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Friday, June 14, 2019

HELP NEEDED: Rope Ambassador assistance July 14 noon-5pm

HELP NEEDED:  Sir Francis is requesting
Rope Ambassador assistance from an
experienced rope bondage rigger. 

This is for the Leather Realm
Sunday July 14, from 1200 to 1700.
If willing and able please contact him
by June 24 at: xplrrb@gmail.com






FMSD at Pride needs Volunteers: July 13-14

We're going to have a table in the Leather Realm
and need helpful souls to staff it
Saturday, July 13 and/or Sunday July 14

Interested?  e-mail fetishmensandiego@gmail.com





FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.




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www.fetishmensandiego.org



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Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Flogging Friday 6/14, Electrical 6/19, FMSD at Pride 7/13-14

Flogging Friday at the Eagle: June 14

Friday, June 14, 10pm-midnight
The San Diego Eagle
3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Flogging Friday is the 2nd Friday each month at the Eagle.

Come out and enjoy fellowship with your club brothers!



Erotic Electrical by Officer Wes: June 19

Wednesday, June 19, 7:00pm – 9:00pm
Pleasures and Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92104

Erotic Electrical is a fun and welcoming workshop for all.  I first fantasized about electrical play at age 11.  By 25 my first SM Top had me tied up and used electrical on me.  It was thrilling.  When I started Topping I collected an amaze-balls assortment of cool and interesting gear.  In this intimate evening you'll get to see and potentially experience some of this gear at this workshop, which I've been presenting for clubs and events nationwide for 26 years.  More information at www.officerwes.com

Join us!  I assure you it will be a fun, interesting and safe time.

FetishMen SanDiego meets the third Wednesday each month at Pleasures and Treasures, 2525 University Avenue, from 7-9pm.





FMSD at Pride needs Volunteers: July 13-14

We're going to have a table in the Leather Realm
and need helpful souls to staff it
Saturday, July 13 and/or Sunday July 14

Interested?  e-mail fetishmensandiego@gmail.com





FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



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Sunday, June 2, 2019

Wednesday: Tom's Place 7pm

FetishMen SanDiego now meets the 1st and 3rd Wednesdays

  • 1st Wednesdays will be 7-9pm at Tom's Place over the summer. It's at a handsome private venue. e-mail "signmeupforevent@gmail.com" for the address

  • 3rd Wednesdays are 7-9pm at Pleasures and Treasures, 2525 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92104

For this inaugural 1st Wednesday, June 5, we will have a social at Tom’s Place with fellowship, light snacks, discussion and perhaps some show and tell. Come with your interest and kink.  Hot tub available. (Bring swimsuit and towel if interested.) 


Summer Schedule @Tom's Place (Hillcrest & Balboa Park)

Wed, June 5
Wed, July 3 AND Wed, July 31
No Wednesday in August
Wed, Sept 4
Wed, Oct 2




Save the date!

June 8, 6pm – 9pm:  Swap Meat @ Urban MO’s Bar & Grill (bi-monthly on the second Saturday)

Urban Mo's, 308 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, USA


Hey Kinksters, missed IML? No worries, Sat. June 8th 6-9pm, clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that might need a new dungeon. Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear in real time (off the apps.) Introduce new curious guys to your turn-ons or try gear on. Demos welcome (w approval.) Feel free to forward this to any groups/blogs or peeps who’d be interested. Free to enter, $5 to sell. More Info: 619-352-0666 -Fox.


SWAP MEAT is San Diego’s bimonthly social event for all kink backgrounds to meet and connect over our fetishes, toys & gear. Our event takes place in Mo’s semi-private dance floor for an intimate setting outside the apps and back into real time cruising. We’ve had the pleasure in the past to host pup mosh pit, boot black, rope and flogging demos, custom harnesses by Anthony Rollar Greika of LeatherLove, Detoxxx custom leather, custom suits by Ryder-Gear.com and more.




FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



FetishMen SanDiego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



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Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Taco Trio, Cigars, Park & Burgers this weekend!


Taco Trio 2019, fundraiser for the San Diego Leather Realm at San Diego Pride 2019.

When: June 1st 2019 from 1 to 6 PM, 18+ Event

Where: Private residence in the College Area (address will be sent 2 days before the event)

Cost: $15 per taco plate + soda or water and a surprise treat - Cash only at the door



Sir Jo Blas, Roxy and USA Tickler are hosting a taco fundraiser to benefit the Leather Realm.

Come enjoy a family taco recipe and soak up in a clothing-optional pool!

Bring your towel and sunscreen, your appetite and have fun while helping the Leather Realm 2019!





San Diego Cigars & Boots

Saturday, June 1, 4pm - 7pm at Pecs (monthly on the 1st Saturday)
2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Come join us! Even if you don’t smoke cigars or you sample a pipe or other things it’s a good time to make new friends in the leather community. Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free.


