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Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Events as of June 30

Note from Papa Tony:


Things have been different lately, as the brothers on the team decide who has what duties in the running of FetishMenSanDiego.  So, emailed newsletters have been rare.  Unbeknownst to the folks who aren't on Facebook, FMSD has been roaring ahead on full power all along.  There has been one superb event after another, week after week after week.


So, in an effort to reach out in a more effective way, I will send out a SHORT newsletter each week, rather than the labor-intensive, monstro-huge newsletter of days past.  As always, the continually-updated FMSD Calendar will let you know what is coming up, months ahead of time. It contains the details that I don't have the patience to deal with any more, and it would be a REALLY GOOD IDEA for you to bookmark it, or to subscribe to it.


I invite every man reading this to take a chance, attend a few events, and to find some friends that may last a lifetime!


Upcoming Events

Cigars & Boots
Scheduled: Jul 4, 2015, 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM
Location: Redwing Bar & Grill, 4012 30th Street, San Diego, CA 92104, United States
Info: http://goo.gl/cRWmV
Please come out and join us whether you are a seasoned smoker, or curious to learn.

Hosting Venue: Redwing Bar & Grill
Address: 4012 30th St, San Diego, CA 92104, United States
Parking: Street parking



Club X X-Plore
Scheduled: Jul 4, 2015, 7:00 PM to 9:00 PM
1st Saturday of the Month @ 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM  Joyce Beers Community Center  3900 Vermont Street SD, 92103. Free to members, $5 donation requested for non-members, email for more information (info@clubxsd.org)

Xplore is a BDSM Play Xploritorium, designed for both sides of the slash (top and bottoms, Dominants and submissives, etc.), and a great way to get a hands on experience/perspective of the various types of play we enjoy.

Whether you are just beginning your BDSM journey or want to know what it is like to feel the kiss of a whip, a rhythmic flogging, the feel of rope against your skin, a spanking/paddling or many of the other forms of play you have heard and read about, this is for you!
Although there are representatives for specific play types, don't be discouraged if you don't see what you're looking for. If there is something you have a question about please let Club X know and we can get your questions answered!

You can feel the impact of, or learn the correct and safe way(s) to use the toys in your bag or the ones you would like to buy. There will be various demonstrators in attendance to show, instruct, assist and help you out with proper techniques.

Xplore is typically held the First (1st) Saturday of the month starting at 7:00 p.m. and continuing until about 9:00 p.m, at the Joyce Beers Community Center.

We do require photo Identification showing you are 18 years old and Release of Liability Forms must be completed before you enter the room. This is not a play party, but an educational event designed to teach the basics of What It Is that We do.


FMSD - Men's Discussions: "Coming out as Leather" / "2nd Coming Out"
Scheduled: Jul 1, 2015, 7:00 PM to 9:00 PM
Location: 1235 Hotel Cir S, San Diego, CA 92108, United States
Discussion Topic: "Coming out as Leather" / "2nd Coming Out"
Host(s): Name(s)

General Info: http://goo.gl/nUWDXw
Come to a quiet, safe and welcoming space, where we can talk about stuff that matters, learn from each other, and build new friendships outside of a noisy bar!

Hosting Venue: TheStompingGroundSanDiego.org
1235 Hotel Cir S, San Diego, CA 92108, United States
Google Maps properly shows the location which is up the street behind the TravelLodge San Diego Mission Valley and Kings Inn San Diego
Parking: Street parking on the hill. Arrive early to park closer to the building!



Harness Party
Scheduled: Jul 10, 2015, 10:00 PM to Jul 11, 2015, 1:30 AM
Location: Numbers Bar, 3811 Park Blvd San Diego CA 92103-3609
http://goo.gl/Ad5KP



FMSD - Instruction & Practical: Watersports
Scheduled: Jul 8, 2015, 7:00 PM to 9:00 PM
Location: 1235 Hotel Cir S, San Diego, CA 92108, United States
Instruction & Practical Topic: Watersports
Host(s): Name(s)

General Info: http://goo.gl/nUWDXw
Come to a quiet, safe and welcoming space, where we can talk about stuff that matters, learn from each other, and build new friendships outside of a noisy bar!

