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Friday, January 11, 2019

Upcoming socials and skill topics


Gear Invasion 

Hillcrest Brewing Co (outside, good for leather)1458 University

This Sunday, January 13
6-8pm



Upcoming 

January

2nd Sunday = January 13, social:  Gear Invasion (see top) 6-8pm

1/26 Saturday -- SafeWord Glory (not specifically FMSD, but some of our guys will be there)

4th Sunday = January 27, -- skill topic:  topic tba @ Doriam’s

February

1st Sunday = February 6, Core Committee meeting at Lestat's on University 5-7pm.  All welcome.

2/16/2019 Leather Fetish Ball 2019, 7:00 PM – midnight
Rodman Productions presents the Annual LEATHER FETISH BALL
Sunset Temple, 3911 Kansas St, San Diego CA 92014
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/leather-fetish-ball-2019-tickets-54199888325
Join us for an evening of fabulous entertainers, choice music and of course, a love for leather. This pansexual event aims to celebrate all genders and sexualities, leather and gear fetishes. Help honor our deeply diverse tribes of San Diego, Long Beach, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Palm Springs and surrounding cities . $24 for General Admission Tickets $40 for VIP Tickets ( Includes Front Of Line, Appetizers, and 2 drink Tickets )

4th Sunday = February 24, skill topic:  Fisting 3-5pm

March

1st Sunday = March 3, Core Committee meeting at Lestat's on University 5-7pm.  All welcome.

2nd Sunday = March 10, social:  Jamie & Jody’s for potluck 6-8

March 15 Friday -- SafeWord 10pm-3am after San Diego Leather Pride event

4th Sunday = March 24, skill topic:   Cock & ball torment / "CBT"

April

1st Sunday = April 7, Core Committee meeting at Lestat's on University 5-7pm.  All welcome.

2nd Sunday = April 14, social:  details tbd

4th Sunday = April 28, skill topic:  Officer Wes presents electrical, 6-8pm


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Saturday, January 5, 2019

FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

As Papa Tony noted on our Facebook page:

The big annual events on the FMSD calendar have been updated:
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/…/fmsds-perpetual-ca…

The only dates that are possibly incorrect are the Up Your Alley Street Fair (late July) and the Folsom Street Fair (late September).

A suggestion: If you are planning to attend these major out-of-town events such as the International Mr. Leather Contest in Chicago, NOW would be the time to start planning for lodging, travel and event tickets.

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on this end.

Friday, January 4, 2019

This weekend & beyond

Welcome to 2019!


Saturday January 5:

Cigars & Boots

Saturday, January 5, 4:00 – 7:00pm @ PECS Bar

Whore D'eouvres: Preshow Cocktail Social

Saturday, January 5, 4:30 – 5:30pm @ The Merrow
1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103

Join us for WHORE D'EOUVRES the pre-show social for Night of Fantasies! The Merrow has been gracious to host our event this year for it's Inaugural Production, and we want to make sure attendees are enjoying themselves the day-of! 

Your bootblacks for this event will be: San Diego Bootblack 2018, Shilo Vix and Bootpup Alexander! 
** Suggested minimum donation of $10 for standard height boots

A Night of Fantasies: A Kinky Cabaret

Saturday, January 5, 5:30 – 7:20pm @ The Merrow 

Welcome to A Night of Fantasies The inaugural kinky cabaret fund-raiser 

Night of Fantasies (NoF) is a one night only cabaret style fund raiser event. We kick off at 4:30 with whore d'eouvres, the pre-show cocktail hour and the show opens at 5:30! 

The funds raised will be split 50/50 between San Diego Leather Pride 2019 and a charitable organization chosen by the performers and volunteer staff of A Night of Fantasies! 

Priority Seating will be given to attendees who pre-purchase tickets, door tickets available as space allows.


Sunday January 6:

FMSD Core Committee meeting at PECS, 5-7pm

(It's on the first Sunday each month.)
All are welcome.

Upcoming

  • 1/5 Cigars & Boots (not specifically FMSD) 4-7pm at PECS
  • Also 1/5:
    Whore D'eouvres: Preshow Cocktail Social at 4:30pm, &
    A Night of Fantasies: A Kinky Cabaret at 5:30pm.
     More information above.
  • 1/6/2019 FMSD Core Committee meeting at PECS
  • 1/26/2019 SafeWord (not specifically FMSD but full of our guys)
  • 2/2019 Fisting workshop
  • 2/16/2019 Leather Fetish Ball 2019, 7:00 PM – midnight
    Rodman Productions presents the Annual LEATHER FETISH BALL
    Sunset Temple, 3911 Kansas St, San Diego CA 92014
    https://www.eventbrite.com/e/leather-fetish-ball-2019-tickets-54199888325

    Join us for an evening of fabulous entertainers, choice music and of course, a love for leather. This pansexual event aims to celebrate all genders and sexualities, leather and gear fetishes. Help honor our deeply diverse tribes of San Diego, Long Beach, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Palm Springs and surrounding cities . $24 for General Admission Tickets $40 for VIP Tickets ( Includes Front Of Line, Appetizers, and 2 drink Tickets )
  • 3/2019 Mr. Eagle + San Diego Leather Pride

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Saturday, December 15, 2018

Happy holidays + upcoming

Photo taken at the All Clubs Holiday Party last Monday


Thank you...


to FMSD member Mr. San Diego Leather, Doriam, and San Diego Bootblack, Shilo, for their hard work gathering toys for kids this holiday season.