Sunday in the Park

Monthly event, First Sunday of the month, Noon to 2pm

Balboa Park @ 6th & El Prado / Laurel

Join Mr San Diego Leather 2019, Jody Mitchell, in Balboa Park for games and fun every first Sunday of the month!






San Diego Eagle Summer 2019 Burger and Beer Bust

Starting Sunday June 2nd!!! the San Diego Eagle Bar B Que and Beer Bust!! from 4:00 PM until we run out of food.

Domestic Beer Mugs $2.50.

Burgers, Hot Dogs, Veggie Burgers with all the sides!! sometimes we will have Chicken and RIBS!!! $3.00

This event will be hosted by Mr. San Diego Eagle 2019 MYLES.

Cum enjoy an afternoon of Good Food and Good People.





Wednesday, May 22, 2019

A packed June!



Saturday, June 1

4pm - 7pm - San Diego Cigars & Boots at Pecs (monthly on the 1st Saturday)

2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Come join us! Even if you don’t smoke cigars or you sample a pipe or other things it’s a good time to make new friends in the leather community. Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free.


Sunday, June 2

Noon - 2pm - Sunday in the Park

Balboa Park at 6th & Laurel, San Diego, CA

Join club brother Jody -- as Mr. San Diego Leather 2019 -- for games and fun every first Sunday!


Next up, 

FMSD at The Eagle (also June 2)

2pm-6pm: - Sunday Cookout at The Eagle

3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Come out and support fellow FMSD member, Myles, at his first Sunday cook-out as Mr. San Diego Eagle 2019! 

Followed by, 

4pm-6pm: - Planning Group Meeting at The Eagle

3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

==> Venue correction:  The Eagle is indeed the correct place for June's planning group meeting! <==

June's meeting is especially important as it will help us plan our presence in the Leather Realm at San Diego Pride this year.  

Do you have an idea, request or venue suggestion for an FMSD workshop, demo, discussion, or social? Come let us know! We'll be planning what we're doing for the next three months, each month.  These friendly gatherings happen monthly on the first Sunday.




Save the dates!

June 8, 6pm – 9pm:  Swap Meat @ Urban MO’s Bar & Grill (bi-monthly on the second Saturday)

308 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, USA


Hey Kinksters, missed IML? No worries, Sat. June 8th 6-9pm, clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that might need a new dungeon. Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear in real time (off the apps.) Introduce new curious guys to your turn-ons or try gear on. Demos welcome (w approval.) Feel free to forward this to any groups/blogs or peeps who’d be interested. Free to enter, $5 to sell. More Info: 619-352-0666 -Fox.


SWAP MEAT is San Diego’s bimonthly social event for all kink backgrounds to meet and connect over our fetishes, toys & gear. Our event takes place in Mo’s semi-private dance floor for an intimate setting outside the apps and back into real time cruising. We’ve had the pleasure in the past to host pup mosh pit, boot black, rope and flogging demos, custom harnesses by Anthony Rollar Greika of LeatherLove, Detoxxx custom leather, custom suits by Ryder-Gear.com and more.



June 14, 10pm – midnight:  FMSD's Flogging Friday @ The Eagle (monthly on the second Friday)

3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

As requested by our customers, Flogging Fridays are back!  




June 19, 7-9pm:  FMSD at Pleasures and Treasures (every month on the third Wednesday)

This will be an electrical workshop by me -- Officer Wes.  Join us as I share one of my kink passions with my club brothers.  My first slave came to me via a question about electro I'd done at a party...  I promise it's going to be a fun evening!  More info as the date gets closer.




FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events

Wondering what we have planned on a coming date?  In addition to these e-mail blasts there is FMSD's Perpetual Calendar of Events located at
https://fetishmensandiego.blogspot.com/2015/06/fmsds-perpetual-calendar-of-events.html

You can also subscribe to the FMSD calendar, so that these events show up on the calendar of your your portable device or computer, and will update within seconds if changes are made on the calendar.



FetishMen San Diego Web site

www.fetishmensandiego.org



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Tuesday, May 14, 2019

WEDNESDAY 5/15: Rope Bondage workshop!

FetishMen SanDiego: Rope Bondage May 15

Pleasures and Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92104
Wednesday, May 15, 7:00pm – 9:00pm

Workshop description:

Rope Bondage play can be an exciting addition to our kink play.

It is a form of sensory deprivation, enhancing a submissive’s sensation and dominant's level of control.

We will share our negotiation skills, thoughts on trust, and limitations on both sides of the slash, Top / bottom, Dominant / submissive, etc.

During this workshop you will have an opportunity to practice some basic rope ties that when creatively combined can become a predicament.

There will be limited rope available.  Some recommended rope supplies to bring:
  • Rope -- for beginning levels, 1/4 inch woven nylon, 25-30 feet long
  • Safety scissors (think paramedics) -- strong enough to cut through the rope with one cut
  • Yoga pad/rug -- to kneel/sit on while tying
In the past we have paired off during the meeting, with each man both placing the tie and receiving it.  You are welcome to bring a partner with you as well.

