Saturday, April 7, 2018

Reminders for Cigars & Boots and Sunday Skill Share

Happy Sunny Saturday, Gents!

Reminder! San Diego Cigars and Boots
When: today, Saturday, 7 April, 4 - 7 pm
Where: At a NEW VENUE! Come join us at:

PECS Bar, 2046 University Ave, San Diego, CA

Come one, come all! Let’s send Red off to compete at IMsLBB (International Ms Leather Bootblack) in style! Your favorite monthly event with a few twists. New location (Pecs!!!), bid on messing up boots for Red to fix, indulge in some raffle tickets, support a local business!!!! Join us and your 2016 San Diego BootBlack, Erik, in sending Red off to San Jose!!!!

Bootblack Red will be on hand for all your boot care! Please share with all your friends!

Reminder! Sunday Skill Share,
When: Sunday, 8 April 2018, 5-8pm
Where: At a NEW VENUE,
"The Panorama"

This Sunday we'll be breaking in our summer venue in La Mesa! And what better way to do that than by hosting a discussion on playing with and taking care of your toys, specifically insertables!
Join us on Sunday, April 8th at "The Panorama" in La Mesa from 5-8. The address can be found within the Facebook Event or by emailing DoriamFMSD@GMail.com

See you there, Gentleman!

Friday, April 6, 2018

Sunday Skill Share - Toy Care w/ Dustin

Howdy Gents!

This Sunday we'll be breaking in our summer venue in La Mesa! And what better way to do that than by hosting a discussion on playing with and taking care of your toys, specifically insertables!

Join us on Sunday, April 8th at the Panorama in La Mesa from 5-8. The address can be found within the Facebook Event or by emailing DoriamFMSD@GMail.com

See you there, Gentleman!

Monday, March 26, 2018

CRUZE TICKETS! Now only $20!!

Cruze by FMSD, A Mens-Only Party & Social


TICKETS NOW ONLY $20 ONLINE! 
Ticket sales end Thursday, March 29th at 9PM!
Tickets will not be sold at the door.

Friday, March 30, 2018
9PM to 1AM
House of Black, San Diego
Cost: $20, payable via Paypal or by contacting DoriamFMSD@GMail.com
Address Provided with Will Call up to 24 hours before the party.

CRUZE is a new party we're hosting! Unlike our Members-Only Play Party (MPP), CRUZE is a Mens-Only Night of Fetish and Cruising! This party starts a little later in the evening from 9PM to 1AM and will have a designated Bartender on staff handling drinks for those who choose to indulge.

SM IS NOT THE FOCUS OF THIS PARTY.

CRUZE is a night where men can explore their fetishes and cruise as they like. The playrooms of House of Black will be set up to accommodate pick-up play, socialization and fetish exploration instead of our traditional dungeon setup. If you choose to engage in SM-style play (flogging, whips, electro, etc), please keep such play in the designated area. Other play is welcome in all spaces, including (but not limited to): fisting, water sports*, and sex play.

Want to explore a certain fetish, or looking for people interested in what you enjoy? Be sure to bring out your hankies, lube and condoms! CRUZE is scheduled to happen the Fifth Weekend of each month, when applicable.

Come out and join us for the very first:

CRUZE by FMSD

* water sports should be contained to the designated areas to avoid any unwanted messes.

Wednesday, March 21, 2018

Cruze, SDLP, and Workshops!

Table of Contents

I. Cruze by FMSD
II. Boot Blacking Technical Training w/ Anthony
III. Sunday Socials & Skill Shares!
IV. Upcoming Community Events
V. From ME to YOU


I. Cruze by FMSD, A Mens-Only Party & Social

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT

We need to sell a minimum of 10 more tickets before Monday, March 26 in order to host the party. If you are interested in attending, please go to Paypal.me/FMSanDiego/25 to purchase your tickets online. You can also contact Doriam directly at DoriamFMSD@GMail.com to set up other payment options.

Friday, March 30, 2018
9PM to 1AM
House of Black, San Diego
Cost: $25, payable via Paypal or by contacting DoriamFMSD@GMail.com
Address Provided with Will Call up to 24 hours before the party.