FetishMen SanDiego FYIs

Notes from the FMSD Core Committee meeting at PECS 12/2/2018

Attendees were Doriam, Jody, Jamie, Scott S., Officer Wes, and Frank.


We talked about the card deck idea to raise money to support the club's activities in the coming year. Scott & Jody already had a photo shoot with James. They'll take the project over. 
==> They need more models. Interested? Let Officer Wes know at fetishmensandiego @ officerwes.com and he'll pass along your contact info.


We discussed a club patch for FMSD. There was a handsome male graphic donated to us. Previously some objected to the mirrored glasses, or cigar. "He's an amalgam of everybody" -- a kinky guy. Lets people know who you are with."


We liked the idea of a monthly rhythm: social, workshop, social, workshop. It also seemed that using people's homes for socials and workshops was attainable for now.

Do we want FMSD to sponsor contestants for any of the coming leather contests? Doriam knows of 3 people from FMSD who've expressed some interest in competing for Mr. San Diego Leather.

Next FMSD Core Committee is 1/6/2019 at PECS, 5-7pm

Sunday, January 6, 2019 5-7pm at PECS Bar.
(It's on the first Sunday each month.)
All are welcome.

Upcoming:

  • 1/6/2019 FMSD Core Committee meeting at PECS
  • 1/26/2019 SafeWord (not specifically FMSD)
  • 2/2019 Fisting workshop
  • 3/2019 Mr. Eagle + San Diego Leather Pride

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Thursday, November 29, 2018

In the next week...

Upcoming Events

San Diego Cigars & Boots (monthly, 1st Saturday) 

Saturday, December 1, 4-7pm
Pecs Bar, 2046 University, San Diego, CA  92104
www.facebook.com/groups/sdcigarsandboots

San Diego Cigars and Boots monthly gathering is this Saturday, December 1 at Pecs Bar from 4:00 - 7:00 pm. Additionally there is a toy drive conducted by Mr. San Diego Leather, Doriam Manuel Couto. There will also be a bootblack there to help you with your leather needs. Please bring an unwrapped toy.


Club X Kinky Swap Meet

Saturday, December 01, 2018 · 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM

Joyce Beers Community Center
3900 Vermont St San Diego CA 92013
Cost: Free to Club X Members, $5 Requested donation of Non-Members
Dress code: Casual, Street Legal!

Cum one, Cum all! It's time for the...

CLUB X - KINKY SWAP MEET! ! !
Yes, we're doing it again, just in time for your Holiday shopping!

Bring out your seldom used and neglected toys. Help them find a new home. Got boots that are too small, barely used toys that you've outgrown or upgraded?? Just need to clear out the kinky closet? Looking for a bargain? Make cool kinky gear you want to sell? This is the place to be. See what others have, swap between friends, stock your toy bag with something new, something different!

UPDATE: This is a popular event so reserve your tables now by emailing info@clubxsd.com. Tables will be reserved until 7:00 and then will be released to others on a first come, first served basis. You know how tight Joyce Beers can be. Reserve your table today!



FMSD Core Committee @PECS

Sunday, December 2, 20185-7pm
All welcome


CRUISE: A New Night @Pecs

Saturday, December 8, 2018
9:00pm – 2:00am

Hosted by PECS bar and Mr. San Diego Leather 2018, Cruise is a new Leather and fetish night at Pecs. Remembering the days where bars were dark, smelled of gear, sweat, and men - CRUISE brings us back to a time before grindr and recon, where all that you had was your ass to put on the line. No phones, dark room. Come cruise with us. Gear, Leather and Hanky Code encouraged.

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Friday, November 23, 2018

SAFE WORD: Men's Party TOMORROW!



Mr. San Diego Leather 2018, Doriam Couto, Presents:

SAFE WORD


Over the past several years working with Fetish Men San Diego, Doriam has had several requests for Male-Only Parties. Thus far he's helped produce a handful, and now brings you the most recent project, Safe Word.

On Saturday, November 24th from 9:00pm to 2:00, Doriam brings you Safe Word, a Men's Only Play Party. The Party will be hosted at House of Black in Miramar, San Diego, CA near Ballast Point Brewery. This is a private indoor venue with a smoking patio and seven rooms for play (photos below). The exact address will be provided with will-call.

Tickets are $205 via BrownPaperTickets, a secure ticketing website which produces a physical or electronic ticket at your discretion. When registering for your ticket this way, please include your First and Last name for the door list as well as a valid Email Address for any producer messages we may send out.

What You'll See:
The Main Dungeon is equipped with Two St. Andrew's
Crosses, a Sling, Cage and Massage Cage.