Presenter bio:

Sir Francis / ExplorerFrank dove into the Leather community in 2013 and was presented a Leatherman's cover in 2016 to recognize his ethics and quick learning of skills, particularly his artistry with rope. That work was featured in a pictorial spread in The Advocate, and can be seen at this link www.advocate.com/photography/2016/11/21/sophisticated-tastes-mature-men-photos
He is fully committed to promoting Safe, Sane and Consensual BDSM play among leather men and women by sharing any and all safe practices he has learned.

His practice has a strong spiritual connection. He is happily married with his husband of over 30 years.   In 2016 he was taken in to Daddy Barry's and Officer Wes' and dog's Leather family as Officer Wes' slave. He identifies as a switch and works under a Leatherman ethos of Respect | Honor | Trust | Love.

He is open to continued exploration and encourages veteran leathermen as well as newcomers to explore their fetish desires.

About FetishMen SanDiego:

Fetish Men is a welcoming group of gay kinky/fetish men. FMSD a non-organization/organization driven by the brotherhood and camaraderie of its members.

We are a group for Leather & Fetish Men, Leathermen, and Kinky Guys seeking Brotherhood, Support, Kindness, and Education in San Diego.

We are dedicated to the continued growth and education of our men by providing an ongoing series of events, workshops, and socials.

Check out FetishMenSanDiego dot org for more information about socials, demos, and other kinky events.

FMSD is a cohesive and cooperative gay-male kink/fetish group. If you're curious about kink, or you're already into it, you belong here.

We welcome men of all ages (18+), all colors, all body-styles, and all experience-levels.



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Monday, May 6, 2019

Rope Bondage Wednesday 5/15 7-9 at P&T

FetishMen SanDiego Rope Bondage workshop May 15

Pleasures and Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92104
Wednesday, May 15, 7:00pm – 9:00pm

Workshop description:

Rope Bondage play can be an exciting addition to our kink play.

It is a form of sensory deprivation, enhancing a submissive’s sensation and dominant's level of control.

We will share our negotiation skills, thoughts on trust, and limitations on both sides of the slash, Top / bottom, Dominant / submissive, etc.

During this workshop you will have an opportunity to practice some basic rope ties that when creatively combined can become a predicament.

There will be limited rope available.  Some recommended rope supplies to bring:
  • Rope -- for beginning levels, 1/4 inch woven nylon, 25-30 feet long
  • Safety scissors (think paramedics) -- strong enough to cut through the rope with one cut
  • Yoga pad/rug -- to kneel/sit on while tying
In the past we have paired off during the meeting, with each man both placing the tie and receiving it.  You are welcome to bring a partner with you as well.

Presenter bio:

Sir Francis / ExplorerFrank dove into the Leather community in 2013 and was presented a Leatherman's cover in 2016 to recognize his ethics and quick learning of skills, particularly his artistry with rope. That work was featured in a pictorial spread in The Advocate, and can be seen at this link www.advocate.com/photography/2016/11/21/sophisticated-tastes-mature-men-photos
He is fully committed to promoting Safe, Sane and Consensual BDSM play among leather men and women by sharing any and all safe practices he has learned.

His practice has a strong spiritual connection. He is happily married with his husband of over 30 years.   In 2016 he was taken in to Daddy Barry's and Officer Wes' and dog's Leather family as Officer Wes' slave. He identifies as a switch and works under a Leatherman ethos of Respect | Honor | Trust | Love.

He is open to continued exploration and encourages veteran leathermen as well as newcomers to explore their fetish desires.



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Wednesday, May 1, 2019

Planning Meeting 5/5 + monthly meetings return

FMSD Planning Meeting (every 1st Sunday)

Sunday, May 5, 4:00pm – 6:00pm
This month we'll meet at a private residence in Hillcrest.
Write fmsd@officerwes.com for location.

Do you have an idea, request or venue suggestion for a FMSD workshop, demo, discussion, or social?  Come let us know!

We'll be planning what we're doing for the next three months, each month.

This month we'll meet at a private residence in Hillcrest.  Write fmsd@officerwes.com for location.

FetishMen SanDiego meetings return to Pleasures and Treasures the 3rd Wednesday of every month, 7-9pm!

Pleasures and Treasures (upstairs)
2525 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92104
Third Wednesdays 7:00pm – 9:00pm

We are happy to announce that we will be holding regular monthly meetings at Pleasures and Treasures on the third Wednesday each month from 7-9pm.  Mark your calendars!  In the next six months those dates are:
  • May 15
  • June 19
  • July 17
  • August 21
  • September 18
  • October 16
The first gathering will be an FMSD Rope Bondage Workshop presented by Sir Francis / ExplorerFrank on Wednesday, May 15, 7-9pm.  Save the date.  A separate blog/e-mail will come out with even more details.