CRUZE is a new party we're hosting! Unlike our Members-Only Play Party (MPP), CRUZE is a Mens-Only Night of Fetish and Cruising! This party starts a little later in the evening from 9PM to 1AM and will have a designated Bartender on staff handling drinks for those who choose to indulge.

SM IS NOT THE FOCUS OF THIS PARTY.

CRUZE is a night where men can explore their fetishes and cruise as they like. The playrooms of House of Black will be set up to accommodate pick-up play, socialization and fetish exploration instead of our traditional dungeon setup. If you choose to engage in SM-style play (flogging, whips, electro, etc), please keep such play in the designated area. Other play is welcome in all spaces, including (but not limited to): fisting, water sports*, and sex play.

Want to explore a certain fetish, or looking for people interested in what you enjoy? Be sure to bring out your hankies, lube and condoms! CRUZE is scheduled to happen the Fifth Weekend of each month, when applicable.

Come out and join us for the very first:

CRUZE by FMSD

* water sports should be contained to the designated areas to avoid any unwanted messes.

II. Congratulations!

All Club's Night & San Diego Bootblack & Mr/Ms San Diego Leather Contest, 2018

Photo Credit to Scott B Smith
The weekend of March 17, 2018 we celebrated San Diego Leather Pride at the Worldbeat Cultural Center in Balboa Park. The weekend was a blast, with several wins for the members of Fetish Men San Diego!

Thursday Night's "All Club's Night" and "Leather Olympics" kicked off the weekend with 4 of our men representing the team and placing First at the Leather Olympics! Congratulations to Frank W, Jamie C, Jody M, and pup Clement for there great work and thank you for Scott, Chris, Mike, and several more for taking the time out of their day to volunteer at the FMSD Table selling pins and tickets for CRUZE!

Friday Night kicked off the contest for San Diego Bootblack, Ms San Diego Leather, and Mr San Diego Leather 2018! The four contestants this year represented themselves in front of a panel of judges, introducing who they are are Leatherfolk and expressing their plans for the year ahead - win or lose. Saturday morning's interviews began at 10am and the contest continued through the evening until the announcement of the title family that evening.

FMSD would like to congratulate Ben and Doriam for running in this years contest and baring themselves on stage for our local community to see! We would also like to congratulate this years title family:



Ms. San Diego Leather 2018 - Kira Renee
San Diego Bootblack 2018 - Shilo Vix, San Diego Bootblack 2018 Facebook Page
Mr. San Diego Leather 2018 - Doriam Couto, Mr. San Diego Leather 2018 Facebook Page

Please feel free to follow the title family this year on Facebook and Social Media! And be sure to congratulate Ben as well, as the contest was definitely an eye-opening experience for all of the contestants involved!


III.  Fourth Sunday Workshop - Fisting!




Sunday Skill Share - Fisting!
Sunday, March 25, 2018
5PM to 8PM
Tom's Place
Cost: $5 requested donation

You asked and we're delivering! Two of our Men have made themselves available to teach about one of the most highly sought-out skills in kink: FISTING. Nathan and Jeremy are well versed in the techniques and practices involved in both stretching someone to the point where they can be fisted safely, and how the bottom can help their fister. You certainly DON'T want to miss this one!

IV. From ME to YOU

I'm so humbled to be able to serve my community this year as Mr. San Diego Leather 2018! Thank you so much for everyone who provided words of encouragement and love during the title run and to those who have offered there love and support after!

I appreciate all that you do, and I am excited to continue doing what I love with you all this coming year!

Also, this will be out LAST WORKSHOP at Tom's Place for the time being - we will be moving to our new venue in April should scheduling permit. I will do my best to keep you updated in regards to future workshops.

In Service,
Truly,
Doriam C

Wednesday, March 7, 2018

Cruze, a Mens-Only Party & Social (+ Upcoming Events!)

Table of Contents

I. Cruze by FMSD
II. Boot Blacking Technical Training w/ Anthony
III. Sunday Socials & Skill Shares!
IV. Upcoming Community Events
V. From ME to YOU


I. Cruze by FMSD, A Mens-Only Party & Social

Friday, March 30, 2018
9PM to 1AM
House of Black, San Diego
Cost: $20, payable via Paypal or by contacting DoriamFMSD@GMail.com
Address Provided with Will Call up to 24 hours before the party.

