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Tuesday, March 29, 2016

FetishMen Social


6PM on the  First Wednesday of each month, at

DiMille's Italian Restaurant, on the patio
3492 Adams Ave (corner of 35th and Adams in Normal Heights)
San Diego CA 92116-2434



FetishMen's Social


Meant to introduce kinky men to each other in a pleasant, quiet environment.  Many men want to get away from their computer and phone displays and meet up with possible new friends, to get news about upcoming events, and to become closer to a community that wants to welcome them.


Maybe that's you!

There is no dress code, except no bare ass or tits, brothers.  You don't have to buy anything, either. Your company is what we crave.  Come on by, be relaxed, and get introduced around at your own comfort-level.


Friday, March 25, 2016

North County Fetish Men: Monthly Social!

Note from Papa Tony: Many men live in North County - This is a golden opportunity to meet like-minded men, without the long commute!




Sunday Fetishmen Monthly Brunch Meet-Up

Sunday, April 17, 2016; 12:30PM-4:30PM (3rd Sunday of every month)

Theme: Cock And Balls Torture.

A demonstration first, followed by hands on practical. Guests are welcome to bring their own toys and cocks and balls to share.

Potluck brunch: please bring something to share. Food that's easy to make, or cheap to buy is fine. Sodas and waters will be provided by host, but feel free to bring your special beverages.

RSVP to cbgood61 @gmail.com with number in your party, what food you'll bring, and any questions.

This is at a private home, so please wear street clothes when arriving. You can wear anything at the event (leather, nude), once you have arrived.  just bring towel for bare buns on furniture.

Social areas and play areas will be provided

We are open to ideas from attendees.

Future dates for 2016, unless otherwise specified:

May 15
June 19
July 17
'August 21
September 18
October 16
November 20
December 18

Friday, March 4, 2016

Cigars & Boots Social, This Saturday

This event repeats on the first Saturday of each month.


This is a purely social event, held from 4-7PM on the patio at 



You don't have to smoke, or even own a pair of boots.  However, this is an EXTREMELY pleasant, relaxed way to meet gay FetishMen in a quiet, zero-attitude, agreeable space.


It's a great way to get introduced around, so don't be shy!