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Sunday, April 28, 2019

Gear Invasion TODAY; Flogging Friday returns 5/10

FMSD Gear Invasion III @ Hillcrest Brewing Company

TODAY, April 28, 6-8pm
Hillcrest Brewing Co
1458 University, San Diego, CA 92103

Join your fellow fetish men as we do another Gear Invasion of Hillcrest Brewing Company.

The folks at HBC have been welcoming and we always have a great time.  It's semi-outside -- good for leather and gear. 

Join us!


Flogging Friday returns to the Eagle

Friday, May 10, 10pm-midnight
The San Diego Eagle
3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Flogging Friday, the 2nd Friday of the month, returns to the Eagle! 

Come out and enjoy fellowship with your club brothers.




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Tuesday, April 23, 2019

Gear Invasion this Sunday, April 28, 6-8pm

FMSD Gear Invasion III @ Hillcrest Brewing Company

Sunday, April 28, 6-8pm
Hillcrest Brewing Co
1458 University, San Diego, CA 92103

Join your fellow fetish men as we do another Gear Invasion of Hillcrest Brewing Company.
The folks at HBC have been welcoming and we always have a great time.  It's semi-outside -- good for leather and gear.  Join us!

January Gear Invasion at HBC



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Tuesday, April 9, 2019

Social this Saturday (MOVED); Swap Meat & more

FMSD Social @ Urban MO's  

Saturday, April 13, 4:00pm – 6pm

Urban MO's

308 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, USA

Join club brothers this Saturday, April 13, 4-6pm at Urban MO's.  This event immediately precedes this month's Swap Meat (see below).  This social had been slated for another time at another venue on the same day, but we learned of the conflict and voted to change time and location to support Swap Meat. 


Swap Meat @ Urban MO's

Saturday, April 13, 6-9pm

Urban MO's

308 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, USA

Clean out your closets and make a few bucks on your used gear that might need a new dungeon. Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear in real time off the apps. or introduce new curious guys to your turn-ons. Demos welcome (with  approval) Feel free to forward this to any groups/blogs or peeps that you know would be interested.  Free to enter, $5 donation to sell. More Info: 619-352-0666. See you soon, Fox.


SWAP MEAT is San Diego’s bimonthly social event for all kink backgrounds to meet and connect over our fetishes, toys & gear. Our event takes place in Mo’s semi-private dance floor for an intimate setting outside the apps and back into real time cruising. We’ve had the pleasure in the past to host custom harnesses by Anthony Rollar Greika of Pleasures & Treasures, Detoxxx Custom Leather, rope and flogging demos, and full leather custom suits by Ryder-Gear and more.


The Boys Will Play - Round 2

Saturday, April 20, 8:00pm – 1:00am

"The Compound", San Diego, CA

Men's Play Party - There will be Demos!

BONDAGE - IMPACT - SOUNDING - FIRE PLAY - FISTING
(and risk aware sex play, supplies available)
Snacks and refreshments provided.
All proceeds benefit: Club-brother Doriam's 2019 IML Travel Fund & The Leather Realm at San Diego Pride 2019.
Ticket purchase available at: HTTPS://SDBoysWillPlay.EventBrite.com










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Wednesday, April 3, 2019

Cigars & Boots fundraiser for Doriam's IML bid; FMSD Planning Meeting + Social

FMSD - Flogging Friday  

Friday, April 5, 9:00 – midnight

San Diego Eagle

3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Join club brothers at this relaxed event at the Eagle this Friday, April 5, 9-midnight.




Cigars & Boots: April & IML Bid Edition

Saturday, April 6, 4:00 – 7:00pm

Pecs Bar

2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

Join San Diego Cigars & Boots and San Diego Leather Pride on Saturday, April 6 from 4 to 7 at Pecs Bar in North Park for the April Edition, hosted by our clubbrother Mr. San Diego Leather 2018, Doriam Couto!

This month, Cigars and Boots will be a fundraiser for Doriam's bid for International Mr. Leather (#IML41) and an opportunity to introduce you to San Diego Bootblack 2018, Shilo Vix and Doriam's sash kids: 

Jody, Mr. San Diego Leather 2019 
Serafine, Ms. San Diego Leather 2019 
Pup Rowdy, San Diego Bootblack 2019! 

Bootblacks Rowdy and Shilo will be available to show your gear some love, Sir Karen will be hosting a demo/discussion on Cigars and Cigar Play, and raffles will be happening throughout the event! 