CRUZE is a new party we're hosting! Unlike our Members-Only Play Party (MPP), CRUZE is a Mens-Only Night of Fetish and Cruising! This party starts a little later in the evening from 9PM to 1AM and will have a designated Bartender on staff handling drinks for those who choose to indulge.

SM IS NOT THE FOCUS OF THIS PARTY.

CRUZE is a night where men can explore their fetishes and cruise as they like. The playrooms of House of Black will be set up to accommodate pick-up play, socialization and fetish exploration instead of our traditional dungeon setup. If you choose to engage in SM-style play (flogging, whips, electro, etc), please keep such play in the designated area. Other play is welcome in all spaces, including (but not limited to): fisting, water sports*, and sex play.

Want to explore a certain fetish, or looking for people interested in what you enjoy? Be sure to bring out your hankies, lube and condoms! CRUZE is scheduled to happen the Fifth Weekend of each month, when applicable.

Come out and join us for the very first:

CRUZE by FMSD

* water sports should be contained to the designated areas to avoid any unwanted messes.

II. XMen! Boot Blacking Tech w/ Anthony H

Thursday, March 8, 2018
7PM to 9PM
Pleasures & Treasures
Cost: Free to Club X Members, $5 requested donation of non-members

Hey kid, you want some hard shine?

With San Diego Leather Pride around the corner, it's time to pull out those boots you've been wearing all year and get 'em looking proud! This workshop will cover the Technical part of Bootblacking with a brief introduction to the craft, followed by a hands-on demo for each attendee to practice on their own boots.

Anthony is one of our many talented boot blacks in San Diego! Be sure to come out tomorrow night and learn about what his take on Bootblacking is, and learn some the skills involved in taking care of your own leather!

Note: If you have your own Leather Care equipment, please feel free to bring it!

III. Second Skill Share/Discussion - Date Change!


Sunday Discussion + Potluck - Coming to Terms
Sunday, March 11, 2018
5PM to 8PM
Tom's Place, email DoriamFMSD@GMail.com for address
Cost: $5 requested donation and/or bring a Potluck item to share!

What is a Sir? What is a Master? How are they different? Alpha? sub? Rigger? Switch? What does it all MEAN!

This month's discussion has swapped to the second Sunday and will be led by Sir Jerry M! With the ever growing fetish, kink, and Leather community, we find ourselves adding new words to our vocabulary day-after-day. This month, we wanted to take the time to talk about some of the terms that have sprung up seemingly over night, and see if we can find even some clarification on the words we thought we knew coming in to it!



Sunday Skill Share - Fisting!
Sunday, March 25, 2018
5PM to 8PM
Location TBD
Cost: $5 requested donation

You asked and we're delivering! Two of our Men have made themselves available to teach about one of the most highly sought-out skills in kink: FISTING. Nathan and Jeremy are well versed in the techniques and practices involved in both stretching someone to the point where they can be fisted safely, and how the bottom can help their fister. You certainly DON'T want to miss this one!

III. Upcoming Community Events


Friday, March 9 - Fox & Fiends: Swap Meat!
[Event Link]
Time: 7PM to 9PM
Cost: Free to attend
Location: MO's Bar and Grill
Description: Have you ever considered running for a title? Bar? Local? Regional? International? Perhaps you've been curious as to what titleholders DO? Well this is a great opportunity for you to ask current and past titleholders just that!


Sunday, March 11 - FMSD: Sunday Social + Potluck - Coming to Terms
Time: 7PM to 9PM
Cost: $5 requested donation, in-person or via PayPal OR Bring a dish for the Potluck!
Location: "Tom's Place", Email DoriamFMSD@GMail.com for address
Presenter: Jerry M.
Description: This month we've switched things up a bit on our end; our usual social and potluck will take place on Sunday, March 11th and Sir Jerry M. will be moderating a discussion focused on the terminology we use and what it all means! What is a Sir? What makes it different than a Master? What about a Pup? Alpha? submissive? Felching? Bring your words and let's see if we can clear up any confusion!