Hosting Venue: TheStompingGroundSanDiego.org
1235 Hotel Cir S, San Diego, CA 92108, United States
Google Maps properly shows the location which is up the street behind the TravelLodge San Diego Mission Valley and Kings Inn San Diego
Parking: Street parking on the hill. Arrive early to park closer to the building!



Men's Play Party at Stomping Ground
Scheduled: Jul 3, 2015, 8:00 PM to 11:00 PM
Location: 1235 Hotel Cir S, San Diego, CA 92108, United States
Hosting Venue: TheStompingGroundSanDiego.org
Address: 1235 Hotel Cir S, San Diego, CA 92108, United States
Google Maps properly shows the location which is up the street behind the TravelLodge San Diego Mission Valley and Kings Inn San Diego
Parking: Street parking on the hill. Arrive early to park closer to the building!



BearNight Dance
Scheduled: Jul 4, 2015, 10:00 PM to 11:30 PM
Location: Numbers Bar, 3811 Park Blvd San Diego CA 92103-3609

Info: http://goo.gl/nLW4V - Lots of leathermen attend this event, and it comes highly recommended…

Thursday, June 18, 2015

FMSD 5th Anniversary/Gear Invasion

From Papa Tony:


7PM on Wednesday, June 24th, at Urban Mo's at the corner of Third and University:

308 University Ave
San Diego CA 92103-3009

Dress Code: Whatever makes you feel SEXY.

The men of FetishMenSanDiego will not meeting at our usual Wednesday night space.  In honor of five very successful years of operation as a kinky brotherhood, we will be celebrating at Urban Mo's. I will be buying appetizers, and the first round of sodas or other beverages. That is my gift of gratitude for my beloved brothers. You are the heart and soul of FMSD.

The plan is to be open, friendly, sociable and inviting to the men around us, and maybe picking up a few new members as we swap stories about our experiences as brothers.  Every time that we have done this, we have always had a thoroughly satisfying time.




A Bit of History:

FMSD was created to be something NEW and forward-thinking.  No by-laws, elections or membership fees.  The goal was to supply what the Internet can not, and never will, provide… Brotherhood, trust, relaxation and affection.

As you can see from our massive, massive photo-archives, we have continued to succeed despite a few challenges that have arisen at times. They were all just speed-bumps, and we just kept sailing along.  Thanks to the MANY men who have shared their time, wisdom, expertise and dedication, the FMSD phenomenon just keeps getting better and better.

FetishMenSanDiego was designed all along to be a welcoming space for new, innovative ideas.  Our flexibility and diversity have been our biggest strengths.  Every man who wants to be a leader can be, with a large support-system. Volunteers are loved and thanked, and everyone is treated with respect.

As has been said elsewhere, we are not Old Guard, and we are not New Guard:

We are PREHISTORIC GUARD.  We are Tribal.  In a fully-functional Tribe, everybody brings their best efforts and energies in a cooperative way.  Each individual is treasured the way that they are, and growth is encouraged.

That's why nothing ever really goes wrong at any of our hundreds and hundreds of events.  We have attracted the best sort of men, who live by their word, and who provide the best-possible role-models.

FMSD is sailing-along comfortably.  The brotherhood is always present, the cooperation is universal, and our future is assured.  Let's have many more anniversary celebrations!

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Rally Around the Center on Marriage Day!

Here is a reminder:  If and when the Supreme Court announces that gay marriage is now legal in all states (it's supposed to happen in June 2015), there is a plan to gather at the San Diego LGBT Community Center to celebrate:

3909 Centre St
San Diego CA 92103-3410
Click here for a Google Map...

The request that we are making is that we all dress as kinky as possible, to show our Tribal colors.


FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

This would be an excellent page to bookmark, as it will continue to remain accurate at any point in the future.

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on this end.