Come on out and support one of San Diego's longest running Cigar Socials! 
#LetsWalkTogether 
#FistDaddy 
#CigarsandBoots

Cigars & Boots, Leather Social, First Saturday of the month. San Diego Cigars & Boots is held at Pecs Bar at the corner of University and Alabama from 4pm until 7pm on the first Saturday of the month. Come join us! Even if you don’t smoke cigars or you sample a pipe or other things it’s a good time to make new friends in the leather community. Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free




FMSD - Planning Group Meeting @The Eagle

Sunday, April 7, 4:00 – 6:00pm

San Diego Eagle

3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104, USA

For a change of pace, we'll meet at The San Diego Eagle for the FMSD Planning Group Meeting. Do you have an idea, request or venue suggestion for a FMSD workshop, demo, discussion, or social? Come let us know! We'll be planning what we're doing for the next three months, each month.



FMSD - Social @Hillcrest Brewing Company

Saturday, April 13, 6:00 – 8:00pm

Hillcrest Brewing Company

1458 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA

Come join your friends old and new for a relaxed social in leathers at Hillcrest Brewing Company on Saturday April 13, 6-8pm.  HBC serves craft beers, pizzas and other appetizing lite morsels and salads.





The Boys Will Play - Round 2

Saturday, April 20, 8:00pm – 1:00am

"The Compound", San Diego, CA

Men's Play Party - There will be Demos!
BONDAGE - IMPACT - SOUNDING - FIRE PLAY - FISTING
(and risk aware sex play, supplies available)
Snacks and refreshments provided.
All proceeds benefit: Doriam's 2019 IML Travel Fund & The Leatehr Realm at San Diego Pride 2019.
Ticket purchase available at: HTTPS://SDBoysWillPlay.EventBrite.com

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Thursday, March 21, 2019

Sunday: Rough Body and Wrestling

"I could just PUNCH SOMETHING"
A Rough Body and Wrestling workshop

Sunday, March 24, 4–6 p.m.

Morley Field (2221 Morley Field Drive San Diego, CA 92104)

==> Meet at the parking lot on Alabama <==
==> Can't find us?  txt (no calls) 619-356-1299 <==

About the class

This class will demonstrate and educate on how to safely, effectively, and properly use your own body for impact plat that reduces long term harm for you and your partners. Face slapping, punching, stomping, and spanking are all featured topics in this hands-on workshop, and with time permitting you'll see a live demo of A Rigger's Waltz, rough body and rope bondage. 

About our presenter

Boy Doriam Chaotic Goodboy (CG), Humanoid (Human, Shapechanger). Language: English, Spanish, Pup. boy Doriam is a homo-sexual, pan-romantic Leatherman who has been engaged as an activist and educator in his local community since 2015. He recently held the title of Mr. San Diego Leather 2018 and is honored to have the chance to travel and share his experience all over! Doriam's play involves the negotiation of scene-based energy exchange to elicit an emotional, primal response from all parties involved. Rough Body and Rope Bondage are boy Doriam's preferred forms of play, and he has been fortunate to travel across the country leading workshops on the topic.





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Thursday, March 14, 2019

Jeremy's Fist Cream Recipe

We've had requests for Jeremy's Fist Cream Recipe used in his and Nate's Fisting workshop 2/24.  Just in time for Leather Pride, it is below.  Thanks, Jeremy!

Jeremy's Fist Cream Recipe


6 oz boiling water
1 rounded tablespoon J-lube powder
1 oz vegetable glycerin
1 oz emulsifying wax (polysorbate 60)
3 oz coconut oil
1/8 teaspoon essential eucalyptus oil
1/8 teaspoon essential lavender oil

Directions:
- Blend water, J-lube, and vegetable glycerin.
- Add wax to above and blend.
- Add coconut oil and essential oils to
above and blend.
- Divide into single use containers and chill.
- Keep chilled until ready for use! www

Recipe Doubled:

12 oz boiling water
2 rounded tablespoons J-lube powder
2 oz vegetable glycerin
2 oz emulsifying wax (polysorbate 60)
6 oz of coconut oil
1/4 teaspoon essential eucalyptus oil
1/4 teaspoon essential lavender oil



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Wednesday, March 13, 2019

San Diego Leather Pride is upon us

San Diego Leather Pride 2019

The five-day festival starts on March 13 with Leather/Fetish Night @ Pictionary hosted by our 2018 emcee, Ms San Diego Leather 2010, Tiger, at Number One on Fifth. Tiger has been fundraising every Wednesday for five years now, with ALL tips and donations going directly back into the community.

The spacious World Beat Center in Balboa Park is our venue again from the following Friday March 15 through Sunday March 17. This has become a favorite venue–it has ample free parking, the WBC is an easy 10-minute ride to the Hillcrest area. You’ll also enjoy the bootblacks, vendors, and special entertainers in the private, tented area connected to the venue.

Check out the schedule for more information on the Friday Leather Pride Flag Raising, All Clubs Night, the Leather Olympics, the Saturday San Diego Bootblack and Leather Contests, and a Sunday Keynote Brunch with Vendor Faire.