Your All-Inclusive ticket covers cost of admission, food, drink, and use of the venue the night of November 24th from the kick off of the party until the close. This event is for all levels of players and all kinks/fetishes. Some things you might see include: 
  • Bondage
  • Flogging/Whips
  • Rope Play
  • Puppy and Pet Play
  • Suspension
  • Piss Play and Fisting
  • Sex
  • etc.

Dress Code:

Dress Code for the event is best described as "Where what makes you feel sexy". Leather, fetish gear, uniforms*, pup gear, and nudity are all welcome and encouraged! But if you don't have any, solid t-shirt and jeans with boots is more than welcome! Don't have that either? Wear whatever you like.

Clothes check WILL be available.

Note: Please be aware that there may be folks in boots in the dungeon space, as such I recommend close-toed shoes.


ALL INCLUSIVE

For only $25 Dollars means:
  • Dungeon Space
  • Play Demos
  • Kink and Fetish Performances
  • Themed Dungeon Rooms and Equipment
  • Snack Foods and Drink Provided
  • Shower w/ cleaning equipment**
The Party will be held on Saturday, November 24, 2018 from 9:00pm to 2:00am Doors will close at 12:00AM sharp! House of Black is located in Miramar, between the 805 and 15 freeways near Ballast Point Brewery. The Venue is a 3000 sq.ft. fully-equipped dungeon facility with 7 rooms for attendees to play in. Exact address will be provided with in the weeks preceeding the event; please use a valid email address when registering.

Interested in Volunteering or have questions? Email MisterSDL2018@GMail.com. Volunteers receive $5 off f their admission for each hour of volunteer work they are available for. 

Resource Links:

Facebook Event Link
Note: do to the nature of this event, don't expect a lot of response this way.
Mr. San Diego Leather 2018 on Facebook
Email Me for more Information

* Nazi and German-Style uniforms are discouraged.
** Please be prepared ahead of time, these should only be used for spot checking as needed.

Saturday, November 17, 2018

FMSD Invasion of Eagle BBQ, SAFE WORD

FMSD Invasion of Eagle BBQ

Come join your leather brothers this Sunday at the San Diego Eagle's BBQ!

Sunday, November 18, 4-6pm:

San Diego Eagle
3040 North Park Way
San Diego, CA 92104
(619) 295–8072




Mr. San Diego Leather 2018, Doriam Couto, Presents:

SAFE WORD


Over the past several years working with Fetish Men San Diego, Doriam has had several requests for Male-Only Parties. Thus far he's helped produce a handful, and now brings you the most recent project, Safe Word.

On Saturday, November 24th from 9:00pm to 2:00, Doriam brings you Safe Word, a Men's Only Play Party. The Party will be hosted at House of Black in Miramar, San Diego, CA near Ballast Point Brewery. This is a private indoor venue with a smoking patio and seven rooms for play (photos below). The exact address will be provided with will-call.

Tickets are $25 via BrownPaperTickets, a secure ticketing website which produces a physical or electronic ticket at your discretion. When registering for your ticket this way, please include your First and Last name for the door list as well as a valid Email Address for any producer messages we may send out.

What You'll See:
The Main Dungeon is equipped with Two St. Andrew's
Crosses, a Sling, Cage and Massage Cage.

Your All-Inclusive ticket covers cost of admission, food, drink, and use of the venue the night of November 24th from the kick off of the party until the close. This event is for all levels of players and all kinks/fetishes. Some things you might see include: 
  • Bondage
  • Flogging/Whips
  • Rope Play
  • Puppy and Pet Play
  • Suspension
  • Piss Play and Fisting
  • Sex
  • etc.

Dress Code:

Dress Code for the event is best described as "Where what makes you feel sexy". Leather, fetish gear, uniforms*, pup gear, and nudity are all welcome and encouraged! But if you don't have any, solid t-shirt and jeans with boots is more than welcome! Don't have that either? Wear whatever you like.

Clothes check WILL be available.

Note: Please be aware that there may be folks in boots in the dungeon space, as such I recommend close-toed shoes.


ALL INCLUSIVE

For only $25 Dollars means:
  • Dungeon Space
  • Play Demos
  • Kink and Fetish Performances
  • Themed Dungeon Rooms and Equipment
  • Snack Foods and Drink Provided
  • Shower w/ cleaning equipment**
The Party will be held on Saturday, November 24, 2018 from 9:00pm to 2:00am Doors will close at 12:00AM sharp! House of Black is located in Miramar, between the 805 and 15 freeways near Ballast Point Brewery. The Venue is a 3000 sq.ft. fully-equipped dungeon facility with 7 rooms for attendees to play in. Exact address will be provided with in the weeks preceeding the event; please use a valid email address when registering.

Interested in Volunteering or have questions? Email MisterSDL2018@GMail.com. Volunteers receive $5 off of their admission for each hour of volunteer work they are available for. 


Resource Links:

Facebook Event Link
Note: do to the nature of this event, don't expect a lot of response this way.
Mr. San Diego Leather 2018 on Facebook
Email Me for more Information

* Nazi and German-Style uniforms are discouraged.
** Please be prepared ahead of time, these should only be used for spot checking as needed.




Local event pages