Monday, March 12- Club X: Bootblack eXpo
Time: 7PM to 9PM
Cost: Free to attend
Location: Joyce Beers Community Center
Description: Leather Care is about more than just blacking your boots and polishing your leather. It's about the Heart and Sole that our Boot Blacks put in to their craft. Join us for Leather Care eXpo as we introduce this months candidates for San Diego Bootblack 2018 along with some fresh and seasoned favorites!




Sunday, February 25 - FMSD: Sunday Skill Share - Fisting!
Time: 5PM to 8PM
Cost: $5 requested donation, in-person or via PayPal
Location: TBD
Presenters: Nathan K. and Jeremy W.
Description: You asked and we're delivering! Two of our Men have made themselves available to teach about one of the most highly sought-out skills in kink: FISTING. Nathan and Jeremy are well versed in the techniques and practices involved in both stretching someone to the point where they can be fisted safely, and how the bottom can help their fister. You certainly DON'T want to miss this one!

V. From ME to YOU

It's almost here, gentleman! The accumulation of the last 3+ months of work for me. San Diego Leather Pride! For those who don't know, I am running for Mr. San Diego Leather 2018 along with another FMSD Member - we've been working hard to do what we can before the contest, and now it's all about to blow!

We would love your support next week, and I will write another post regarding SDLP next week. When all is said and done, we'll be back with a new set of eyes for what we have in store for FMSD! Be sure to keep posted, because there's plenty of exciting projects just past the horizon!

In Service,
Truly,
Doriam C

Wednesday, February 28, 2018

FMSD: Mr.SDE18, a NEW party, SD Leather Pride + More!

Table of Contents

I. Congratulations, Mr. San Diego Eagle 2018
II. CRUZE by FMSD
III. San Diego Leather Pride 2018
IV. Upcoming Community Events


I. Congratulations, Mr. San Diego Eagle 2018


Gentleman!

In case you missed it, two of our members, Jody M. and Justin W., competed the weekend of February 17, 2018 for the title of Mr. San Diego Eagle 2018! Both men put themselves out there for the community to see, and we are so proud to see these two men take the next step in their leadership journey. While the competition was close there could be only one Mr. San Diego Eagle!

Join me in congratulating Jody as our Mr. San Diego Eagle 2018! If you haven't already, be sure to follow his journey on Facebook by clicking the link above!

And be sure to congratulate Dustin as well when you see him next! He did a great job, and has been actively involved in supporting both Jody and FMSD since the run. Word on the street says he plans on take another swing next year!

II. CRUZE by FMSD, A Mens-Only Party


Friday, March 30, 2018
9PM to 1AM
House of Black, Mira Mesa
Cost: $25, payable via Paypal or by contacting DoriamFMSD@GMail.com
Address Provided with Will Call up to 24 hours before the party.


It's a smooth ride to the CRUZE party.


CRUZE is a new party we've chosen to test out this month, unlike our Members-Only Play Party (MPP), CRUZE is a Mens-Only Night of Fetish and Cruising! Also unlike MPP, this party happens a little later in the evening from 9PM to 1AM and will have a designated Bartender on staff handling drinks for those who choose to indulge. (Tips appreciated)

SM IS NOT THE FOCUS OF THIS PARTY.

Unlike MPP, CRUZE is set up to be a night where men can explore their fetishes and cruise as they see fit. The playrooms of House of Black will be set up to accommodate pick-up play, socialization and fetish exploration instead of our traditional dungeon setup. If you choose to engage in SM-style play (flogging, whips, electro, etc), please keep such play in the designated areas, SM-style play in other spaces will be directed back to that area. Sex-Based play is welcome in all other spaces, including (but not limited to): fisting, water sports*, and sex play.

Want to explore a certain fetish, or looking for people interested in what you enjoy? Be sure to bring out your hankies, lube and condoms! We will do our best to have on-site vendors as requested in the cool down area. CRUZE is scheduled to happen the Fifth Weekend of each month, when applicable.

