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Thursday, July 29, 2021

Last Call - FMSD Pot Luck Social, Hot Tub/Pool/Play Party @Tom's Place, 31 July 2021

Before Midnight, Friday, 30 July, please send email indicating your commitment to attend the event (RSVP).

SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail

Pot Luck Social, Hot Tub/Pool/Play Party

Saturday, 31 July 2021, 4-8pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of COVID-19 Vaccination completed prior to 17 July 2021.


Fetish Men San Diego is hosting its first in person gathering on, Saturday, July 31st from 4:00 - 8:00pm. (set-up: 3pm-4pm, event: 4pm-8pm, clean-up: 8pm-9pm)

It has been well over a year since we have met in person so we are doing it right. Get our your recipes and lets get together for a potluck social, swim and hot tub, and play party.

The dungeon in the garage houses a St. Andrew's cross, sling, suspension harness, and other restraint gear. Bring your gear and accoutrement if you are so inclined/reclined.

If you would like to enjoy the hot tub or solar heated pool, please bring a towel or two. Bathing costumes are not required.

This is a non-alcoholic event and soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and dips will be provided so break out your best entrée, desert, or appetizer to share with the group.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail indicating your commitment to attend (a.k.a. RSVP) by Friday, 30 July. Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 16 July 2021) is required to attend this event.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.
Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Wednesday, July 28, 2021

FMSD Potluck Social, Hot Tub/Pool/Play Party - Sat 31 Jul 2021, 4-8pm

Pot Luck Social, Hot Tub/Pool/Play Party

Saturday, 31 July 2021, 4-8pm. Border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest @Tom's Place.
Proof of "full" COVID-19 Vaccination required.
Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at] GMail with your name and picture of COVID-19 Vaccination completed prior to 17 July 2021.


Fetish Men San Diego is hosting its first in person gathering on, Saturday, July 31st from 4:00 - 8:00pm. (set-up: 3pm-4pm, event: 4pm-8pm, clean-up: 8pm-9pm)

It has been well over a year since we have met in person so we are doing it right. Get our your recipes and lets get together for a potluck social, swim and hot tub, and play party.

The dungeon in the garage houses a St. Andrew's cross, sling, suspension harness, and other restraint gear. Bring your gear and accoutrement if you are so inclined/reclined.

If you would like to enjoy the hot tub or solar heated pool, please bring a towel or two. Bathing costumes are not required.

This is a non-alcoholic event and soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and dips will be provided so break out your best entrée, desert, or appetizer to share with the group.

This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail indicating your commitment to attend (a.k.a. RSVP) by Friday, 30 July. Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.

In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 16 July 2021) is required to attend this event.

If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.
Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Saturday, July 24, 2021


 

August 7th: San Diego Cigars & Boots
Saturday, August 7, 4pm – 7pm
Pecs Bar
2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104
Come join us! Everyone is welcome with open arms whether you smoke cigars, cigarettes, pipes, vapes or nothing at all. Wear whatever you like but leather, uniforms, levis, rubber are encouraged. Daddy Barry is the host so please feel free to come up and introduce yourself. It’s a good time to make new friends in the leather community.
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise free.
San Diego Cigars & Boots is held at Pecs Bar at the corner of University and Alabama from 4pm until 7pm on the first Saturday of the month.


 


Pot Luck Social & Pool Party



Fetish Men San Diego is hosting its first in person gathering on, Saturday, July 31st from 4:00 - 8:00pm. (set-up: 3pm-4pm, event: 4pm-8pm, clean-up: 8pm-9pm)
It has been well over a year since we have met in person so we are doing it right. Get our your recipes and lets get together for a potluck social, swim and hot tub, and play party.
The dungeon in the garage houses a St. Andrew's cross, sling, suspension harness, and other restraint gear. Bring your gear and accoutrement if you are so inclined/reclined.
If you would like to enjoy the hot tub or solar heated pool, please bring a towel or two. Bathing costumes are not required.
This is a non-alcoholic event and soda/pop/soft drinks, chips and dips will be provided so break out your best entrée, desert, or appetizer to share with the group.
This event is at "Tom's Place", a private residence, on the border of Balboa Park and Hillcrest. Please send email to SignMeUpForEvent {at) GMail indicating your commitment to attend (a.k.a. RSVP) by Friday, 30 July. Please Note: We will not be checking email the day of the event.
In an effort to keep our members safe, proof of full vaccination (last dose/shot received on or before Friday, 16 July 2021) is required to attend this event.
If you have any questions please feel free to reach out and we will do our best to answer them.
Thank you and we look forward to seeing and socializing with our brothers once again!

