Chastity Social, Show & Tell, and Community Discussion

Saturday, January 24, 2026 | Noon to 4:00 PM

Starting the new year locked, curious, or holding the key? Fetish Men San Diego is excited to invite you to a relaxed and welcoming Chastity Social, Show and Tell, and Community Discussion focused on connection, curiosity, and shared experience.

This gathering is part of our ongoing effort to build a stronger local community of chastity lovers. Whether you are currently caged, exploring the idea, or enjoy being a keyholder, this event is designed to bring like-minded men together in a comfortable and respectful environment. We will talk about what draws us to chastity, the thrills and frustrations of being locked, and the dynamics of holding the key, all while enjoying a laid-back social atmosphere.

This is a casual social where you can mingle, chat, and if you choose, show off your cage. Clothing is optional, and attendees who plan to go nude or partially nude should bring a towel.

Event Details
Saturday, January 24, 2026
Noon to 4:00 PM
Private home in San Diego (address provided after RSVP)

Who Should Attend
This event is for kinky guys, men who are caged, men curious about chastity, and keyholders who want to connect, socialize, and have fun together.

Potluck and Vibe
This is a relaxed potluck-style gathering. Feel free to bring a favorite snack or drink to share if you would like, and most importantly, bring your good energy. We are creating a friendly, welcoming space for community and connection.

RSVP Required
To attend, please RSVP by Friday, January 23 in the evening by emailing:
SignMeUpForEvent@gmail.com

Use the subject line:
“Chastity Social – January 2026”
Include your first and last name in the body of the email.

We look forward to starting the year together in community.

Leo
President, Fetish Men San Diego

FMSD Workshop: Impact Play

Back by Popular Demand

Fetish Men San Diego is excited to welcome you to an upcoming hands-on workshop focused on impact play, one of the most common and versatile forms of kink play. Whether you are curious, just getting started, or looking to refine your technique, this workshop is designed to meet you where you are.

Impact play can include flogging, paddling, spanking, and other forms of consensual striking. While it may look simple from the outside, doing it well and safely takes knowledge, communication, and practice. This workshop offers a supportive environment where learning and exploration are encouraged without pressure or judgment.

Throughout the afternoon, experienced tops and educators will be available to:

• Demonstrate a variety of impact techniques

• Talk through different toys, styles, and approaches

• Answer questions openly and honestly

• Offer personalized coaching for those who want hands-on guidance

The focus of the workshop is not just technique, but also consent, safety, and communication. We will discuss negotiation, reading reactions, aftercare, and how to build confidence as both a top and a bottom. This is an ideal space for beginners and the impact-curious, as well as those looking to sharpen existing skills.

Event Details

Date: Saturday, January 10, 2026
Time: Noon – 4:00 PM
Experience Level: Open to all experience levels
Location: Private residence (address provided after RSVP)

RSVP Information

RSVP is required to attend.

Please RSVP by Friday, January 9th by emailing:
SignMeUpForEvent@gmail.com

Subject line:
Impact Play Workshop – January 2026

Be sure to include your first and last name in the body of the email.

We look forward to creating a space where members can learn, practice, and connect in a way that reflects the values of Fetish Men San Diego: education, respect, and community.

We hope to see you there.