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Tuesday, January 2, 2018

New Year, Member's Party, and January Events!

Table of Contents

I. Happy New Year!
II. Members Only BDSM Party - January 5, 2018
III. Upcoming Community Events
IV. From ME to YOU

I. Happy New Year!

On behalf of all of us on the FMSD Leadership Team, Happy New Year! 2017 was a wild ride for everyone, and 2018 is sure to bring challenges of its own! But fortunately, you have the support of your brothers along the way!

Thank you for making last year a great one, and we look forward to growing together this year!

If you haven't had the chance to check it out! We released a calendar for the new year! 30% of the proceeds go to a local nonprofit organization. December's proceeds went to Sunburst Youth Housing! If you're interested in getting your own calendar, contact or

II. Members Only BDSM Party - January 5, 2018

Join us on January 5th at House of Black, San Diego; we are kicking 2018 off with our first Male-Only Party of the year! This party will be co-hosted by Doriam and Rein, and while the theme lends itself to more SM-type play, all forms of Fetish and Kink are welcome! Including sex play, voyeur, water sports, etc.

As co-hosts, Doriam and Rein will be kicking off the night with an Interrogation Scene at 8:30! If you care to know more about these two, here's some info about each of them:

  • Rein (right) will be celebrating his admissions in to college at this party. He is a Dominant with inclinations toward Sadomasochistic play including being trained to single-tail by Papa Tony, and has been active with FMSD since September 2017. 
  • Never seen Doriam (left) play? He is a Switch who enjoys in-scene protocol. While playful, he is at his core an Edge Player best known for his experience with Rope Bondage and Suspension. He is celebrating his one year anniversary as part of the FMSD Leadership Team. 
We have reduced ticket prices for this party to $20. These funds will be used to pay for venue rental, snack foods, and non-alcoholic beverages. We've also made a few changes to our policies regarding alcoholic beverages - email if you'd like to know more.

Please see this post for more information on the benefits of volunteering, and Email: to register as a volunteer!

To purchase your ticket, please go to PayPal or email or to scheduled a time to meet Doriam/Scott to purchase your tickets in person!

III. Upcoming Community Events

Thursday, Jan 04 - FMSD: Pre-Party Social
Time: 5PM to 8PM
Cost: --
Location: "Tom's Place", Email for Address
Description: Attending Friday's party? This social will give you the opportunity to meet other attendees before the night of the party and set up scenes! Also a great way to meet new folk! This is the LAST CHANCE to purchase tickets to the Party.

Friday, Jan 05 - FMSD: Member's Only BDSM Party
Time: 8PM to Midnight
Cost: $20/Person, payable via PayPal
Location: House of Black, San Diego
Description: See above for more information. This members only party will be hosted from 8 to Midnight at House of Black! Ticket Sales will not be handled at the door and final will-calls will be sent the morning of January 5th!

Friday, Jan 05 - Flogging Friday by Drummer
Time: 10PM to Midnight
Cost: Free to attend, support the venue
Location: San Diego Eagle
Description: Flogging Friday is BACK in 2018! Join us the first friday of every Odd Month (Jan, March, May, etc.) from 10PM to Midnight and experience flogging with the Men of Drummer!

Sunday, Jan 07 - Leather boys of San Diego: Planning Meeting
Time: 4PM to 6PM
Cost: Free to attend, support the venue
Location: San Diego Eagle
Description: Do you identify as a boy/boi? Are you interested in learning more about this realm of leather? Or to give back to your community in a different way? Join the Leather boys of San Diego for their monthly planning meeting (1st Sunday) at the San Diego Eagle!

Wednesday, Jan 10 - SDLP: Your Seat at the Table! #SDLP2018
Time: 7PM to 9PM
Cost: Free to attend
Location: Pleasures & Treasures
Description: Have you ever considered running for a title? Bar? Local? Regional? International? Perhaps you've been curious as to what titleholders DO? Well this is a great opportunity for you to ask current and past titleholders just that!

Thursday, Jan 11 - Club X: XMEN Danger Room! Sharps
Time: 7PM to 9PM
Cost: Free to Club X Members, $5 requested of non-members
Location: Pleasures & Treasures
Description: This month we explore the world of Sharps! What are sharps? Needles, Knives, anything with a pointy bit sticking at the end. This workshop will go over safety, what is in the kit, and how to do this type of play without injuring yourself or others. No blood will be drawn, nor any puncturing demos.

Sunday, Jan 14 - FMSD: Kinky Petting Zoo
Time: 5PM to 8PM
Cost: $5 requested donation, in-person to via PayPal
Location: "Tom's Place", email for Address
Description: KPZ is taking the place of our monthly hard skills workshop. This month, we want to welcome anyone new to or interested in kink to join us at Tom's Place for our Kinky Petting Zoo! We'll have several trusted men from FMSD demonstrating different forms of play including Rope Bondage, Flogging, Spanking, Electro, Fire, and more! If you are interested in demoing, please email with a brief introduction! We are also looking for local vendors to lay out their own creations for purchase.

Friday, Jan 19 - FMSD: Rope Bondage Demo 
Time: 9PM to Midnight
Cost: Free to attend, support the venue!
Location: San Diego Eagle
Description: Join us on Friday, January 19th at the San Diego Eagle for our monthly demo night! This month, we'll be introducing you to the wonderful world of Shibari and Rope Bondage!

Sunday, Jan 28 - FMSD: Fetish, Kink, and Leather - Oh My!
Time: 5PM to 8PM
Cost: $5 requested donation, in-person to via PayPal
Location: "Tom's Place", Email for address
Description: Rounding out January, Doriam will be leading this month's Open-Table Discussion: "Fetish, Kink, and Leather! OH MY!" This gathering will welcome attendees to discuss what a "Fetish" is versus or adjacent a "Kink," how the Leather lifestyle differs or compliments the leather fetish. What makes a Fetish? What makes it Kinky? We'll have to find out! You wont want to miss this one!

IV. From ME to YOU

I'm excited to begin this year with you all; we have plenty of events coming up and more in mind! If you have any time to spare, please consider volunteering and giving us a hand in producing these and future events! Because we are primarily a two-man show, it can become a bit cumbersome.

I am really looking forward to Friday evening! If you haven't purchased your ticket, please do so ASAP! See you then, Gents!

In Service,
Doriam C

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