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Friday, June 14, 2019

HELP NEEDED: Rope Ambassador assistance July 14 noon-5pm

HELP NEEDED:  Sir Francis is requesting
Rope Ambassador assistance from an
experienced rope bondage rigger. 

This is for the Leather Realm
Sunday July 14, from 1200 to 1700.
If willing and able please contact him
by June 24 at: xplrrb@gmail.com






FMSD at Pride needs Volunteers: July 13-14

We're going to have a table in the Leather Realm
and need helpful souls to staff it
Saturday, July 13 and/or Sunday July 14

Interested?  e-mail fetishmensandiego@gmail.com





FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.




FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



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Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Flogging Friday 6/14, Electrical 6/19, FMSD at Pride 7/13-14

Flogging Friday at the Eagle: June 14

Friday, June 14, 10pm-midnight
The San Diego Eagle
3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Flogging Friday is the 2nd Friday each month at the Eagle.

Come out and enjoy fellowship with your club brothers!



Erotic Electrical by Officer Wes: June 19

Wednesday, June 19, 7:00pm – 9:00pm
Pleasures and Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92104

Erotic Electrical is a fun and welcoming workshop for all.  I first fantasized about electrical play at age 11.  By 25 my first SM Top had me tied up and used electrical on me.  It was thrilling.  When I started Topping I collected an amaze-balls assortment of cool and interesting gear.  In this intimate evening you'll get to see and potentially experience some of this gear at this workshop, which I've been presenting for clubs and events nationwide for 26 years.  More information at www.officerwes.com

Join us!  I assure you it will be a fun, interesting and safe time.

FetishMen SanDiego meets the third Wednesday each month at Pleasures and Treasures, 2525 University Avenue, from 7-9pm.





FMSD at Pride needs Volunteers: July 13-14

We're going to have a table in the Leather Realm
and need helpful souls to staff it
Saturday, July 13 and/or Sunday July 14

Interested?  e-mail fetishmensandiego@gmail.com





FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



Local Event Pages

Sunday, June 2, 2019

Wednesday: Tom's Place 7pm

FetishMen SanDiego now meets the 1st and 3rd Wednesdays

  • 1st Wednesdays will be 7-9pm at Tom's Place over the summer. It's at a handsome private venue. e-mail "signmeupforevent@gmail.com" for the address

  • 3rd Wednesdays are 7-9pm at Pleasures and Treasures, 2525 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92104

For this inaugural 1st Wednesday, June 5, we will have a social at Tom’s Place with fellowship, light snacks, discussion and perhaps some show and tell. Come with your interest and kink.  Hot tub available. (Bring swimsuit and towel if interested.) 


Summer Schedule @Tom's Place (Hillcrest & Balboa Park)

Wed, June 5
Wed, July 3 AND Wed, July 31
No Wednesday in August
Wed, Sept 4
Wed, Oct 2




Save the date!

June 8, 6pm – 9pm:  Swap Meat @ Urban MO’s Bar & Grill (bi-monthly on the second Saturday)

Urban Mo's, 308 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, USA


Hey Kinksters, missed IML? No worries, Sat. June 8th 6-9pm, clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that might need a new dungeon. Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear in real time (off the apps.) Introduce new curious guys to your turn-ons or try gear on. Demos welcome (w approval.) Feel free to forward this to any groups/blogs or peeps who’d be interested. Free to enter, $5 to sell. More Info: 619-352-0666 -Fox.


SWAP MEAT is San Diego’s bimonthly social event for all kink backgrounds to meet and connect over our fetishes, toys & gear. Our event takes place in Mo’s semi-private dance floor for an intimate setting outside the apps and back into real time cruising. We’ve had the pleasure in the past to host pup mosh pit, boot black, rope and flogging demos, custom harnesses by Anthony Rollar Greika of LeatherLove, Detoxxx custom leather, custom suits by Ryder-Gear.com and more.




FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



FetishMen SanDiego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



Local Event Pages

Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Taco Trio, Cigars, Park & Burgers this weekend!


Taco Trio 2019, fundraiser for the San Diego Leather Realm at San Diego Pride 2019.

When: June 1st 2019 from 1 to 6 PM, 18+ Event

Where: Private residence in the College Area (address will be sent 2 days before the event)

Cost: $15 per taco plate + soda or water and a surprise treat - Cash only at the door



Sir Jo Blas, Roxy and USA Tickler are hosting a taco fundraiser to benefit the Leather Realm.

