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Wednesday, October 11, 2017

FMSD Potluck and Upcoming Events

Table of Contents

I. FMSD Potluck Social
II. X-Men Leather Care
III. Upcoming Events
IV. From ME to YOU

I. FMSD Potluck Social

Saturday, October 14, 2017, 
2PM to 6PM
DESCRIPTION: We are happy to have our second event at our SECURED Workshop Space in Hillcrest! We had a successful Fire Play Workshop there last month. C'mon back to attend our first Male-Only Potluck Social at that location.

Q: What should I bring?
A: Cups, plates/bowls, and eating tools will be provided. In an effort for this not being a desert buffet bar, please bring entrees, salads, and non-alcoholic beverages. Scott will bring his triple chocolate bundt cake and if you have a non-chocolate dessert you are compelled to bring, please do so!

Q: What else should I bring?
Bring some toys if you like. Maybe there will be some opportunity to share what you know and demonstrate it. They will at least be a conversation starter.

Q: What do I wear?
A: As always, Street Legal to the door. Bring a towel or two for the pool and hot tub, Bathing Suit if you wish, although nudity is OK. The outdoor shower should be used before you get into the pool or hot tub.

Q: Where is this place?
A: The location is being kept private until 48 hours prior to the event per the owners request so contact Doriam directly for the address.

If you have any other questions, please don't hesitate to email Doriam at! Care to attend but not sure what to bring, or afraid of your own cooking? If you'd like to support FMSD by making a donation to purchasing supplies and/or further food items, please go to

II. X-Men Leather Care

Thursday, October 12th, 2017

7PM to 9PM
Location: Pleasures & Treasures
Cost: $5 requested donation, Free to Club X members
Description: Join Erik T, San Diego Bootblack 2016 & California Drummerboy 2017, and Jacob, Runner-Up San Diego Bootblack 2017, as they introduce us to the ins-and-outs of Leather Care. Bring your gear for a chance at receiving some hands-on demo time, as they go over what is in their bootblacking kits and perform live demos for you to see them in action!

III. Upcoming Events

Beat Your Drum Night @ San Diego Eagle
Friday, October 20, 2017
10:00PM to Midnight
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise free to attend
Description: Join us in supporting California Drummer and Drummerboy at the San Diego Eagle! Beat Your Drum is a night designed for you to represent your own personal Fetish! This Month's theme is "This is Halloween" but all gear and fetish play are welcome!

Body Based Ritual Discussion w/ Elwood Reid
Saturday, October 21, 2017
2PM to 4PM
World Beat Community Center, 2100 Park Blvd, San Diego, CA 92101
Cost: $10, or FREE with purchase of Ritual Steel ticket
Description: Earlier in the day, special guest Elwood Reid will host a presentation discussing the history and intent behind many global body-based rituals. This 2 hour educational discussion will be open to the public for $10.

Ritual Steel: An X-Treme Tribal Experience
Saturday, October 21, 2017
6PM to Midnight
World Beat Community Center, 2100 Park Blvd, San Diego, CA 92101
Cost: $0-$45
Tickets: Eventbrite
Description: Club X in conjunction with Edgewalkers is producing Ritual Steel: An Xtreme Tribal Experience a night filled with Tribal, spiritual energy. On Saturday, October 21st, join together in the WorldBeat Cultural Center in Balboa Park for a one-night event, three years in the making. Ritual piercing, hook pull, flesh suspension, and more. You don't want to miss this event from 6:00pm till midnight.

The San Diego Eagle - LOCKtober
Saturday, October 28, 2017
3PM to 6PM
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free!
Description: Curious about chastity? Ever wondered what it would be like to hold the key to a locked up boy? Join the meet up at the San Diego Eagle this month on October 28, from 3PM to 6PM and meet boys and Sirs with an interested in cock cages, chastity devices, and more! And stick around for the Underwear Party later that evening!

Gear Invasion - Tom of Finland
Wednesday, November 1, 2017
7PM to 10PM (6PM Ticket Purchasing)
Landmark Theater - Ken Cinema
4061 Adams Ave, San Diego, California 92116
More Information: Available on Facebook
Description: Wear Your Favorite Leather Gear in Celebration of the Man who inspired the Revolution. Known to the world as Tom of Finland, the proudly erotic drawings of artist Touko Laaksonen shaped the fantasies of a generation of gay men, influencing art and fashion before crossing over into the wider cultural consciousness. But who was the man behind the leather? Tom’s story is one of love, courage and perseverance, mirroring the gay liberation movement for which his leather-clad studs served as a defiant emblem.

GMAG December - FMSD: Leather, Gear, and Kink Modeling
Monday, December 4, 2017
6PM to 9PM
Twiggs in University Heights
Cost: Free to Models, $10 for Photographers and Artists, Cash Only. Please support the venue!
Description: Have you thought posing for artists in, and out of, your gear? Or perhaps refining your sketching, drawing, painting or photographic artistic skills of the male form? The Gay Men's Art Group of San Diego (GMAG) has invited FMSD to participate in their monthly art night on December 4. The theme is Leather, Gear, and Kink. Nudity is very welcome although not required! Photography is restricted to the photographer and model and the private Facebook group if the model consents to that. If you are interested, please contact Scott at

IV. From ME to YOU

Hello Gents! Thank you again for supporting us in our endeavors to grow this club and brotherhood! I would love to hear more from you as we continue to grow. I understand than many men avoid using Facebook as a means for communication as we continue forward, however it is my only means of effective communication in collecting data for future workshops and events. As of right now, we have run two polls for Party Frequency and Workshop topics, if you have not voted or did not see these polls because you aren't on Facebook, please email me and let me know your thoughts! I am open to other suggestions for better communication methods for these polls! We are currently thinking about 4 parties each year (2 Large, 2 Small), and the top votes for workshops are Bondage Based and Body Workship/Torture based.

Also, we are looking for more venues for socials and events. We would like eventually to host up to 4 events each month with FMSD including a Social, a Workshop, and Discussion Group and a "Special" event each month. For that, we need space to do so, if you know of ANY spaces that may be willing to accommodate us, reach out to me by emailing:

Lastly, keep an eye out for another blog post coming shortly! It goes over our NEW Volunteer Program, and the perks that come with being a volunteer! Expect that in your Inboxes within the next 48hours if you are subscribed to this blog!

In Service,

Doriam C

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