Come out and join us for the very first:

CRUZE by FMSD

* water sports should be contained to the designated areas to avoid any unwanted messes.

III. San Diego Leather Pride!


San Diego Leather Pride is just two weeks away! This week of events starts Tuesday Night at MO's with Leather Show Tunes! Followed up with Tiger's Pictionary on Wednesday Night at #1 on Fifth!

All Club's Night & The Leather Olympics take place on Thursday, March 15th at the World Beat Cultural Center. Interested in manning the FMSD table or being a part of the team for the Leather Olympics? Email FetishMenSanDiego@GMail.com! This is a really fun and exciting way to represent the club, while still having a great time with the rest of our brothers and sisters!

Friday, March 16 is the Flag Raising in Hillcrest, followed by the opening ceremonies for San Diego Leather Pride. This will be your first chance to meet the four contestants running for local titles this year at SDLP. Following "Meet the Contestants", be sure to stick around for ~TWISTED~ a fetish dance party like none other, from 9pm to 1am!

Care to find more information about SDLP? Check out this blog post submitted by AJ and Buster! SDLP is still looking for volunteers as well, so if you'd like to find a way to give back to the community this is a wonderful way of doing so!

IV. Upcoming Community Events


Thursday, March 8 - XMen! Boot Blacking Technical
Time: 7PM to 9PM
Cost: Free to Club X Members, $5 for non-members
Location: Pleasures & Treasures
Presenter: International Mr. Olympus Leather 2017, Anthony H.
Description: With San Diego Leather Pride around the corner, it's time to pull out those boots you've been wearing all year and get 'em looking proud! This workshop will cover the Technical part of Bootblacking with a brief introduction to the craft, followed by a hands-on demo for each attendee to practice on their own boots.

Friday, March 9 - Fox & Fiends: Swap Meat!
[Event Link]
Time: 7PM to 9PM
Cost: Free to attend
Location: MO's Bar and Grill
Description: Have you ever considered running for a title? Bar? Local? Regional? International? Perhaps you've been curious as to what titleholders DO? Well this is a great opportunity for you to ask current and past titleholders just that!

Sunday, March 11 - FMSD: Sunday Social + Potluck - Terminology
Time: 7PM to 9PM
Cost: $5 requested donation, in-person or via PayPal OR Bring a dish for the Potluck!
Location: "Tom's Place", Email DoriamFMSD@GMail.com for address
Presenter: Jerry M.
Description: This month we've switched things up a bit on our end; our usual social and potluck will take place on Sunday, March 11th and Sir Jerry M. will be moderating a discussion focused on the terminology we use and what it all means! What is a Sir? What makes it different than a Master? What about a Pup? Alpha? submissive? Felching? Bring your words and let's see if we can clear up any confusion!


Monday, March 12- Club X: Bootblack eXpo
Time: 7PM to 9PM
Cost: Free to attend
Location: Joyce Beers Community Center
Description: Leather Care is about more than just blacking your boots and polishing your leather. It's about the Heart and Sole that our Boot Blacks put in to their craft. Join us for Leather Care eXpo as we introduce this months candidates for San Diego Bootblack 2018 along with some fresh and seasoned favorites!



Sunday, February 25 - FMSD: Sunday Skill Share - FISTING!
Time: 5PM to 8PM
Cost: $5 requested donation, in-person or via PayPal
Location: "Tom's Place", Email DoriamFMSD@GMail.com for address
Presenters: Nathan K. and Jeremy W.
Description: You asked and we're delivering! Two of our Men have made themselves available to teach about one of the most highly sought-out skills in kink: FISTING. Nathan and Jeremy are well versed in the techniques and practices involved in both stretching someone to the point where they can be fisted safely, and how the bottom can help their fister. You certainly DON'T want to miss this one!

In Service,
Truly,
Doriam C

Tuesday, February 27, 2018

Whoops! - Clarification

Howdy Gentleman,

Many of you have reached out regarding an email posting you received yesterday dated for September. Our blog sharing system had a minor glitch which sent out the old blog post for some unknown reason.

It should be fixed now! Apologies for the confusion.  Please look for a NEW and accurate blog post to come later this week!!

Thank you,
Doriam C