Packages available at San Diego Leather Pride site http://sdleatherpride.org

Wednesday, March 13

TIGER’S PICTIONARY LEATHER/FETISH NIGHT

Time: 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Location: #1 Fifth Avenue, 3845 Fifth Ave., San Diego, CA 92103
Description: The annual festival starts on March 13 with Leather/Fetish Night @ Pictionary hosted by our 2018 emcee, Ms San Diego Leather 2010, Tiger, at Number One on Fifth. Tiger has been fundraising every Wednesday for five years now, with ALL tips and donations going directly back into the community


Thursday, March 14

CIGAR & WHISKEY SOCIAL @ REDWING

Time: 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Location: Redwing Bar & Grill
Description: Join us on the patio of the Redwing in North Park for their weekly Cigar and Whiskey social. Featuring Cigar and whiskey pairings and a your chance to walk away with a basket donated by their liquor sponsors!


Friday, March 15

LEATHER PRIDE FLAG RAISING

Time: 4:00pm – 5:00pm
Location: Hillcrest Pride Flag, corner of University Avenue & Normal Street

MEET & GREET THE JUDGES AND CONTESTANTS

Time: Doors: 6:30 pm
Location: World Beat Cultural Center, 2100 Park Blvd., San Diego, CA 92101
Description: Meet our VIP judges and the 2019 contestants while you enjoy the spacious patio with leather vendors, social area, and bootblack stands!

OPENING CEREMONIES

Time: 7:30 pm
Location: World Beat Cultural Center, 2100 Park Blvd., San Diego, CA 92101
Description: Color Guard, Blessing from the San Diego Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and Contestant Introductions

THE LEATHER OLYMPICS AND ALL CLUBS NIGHT

Time: 8:30 pm – 10:30 pm
Location: World Beat Cultural Center, 2100 Park Blvd., San Diego, CA 92101
Description: Celebrate our “Tribes That Bind” when Sir Karen and Boots host one of the largest All Clubs Nights in Southern California. Over 20 unique clubs are there for you to network with, and to compete in The Leather Olympics where the top three teams chosen by YOU by vote will win prizes and bragging rights for the year. (Contact SDAllClubsNight@gmail.com for more information.)

CONTEST EVENTS

Tech Boot8:30 pm – 9:15 pm
taking place inside WBC. This is a timed and judged event for the bootblack contestants where they have 40 minutes to revitalize and high-shine a sad boot into glory!
Open Shine9:30 pm – 11:00 pm
on the patio. Bootblack contestants take the stands to showcase their skills in caring for your leather and fetishwear boots & garments. Sign up early with the stand coordinator, San Francisco Bootblack 2019 Allison. This is a judged category.

ENERGY PLAY PARTIES

DESIRE: Women and GQ, trans-inclusive event.
SAFEWORD – TRICK: Play party for male-identified people.



Saturday, March 16

DOORS OPEN TO THE PUBLIC

Time: 9:30 am
Location: World Beat Cultural Center, 2100 Park Blvd., San Diego, CA 92101

CONTESTANT INTERVIEWS — OPEN TO PUBLIC

Time: 9:45am – 10:30 – Bootblacks; 10:30am – 12pm
Location: World Beat Cultural Center

BOOTBLACK STANDS OPEN

Time: 11:00 am – Midnight
Location: World Beat Center Patio
Description: Sit for some of our local and visiting bootblacks to get your gear looking its best. We probably don’t have to remind you but don’t forget to tip your bootblacks!

WORKSHOPS

Time: 12:00 pm – 6:00 pm
12 – 2: Meanings, uses and misuses of pain
12 – 2: Rough body and impact play
2 – 4: PoC Caucus
2 – 4: Erotic Shaving
4 – 6: Cigar Service & Play

SAN DIEGO BOOTBLACK AND LEATHER 2019 CONTESTS


Time: 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Location: World Beat Cultural Center, 2100 Park Blvd., San Diego, CA 92101
Description: San Diego Bootblack, Ms San Diego Leather 2019 and the Mr San Diego Leather 2019 Contests with bootblacks and servers who will attend to your desires while you enjoy the array of contestants who have LOTS to show you this year. The fourth San Diego Bootblack and the 25th and 37th Ms and Mr San Diego Leather will be chosen by a panel of esteemed and titled community members!
$30 General Admission

TALLY HO!

Time: 9:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Location: World Beat Cultural Center, 2100 Park Blvd., San Diego, CA 92101
Description: Enjoy drink specials, finger foods, and enjoy the tented shopping pavilion as we tally the numbers.