Come enjoy a family taco recipe and soak up in a clothing-optional pool!

Bring your towel and sunscreen, your appetite and have fun while helping the Leather Realm 2019!





San Diego Cigars & Boots

Saturday, June 1, 4pm - 7pm at Pecs (monthly on the 1st Saturday)
2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Come join us! Even if you don’t smoke cigars or you sample a pipe or other things it’s a good time to make new friends in the leather community. Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free.


Sunday in the Park

Monthly event, First Sunday of the month, Noon to 2pm

Balboa Park @ 6th & El Prado / Laurel

Join Mr San Diego Leather 2019, Jody Mitchell, in Balboa Park for games and fun every first Sunday of the month!






San Diego Eagle Summer 2019 Burger and Beer Bust

Starting Sunday June 2nd!!! the San Diego Eagle Bar B Que and Beer Bust!! from 4:00 PM until we run out of food.

Domestic Beer Mugs $2.50.

Burgers, Hot Dogs, Veggie Burgers with all the sides!! sometimes we will have Chicken and RIBS!!! $3.00

This event will be hosted by Mr. San Diego Eagle 2019 MYLES.

Cum enjoy an afternoon of Good Food and Good People.





Wednesday, May 22, 2019

A packed June!



Saturday, June 1

4pm - 7pm - San Diego Cigars & Boots at Pecs (monthly on the 1st Saturday)

2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Come join us! Even if you don’t smoke cigars or you sample a pipe or other things it’s a good time to make new friends in the leather community. Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free.


Sunday, June 2

Noon - 2pm - Sunday in the Park

Balboa Park at 6th & Laurel, San Diego, CA

Join club brother Jody -- as Mr. San Diego Leather 2019 -- for games and fun every first Sunday!


Next up, 

FMSD at The Eagle (also June 2)

2pm-6pm: - Sunday Cookout at The Eagle

3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Come out and support fellow FMSD member, Myles, at his first Sunday cook-out as Mr. San Diego Eagle 2019! 

Followed by, 

4pm-6pm: - Planning Group Meeting at The Eagle

3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

==> Venue correction:  The Eagle is indeed the correct place for June's planning group meeting! <==

June's meeting is especially important as it will help us plan our presence in the Leather Realm at San Diego Pride this year.  

Do you have an idea, request or venue suggestion for an FMSD workshop, demo, discussion, or social? Come let us know! We'll be planning what we're doing for the next three months, each month.  These friendly gatherings happen monthly on the first Sunday.




Save the dates!

June 8, 6pm – 9pm:  Swap Meat @ Urban MO’s Bar & Grill (bi-monthly on the second Saturday)

308 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, USA


Hey Kinksters, missed IML? No worries, Sat. June 8th 6-9pm, clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that might need a new dungeon. Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear in real time (off the apps.) Introduce new curious guys to your turn-ons or try gear on. Demos welcome (w approval.) Feel free to forward this to any groups/blogs or peeps who’d be interested. Free to enter, $5 to sell. More Info: 619-352-0666 -Fox.


SWAP MEAT is San Diego’s bimonthly social event for all kink backgrounds to meet and connect over our fetishes, toys & gear. Our event takes place in Mo’s semi-private dance floor for an intimate setting outside the apps and back into real time cruising. We’ve had the pleasure in the past to host pup mosh pit, boot black, rope and flogging demos, custom harnesses by Anthony Rollar Greika of LeatherLove, Detoxxx custom leather, custom suits by Ryder-Gear.com and more.



June 14, 10pm – midnight:  FMSD's Flogging Friday @ The Eagle (monthly on the second Friday)

3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

As requested by our customers, Flogging Fridays are back!  




June 19, 7-9pm:  FMSD at Pleasures and Treasures (every month on the third Wednesday)

This will be an electrical workshop by me -- Officer Wes.  Join us as I share one of my kink passions with my club brothers.  My first slave came to me via a question about electro I'd done at a party...  I promise it's going to be a fun evening!  More info as the date gets closer.




FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



Local Event Pages

Tuesday, May 14, 2019

WEDNESDAY 5/15: Rope Bondage workshop!

FetishMen SanDiego: Rope Bondage May 15

Pleasures and Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92104
Wednesday, May 15, 7:00pm – 9:00pm

Workshop description:

Rope Bondage play can be an exciting addition to our kink play.

