-4 pm. Event address will be provided upon RSVP.
Send email to: SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail to RSVP and for Venue info by 6pm Friday, 21 June to receive venue details. We will not be checking email the day of the event.
- Proof of COVID-19 vaccination or recent negative COVID-19 test is required for entry
- Open to those who identify as male who are 18 years of age and older
- Responses will be sent starting Wednesday, 19 June 2024.
- FMSD supports negotiation and consent in all kink play. Granting consent and clearly negotiating are hindered if you are in an altered state. Therefore, this is a non-alcoholic event and is open to male identifying persons at least 18 years old.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego/permalink/7789911824388214
Sir Francis of San Diego is running another four session Basic Rope Bondage workshop beginning 18 June 2024. He has been involved with FMSD for many years and has presented rope bondage at several FMSD events. FMSD recommends and supports Sir Francis.
Sir Francis will once again be teaching his basic rope bondage course in four sessions on Tuesday evenings, beginning June 18, 2024.
In these hands-on classes, Sir Francis promotes Safe, Sane and Consensual BDSM play among leather identified men. In this course, you will:
- Learn safe, basic rope bondage skills
- Discover your bondage abilities, limits, and preferences
- Learn to negotiate a rope bondage scene
- Be creative
- Have fun!
The class size is limited, so sign-up soon!
You can view Sir Francis bondage photos at: https://officerwes.com/sir-francis.html
For details about the class and how to sign-up, send us an email at
SDMensRopeBondage@Yahoo.com
Sunday, June 2, 2024
Rope Bondage with Sir Francis of San Diego, 18 June 2024
https://www.facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego/permalink/7789911824388214
Sir Francis of San Diego is running another four session Basic Rope Bondage workshop beginning 18 June 2024. He has been involved with FMSD for many years and has presented rope bondage at several FMSD events. FMSD recommends and supports Sir Francis.
Sir Francis will once again be teaching his basic rope bondage course in four sessions on Tuesday evenings, beginning June 18, 2024.
In these hands-on classes, Sir Francis promotes Safe, Sane and Consensual BDSM play among leather identified men. In this course, you will:
- Learn safe, basic rope bondage skills
- Discover your bondage abilities, limits, and preferences
- Learn to negotiate a rope bondage scene
- Be creative
- Have fun!
The class size is limited, so sign-up soon!
You can view Sir Francis bondage photos at: https://officerwes.com/sir-francis.html
For details about the class and how to sign-up, send us an email at
SDMensRopeBondage@Yahoo.com
Monday, May 20, 2024
FMSD May Social, Saturday, 25 May 2024
Greetings gentlemen!
It is with great pleasure to announce the revival of Fetish Men San Diego after our hiatus. We hope that you all will join us for our first social this upcoming Saturday, May 25th. The time will be the same as with previous events, 12-4pm. Location will be provided upon RSVP to SignMeUpForEvent [at] GMail.com. Please bring your ID so we can make sure those who attend match our guest list.
This will be potluck style so feel free to bring snacks and drinks to share!
Looking forward to reconnecting and this next chapter of FMSD!
Tuesday, May 16, 2023
Men's Rope Bondage Class: Beginning June 6th
If you are interested in attending this free men's rope bondage workshop, please let us know by sending an email to:
SDMensRopeBondage@Yahoo.com.
Sir Francis came out to the Leather community in 2013. He is fully committed to promoting Safe, Sane and Consensual BDSM play among leather men and women by sharing any and all safe practices he has learned. His practice has a strong spiritual connection.
He is married and happily with his husband for over 30yrs.
In 2016 he was taken into the La follette Leather family as Officer Wes’s slave.
His primary kink is rope bondage and continues to develop his skills. https://officerwes.com/rope.html
Workshop goals/objectives:
Establish self-awareness towards aspects of bondage (what I like/dislike about it)
Establish awareness and acknowledgment of abilities (I can do this but not that)
Develop a comfort level with negotiating a rope bondage scene
Develop basic safe rope bondage skills
Be creative with the ties you know and have a good time
Workshop requirements:
If attending with a known partner: Each will register separately; Each will assume Top and bottom roles during the workshop
If attending independently: independent attendees will be paired randomly with one another
Rope lengths and scissor requirements: (2) 30ft and (2) 15ft lengths and adequate scissors
Commitment to being safe is required: Commitment will be assessed by attendance and practice
If you miss a session you may continue with this workshop.
However, progression to next level workshops require attendance to ALL sessions and return demonstration of basic ties
Workshop will be (4) days over (4) consecutive weeks. Each session will be approximately 3hrs long.
Dates of the workshop will be:
Tuesdays June 6, 13, 20, 27 and begin at 6:45pm.
Workshop location is in the Serra Mesa area. The address will be sent prior to the start date.
If you are interested in attending this free men's rope bondage workshop, please let us know by sending an email to:
SDMensRopeBondage@Yahoo.com.
FetishMen San Diego Web site
www.FetishMenSanDiego.org
Local Event Pages on Facebook
- FetishMen SanDiego Facebook page
www.Facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego
- For information from Mr. San Diego Leather 2019, Jody
www.facebook.com/MrSanDiegoLeather2019/
- For news from Mr. San Diego Eagle 2019, Myles
www.facebook.com/MRSDEAGLE2019/
- For upcoming events at the San Diego Eagle
www.Facebook.com/groups/255559724621047
- Leather boys of San Diego
www.facebook.com/LeatherboysofSanDiego
- San Diego Cigars & Boots (monthly, 1st Saturday, 4-7pm at Pecs)
www.facebook.com/groups/sdcigarsandboots
www.Facebook.com/groups/FetishMenSanDiego
www.facebook.com/MrSanDiegoLeather2019/
www.facebook.com/MRSDEAGLE2019/
www.Facebook.com/groups/255559724621047
www.facebook.com/LeatherboysofSanDiego
www.facebook.com/groups/sdcigarsandboots