ANNOUNCEMENT OF WINNERS & PHOTOS

Time: No Later Than 10:30 pm
Location: World Beat Cultural Center, 2100 Park Blvd., San Diego, CA 92101

AFTERGLOW PARTY

Time: 10:45 pm – ??
Location: World Beat Cultural Center, 2100 Park Blvd., San Diego, CA 92101

UNOFFICIAL AFTER PARTY AT THE SAN DIEGO EAGLE

Location: 3040 North Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104 www.sandiegoeagle.com


Sunday, March 17

VICTORY BRUNCH WITH KEYNOTE SPEAKER AND VENDOR FAIRE

Time: 11:00 am – 1:00 pm
Location: World Beat Cultural Center, 2100 Park Blvd., San Diego, CA 92101
$30 General Admission
Description: Sunday is your best opportunity to get those leather gifts at the leather vendor faire in the huge social pavilion, while we host a catered victory brunch with keynote speaker inside the WBC. It is also our time to pay tribute (or roast!) our outgoing titleholders. Bootblacks will be available and the Leather History Project will have exhibits up for the last day.



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Thursday, March 7, 2019

This week!



FetishMen SanDiego event

Potluck Picnic at the Eagle this Sunday, March 10, 3-6pm

Because of the weather forecast and rain we've had today, the "Picnic in the Park" has relocated to the San Diego Eagle. Please support the venue and leave your beverages at home. There are plenty of tables for potluck items. Feeling full after stuffing your face? Maybe a flogging is what you need to settle the food and make room for desert.


Other leather events

The Leather Boys, Swap Meat and Harness all happen on the same day at Mo’s, this Saturday, March 9:

Description:

4-6pm:  Leather Boys of San Diego: SOLD!  

Join the Leather Boys of San Diego at Mo’s Bar and Grill for an evening of auctions, raffles, and fun! Come bid on the boys’ goods and services! Jell-O shots and slingers abound! Then stick around for Swap Meat after SOLD! See you there!

6-9pm:  SWAP MEAT

Hey Kinksters, Time to clean out your closets before San Diego Leather Pride and make a few bucks on your used gear that might need a new dungeon. Buy/Sell/Trade your gear and meet others to connect over fetishes, toys & gear in real time off the apps. or introduce new curious guys to your turn-ons. We will have a pup mosh pit and flogging demo. Demos welcome (w approval) Feel free to forward this to any groups/blogs or peeps that you know would be interested. Sat. March 9 6-9pm Free to enter, $5 donation to sell. More Info: 619-352-0666.

SWAP MEAT is San Diego’s bimonthly social event for all kink backgrounds to meet and connect over our fetishes, toys & gear. Our event takes place in Mo’s semi-private dance floor for an intimate setting outside the apps and back into real time cruising. We’ve had the pleasure in the past to have the talents of Red Bootblack, custom harnesses by Anthony Rollar Greika, Detoxxx Custom Leather, rope demos, masks/hoods by Jose Santoyo and Full leather custom suits by Ryder-Gear.com and more.

10pm-2am:  HARNESS - Puppy Play Party

Dress Code Private Party DJ Eli - Puppy Play spaces - Hot GoGos - Lube Wrestling for Prizes $5 cover after 10pm - Late night Happy Hour 10pm


San Diego Leather Pride 2019

March 13-17 (Wednesday - Sunday)

Leather Pride Weekend (3rd weekend in March)

The five-day festival starts on March 13 with Leather/Fetish Night @ Pictionary hosted by our 2018 emcee, Ms San Diego Leather 2010, Tiger, at Number One on Fifth. Tiger has been fundraising every Wednesday for five years now, with ALL tips and donations going directly back into the community.

The spacious World Beat Center in Balboa Park is our venue again from the following Friday March 15 through Sunday March 17. This has become a favorite venue–it has ample free parking, the WBC is an easy 10-minute ride to the Hillcrest area. You’ll also enjoy the bootblacks, vendors, and special entertainers in the private, tented area connected to the venue.

Check out the schedule for more information on the Friday Leather Pride Flag Raising, All Clubs Night, the Leather Olympics, the Saturday San Diego Bootblack and Leather Contests, and a Sunday Keynote Brunch with Vendor Faire.

Packages available at San Diego Leather Pride site http://sdleatherpride.org


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Wednesday, February 20, 2019

Fisting this Sunday 3-5pm

FMSD presents Fisting 2/24

February 24 (4th Sunday = skills topic) 3-5pm

Reaching for the heart is no easy task!

But our presenters Jeremy & Nathan can help you achieve that.  

They will be showing the dos and don'ts of Fisting properly.

Bring a notepad, a pen, an open mind and any questions you've been wanting to ask.

Interested parties drop a line to SignMeUpForEvent@GMail.com

About our presenter Jeremy:


Jeremy has been a self identified kink enthusiast since his early twentie
s and an active member of the Leather & Kink community for 15 years. As a former Mr. Bolt Sacramento Leather Title-Holder, his love of service sparked a desire to broaden his kinky talents. Today he maintains active membership in the Delta Leather Brotherhood, Club X San Diego, and is a recurring member of the planning committee for The Leather Realm at San Diego Pride.

Jeremy's desire for connectedness and service drew him to seek membership in House Andor. In House Andor he proudly shares in service work with and his Leather Brothers and Sisters and enjoys helping and teaching in the greater pansexual Kink community.

