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Wednesday, April 29, 2015

New-Style Upcoming Events, Kept Up to Date

While our group is going through changes in management, we are trying out new, better ways to get news out about upcoming events in a timely fashion… without so much work!

The calendar below CHANGES, so if you come back to this same page later on, the information will be updated.

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that the events show up on your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on this end.

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

IMsL 2015 Welcome Home Party for Sarge

Note:  this event is REPLACING THE USUAL WEEKLY MEETING, for this one week.


San Diego, CA (Hillcrest)
Wednesday, 22 April, 7pm till 9pm
IMsL 2015 Welcome Home Party for Sarge
Fundraiser for The Leather Foundation
At Numbers Bar,  3811 Park Blvd.

FMSD is having a field trip to support our Leather Sister, Sarge, who will be celebrating her IMsL 2015 win.

Perhaps you haven’t heard, but our very own Sarge, aka Tina, aka President of The Stomping Ground, aka Ms. San Diego Leather 2014/15 was out of town recently. Why’s that, you ask? She was involved in a grueling weekend-long competition with eight other contestants in San Jose, California.

It is with great pride and admiration that we announce to you that she was chosen as the woman to best carry the sash as INTERNATIONAL MS. LEATHER 2015!

The International Ms. Leather title carries large contractual requirements for event attendance, but before Sarge begins her whirlwind tour of “all the things”, we wanted to take a night to welcome our winner back to San Diego, let her know how proud we are of her, and to show her that ALL of San Diego is here to support her as she begins this challenging title year.

Join us at NUMB3RS on 
WEDNESDAY, 22 April from 7 to 9pm as we host a Congratulations Party for our hometown honey, Sarge IMsL 2015! We will be doing a few fundraising activities during the party to help Sarge in her first charity fundraiser to assist The Leather Foundation, a local 501(c)3 that provided great support for her to make her IMsL run in the first place. We will have a bucket for a $5 suggested donation at the door, but please provide whatever you can afford.

Watch the IMsl 2015 winner announcement at:

Thursday, April 9, 2015


This article is part of my Mentoring for Tops/Sirs/Doms/Masters curriculum.

UPDATE:  The audio from the April 8 lecture is here.

Tonight, Wednesday, April 8, and next week, April 15, from 7-9pm, I will be teaching


It will be at Stomping Ground, and I expect it to be at full capacity, both nights…

My big, hairy fist has been up inside over 300 different butts, and I started in 1977.  I learned from the highest-qulity sexual athletes of the 1970’s, in New York, San Francisco, Los Angeles, San Diego and Palm Springs.  I was a tall Top who liked to play with older men, and I got invited to a LOT of parties, and hosted many of them myself, at my own sling-rooms over the years.

After every session, I'd ask the man "How could I have made it better?" Now, YOU get to gain the benefit of all of that "Hands-in" experience and gathered wisdom! 

Tonight we will start by having a discussion, and clearing up some mythology on the topic. Then, next week, I will be teaching in the same way that I have always taught:

I will put one hand in, but will mirror its motions with the other, on the outside, so that the men will learn visually. I will teach Preparation for Tops, setting the bottom's mind at ease (seduction), and being able to fist a man, using absolutely zero drugs, with zero pain.

Every man that I have coached in this fashion has gone on to become quite popular as a Fisting Top. I want YOU to be just as popular, and for all of the right reasons.