Thursday, June 17, 2021


Friday, June 25th:

Come join us at The Merrow for an evening of fun
8PM: Cigars & Boots Social, combined with the excellent Leather Swap Meat, followed by:
It's been a very long 15 months since the last San Diego Cigars & Boots gathering but it's finally here.
With the generosity of the people at Swap Meat our first official gathering will be Friday, June 25th from 8:00 pm to 10:00 pm at the Merrow, 1271 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103.
We miss you all and hope to see you there!

Hello! For those new or curious to leather we are 1 week away from enjoying our first SWAP MEAT in our new outdoor area at The Merrow. SWAP MEAT provides the safest, friendliest environment to explore, ask questions (or just respectfully observe.) Please ask permission before taking pics of anyone you didn't arrive with. Your participation is voluntary, yet we hope you see something that may challenge your mind to join when you are ready. You’ll find all vendors and guests happy to answer questions about leather, kink, rubber and fetishes. That’s what makes this event the fun, welcoming mixed social space for the last 3 years. (OK, minus last year, 😉) Feel free to forward the SWAP MEAT link to anyone you feel has a wild side. If you have any questions, text/call me at 619-352-0666 or swapmeatmarket@gmail.com -Fox



10PM, the LOCKER ROOM kinky dance & cruise party (same location), featuring DJ Eli ($10 cover)

This event is open to all genders and encourage everyone to wear what makes them feel sexy. That can be leather, drag, rubber, sporty, or whatever it is just bring it! We want everyone to know they are welcome! Get your cruise on, dance, drink, socialize in a safe place. DJ Eli will be bringing the beats and sponsored by Humanity.
Come a little early to check out the swap meat by fox finds. You can buy, trade, and sell gear. This is the perfect place to find your outfit for the night or just socialize before the dancing starts.


!!OFFICIAL LOCKER-ROOM AFTER PARTY!!
Come get [USED]
After Locker-Room on June 25, join us for the After Party at Club San Diego starting at Midnight (12AM) for [USED], a new Male-Energy Play Party presented by boyDaddy Productions.
Dust off your gear and toys and let's get dirty in the dark room. Enjoy the transformation of the club including dungeon spaces, St. Andrew's Crosses, slings throughout the building.
Be prepared to witness and live out your fantasies.
!!OFFICIAL LOCKER-ROOM AFTER PARTY!!
All Attendees must complete Release of Liability waivers and be in full-compliance of the Club San Diego code of conduct and qualify for membership at Club San Diego. Open flames and bloodletting are not permitted on the premises, if you have concerns please contact the event host(s), or for more information, visit: https://clubsandiego.com/


Sunday, May 9, 2021

Benefits of a Play Name or Alias w/Robert Black

 


WEDNESDAY, MAY 19, 2021 AT 7 PM PDT

Benefits of a Play Name or AliasRobert Black is a leatherman, BDSM porn actor, and host of the podcast Sexual Heroes

Join us as Robert Black shares how the creation of a separate identity impacted his journey in leather/BDSM.....and life.
Grabby Award winner and GayVN Award nominee Robert Black has appeared in more than 50 adult films and was named a “ZEUS boy of the Year.” He has been featured in magazines including Honcho, Bound & Gagged, and International Leatherman. A proud member of the leather/kink community, he is the host of Sexual Heroes, a podcast with a mission to inform, entertain, and inspire listeners to embrace their sexuality.
Checkout his website at https://robertblackxxx.com/
Twitter : @RobertBlackXXX
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Saturday, May 1, 2021

TRADE ALLEY: A SAFE, SOCIAL OUTDOOR FETISH EVENT


 SWAP MEAT and Fox Finds host:

TRADE ALLEY
A SAFE, SOCIAL OUTDOOR FETISH EVENT

Live Demos
Cigar Area
Bootblack
Visuals
Table Service

All state/local Covid guidelines enforced.
Mask and Temp. check on arrival.

Wear leather/fetish/rubber/pup/gear for priority seating.
7:30-10pm
No cover
NO RSVP for tables.
First come, first seated.
Info: 619-352-0666
swapmeatmarket@gmail.com

TRADE ALLEY is a nod to Dore Alley as well as Peacock Alley, in the same location for this leather event for those San Diego gay bar history buffs.

Pound the pavement in your boots in a OPEN AIR safe space for gathering and cruising.

Sorry kids, this is an event for Fetish Men in gear (and their allies). The ‘But my belt/shoes are made of leather!’ won’t get you to the front. 😜

Leave the family behind, this isn’t Folsom. This is a place for all leather men, fetishists and the kink curious to reconnect with their familiar carnal tribe and make new friends. Welcome back to those who are ready. For those who aren’t, we will see you when you are. -Fox Finds

PS. The regular SWAP MEAT event will be returning next month hopefully, local restrictions pending.😉

The Merrow
1271 University Ave
San Diego, Ca 92103