While Jeremy's kink interests range from bondage, to sharp shiny objects (needles), to impact play, and watersports, his passion for Fisting remains his favorite. Jeremy has studied fisting form, safety standards, and fisting etiquette as an active participant in Fisting events across the country and enjoys "giving a hand" to teach and share what he has learned. He hosts a local fisting social & play group and is open to help with "hole training".

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Sunday, February 10, 2019

Social today (correction: no food)

FetishMen SanDiego social today!

#1 Fifth Avenue

3845 5th Avenue, San Diego, CA  92103
Today, Sunday, February 10
6-8pm


Come binge on amazing drinks and great conversations with friends.  Join your FetishMen SanDiego brothers and hang out at #1 Fifth Avenue.



Friday, February 8, 2019

Social 2/10; Fetish Ball 2/16, Fisting 2/24...

FetishMen SanDiego social this Sunday

#1 Fifth Avenue

3845 5th Avenue, San Diego, CA  92103
This Sunday, February 10
6-8pm


Come binge on delicious food, amazing drinks, and great conversations with friends.  Join your FetishMen SanDiego brothers and hang out again this coming Sunday, February 10th 6-8pm, at #1 Fifth Avenue.

We had a great time at the last Gear Invasion at Hillcrest Brewing Company. (Photo below.)

Photo courtesy Papa Tony


Leather Fetish Ball 2019

February 16, 7:00 PM – midnight

(Not specifically FMSD, but some of our guys will be there.)

Rodman Productions presents the Annual LEATHER FETISH BALL 
Sunset Temple, 3911 Kansas St, San Diego CA 92014 

Join us for an evening of fabulous entertainers, choice music and of course, a love for leather. This pansexual event aims to celebrate all genders and sexualities, leather and gear fetishes. Help honor our deeply diverse tribes of San Diego, Long Beach, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Palm Springs and surrounding cities. 

$24 for General Admission Tickets 
$40 for VIP Tickets ( Includes Front Of Line, Appetizers, and 2 drink Tickets )

Call for Volunteers

The Leather Fetish Ball could use 8 volunteers.

There are 8 volunteer tickets to the Leather Fetish Ball next weekend. 
Would anyone like to help us?e-mail DoriamFMSD@gmail.com

FMSD presents Fisting 2/24

February 24 (4th Sunday = skills topic) 3-5pm

Reaching for the heart is no easy task!

But our presenters Jeremy & Nathan can help you achieve that.  

They will be showing the dos and don'ts of Fisting properly.

Bring a notepad, a pen, an open mind and any questions you've been wanting to ask.

Interested parties drop a line to SignMeUpForEvent@GMail.com

March

March 3 (1st Sunday = planning meeting) 5-7pm

Planning meeting at Lestat's (upstairs) on University 5-7pm.  All welcome.

March 10 (2nd Sunday = social) 2-5pm

FMSD presents Picnic in the Park

Join your leather brothers March 10 at 6th Avenue at Laurel under the giant tree from 2-5pm.

March 15 (Friday) 10pm-3am

SafeWord

10pm-3am after San Diego Leather Pride event (see below).

March 13-17 (Wednesday - Sunday)

San Diego Leather Pride 2019

San Diego Leather Pride 

Leather Pride Weekend — THIRD WEEKEND IN MARCH

The five-day festival starts on March 13 with Leather/Fetish Night @ Pictionary hosted by our 2018 emcee, Ms San Diego Leather 2010, Tiger, at Number One on Fifth. Tiger has been fundraising every Wednesday for five years now, with ALL tips and donations going directly back into the community.

The spacious World Beat Center in Balboa Park is our venue again from the following Friday March 15 through Sunday March 17. This has become a favorite venue–it has ample free parking, the WBC is an easy 10-minute ride to the Hillcrest area. You’ll also enjoy the bootblacks, vendors, and special entertainers in the private, tented area connected to the venue.

Check out the schedule for more information on the Friday Leather Pride Flag Raising, All Clubs Night, the Leather Olympics, the Saturday San Diego Bootblack and Leather Contests, and a Sunday Keynote Brunch with Vendor Faire.

March 24 (4th Sunday = skills topic) 4-6pm

FMSD presents Cock & ball torment "CBT" by Officer Wes 4-6pm.  Location tbd.

There's nothing quite like the connection between men when one is working over the other guy's nuts.  Join us at this sexy, intimate gathering.  There will be nudity.

April

April 7 (1st Sunday = planning meeting) 5-7pm

Planning meeting at Lestat's (upstairs) on University 5-7pm.  All welcome.

April 14 (2nd Sunday = social)

Details tbd

April 28 (4th Sunday = skills topic) 4-6pm

FMSD presents electrical by Officer Wes, 4-6pm.  Location tbd.

Officer Wes has presented erotic electrical and high-end electrical at events across the country for 25 years.  Join us as he shares one of his kink passions.  There will be nudity.

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