It is a form of sensory deprivation, enhancing a submissive’s sensation and dominant's level of control.

We will share our negotiation skills, thoughts on trust, and limitations on both sides of the slash, Top / bottom, Dominant / submissive, etc.

During this workshop you will have an opportunity to practice some basic rope ties that when creatively combined can become a predicament.

There will be limited rope available.  Some recommended rope supplies to bring:
  • Rope -- for beginning levels, 1/4 inch woven nylon, 25-30 feet long
  • Safety scissors (think paramedics) -- strong enough to cut through the rope with one cut
  • Yoga pad/rug -- to kneel/sit on while tying
In the past we have paired off during the meeting, with each man both placing the tie and receiving it.  You are welcome to bring a partner with you as well.

Presenter bio:

Sir Francis / ExplorerFrank dove into the Leather community in 2013 and was presented a Leatherman's cover in 2016 to recognize his ethics and quick learning of skills, particularly his artistry with rope. That work was featured in a pictorial spread in The Advocate, and can be seen at this link www.advocate.com/photography/2016/11/21/sophisticated-tastes-mature-men-photos
He is fully committed to promoting Safe, Sane and Consensual BDSM play among leather men and women by sharing any and all safe practices he has learned.

His practice has a strong spiritual connection. He is happily married with his husband of over 30 years.   In 2016 he was taken in to Daddy Barry's and Officer Wes' and dog's Leather family as Officer Wes' slave. He identifies as a switch and works under a Leatherman ethos of Respect | Honor | Trust | Love.

He is open to continued exploration and encourages veteran leathermen as well as newcomers to explore their fetish desires.

About FetishMen SanDiego:

Fetish Men is a welcoming group of gay kinky/fetish men. FMSD a non-organization/organization driven by the brotherhood and camaraderie of its members.

We are a group for Leather & Fetish Men, Leathermen, and Kinky Guys seeking Brotherhood, Support, Kindness, and Education in San Diego.

We are dedicated to the continued growth and education of our men by providing an ongoing series of events, workshops, and socials.

Check out FetishMenSanDiego dot org for more information about socials, demos, and other kinky events.

FMSD is a cohesive and cooperative gay-male kink/fetish group. If you're curious about kink, or you're already into it, you belong here.

We welcome men of all ages (18+), all colors, all body-styles, and all experience-levels.



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Monday, May 6, 2019

Rope Bondage Wednesday 5/15 7-9 at P&T

FetishMen SanDiego Rope Bondage workshop May 15

Pleasures and Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92104
Wednesday, May 15, 7:00pm – 9:00pm

Workshop description:

Rope Bondage play can be an exciting addition to our kink play.

It is a form of sensory deprivation, enhancing a submissive’s sensation and dominant's level of control.

We will share our negotiation skills, thoughts on trust, and limitations on both sides of the slash, Top / bottom, Dominant / submissive, etc.

During this workshop you will have an opportunity to practice some basic rope ties that when creatively combined can become a predicament.

There will be limited rope available.  Some recommended rope supplies to bring:
  • Rope -- for beginning levels, 1/4 inch woven nylon, 25-30 feet long
  • Safety scissors (think paramedics) -- strong enough to cut through the rope with one cut
  • Yoga pad/rug -- to kneel/sit on while tying
In the past we have paired off during the meeting, with each man both placing the tie and receiving it.  You are welcome to bring a partner with you as well.

Presenter bio:

Sir Francis / ExplorerFrank dove into the Leather community in 2013 and was presented a Leatherman's cover in 2016 to recognize his ethics and quick learning of skills, particularly his artistry with rope. That work was featured in a pictorial spread in The Advocate, and can be seen at this link www.advocate.com/photography/2016/11/21/sophisticated-tastes-mature-men-photos
He is fully committed to promoting Safe, Sane and Consensual BDSM play among leather men and women by sharing any and all safe practices he has learned.

His practice has a strong spiritual connection. He is happily married with his husband of over 30 years.   In 2016 he was taken in to Daddy Barry's and Officer Wes' and dog's Leather family as Officer Wes' slave. He identifies as a switch and works under a Leatherman ethos of Respect | Honor | Trust | Love.

He is open to continued exploration and encourages veteran leathermen as well as newcomers to explore their fetish desires.



Local event pages