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Monday, December 2, 2013

Upcoming Events

The purpose of this listing is to provide a one-stop, unbiased and reasonably complete listing of events that would attract gay FetishMen in and around the San Diego area.  It is meant to be spread as widely as possible, so that folks inside and outside Facebook have free access.

Donnie turns into a raging Top, under the right circumstances!

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By Magnum

Richard gets worked over by pup Nikita


A new group is forming in the North San Diego County area, for social purposes, ride-sharing, friendships and hook-ups.

If you're a gay FetishMan who wants to meet other Tops, bottoms and switches in your area, please email Clarence, cbgood61 AT - He will start gathering your contact-information, so that he can host a social event in the La Costa area after the first of the year.

======= UPCOMING EVENTS=======

Ibi Pupp gets lavishly attended to, by Magnum and his partner.

Wednesday, December 4, 7PM FMSD Discussion Group (HOST: Michael Perry)
Pleasures And Treasures2525 University Ave  San Diego, CA 92104

A basic CPR training session given by the Red Cross. There is a basic $20 fee. If the fee is a financial problem please contact Michael Perry ( and we’ll work it out.  He has a limited scholarship fund that that can cover some of our members. We are shooting for a group of around 20, and this is open to everyone, not just FMSD members. If you know someone who is interested, bring them along.  RSVP to


Wednesday, December 4, 9PM onward at the Eagle: PUPPY NIGHT

San Diego Eagle Pup 2013 PUP COLTON says:

Alright everybody........ So it's almost time for me to go on deployment and do our nation’s work once more!!!! As the days dwindle down to December 7th I must address my thoughts and my actions soon to come..

This coming up puppy play night in December will be my last one until I return next year, so please everyone come out and help send me off with love and good hopes, all u HANDLERS and SIRS, DADDYS, MASTERS come out in ur best Naughty Santa gear and all u Bad little Boys and Sons and Slaves come out in Ur Naughtiest gear as well..... As for u pups come out as Rudolph the reindeer and instead of a red nose, a red arse might be in ur future!!!!!!!!!!!!! Also I will be handing my title off to be my representative while I take care of out Nation’s business. See u all at Pup Night!!!!!!!!


Friday, December 6, 2013, 6-11PM: December Nights Leather/Fetish Takeover

Mr. & Ms. San Diego Leather Eli Correa & Colt Everyday cordially invite you to join in this fun & free social event! Plan on meeting at the Top of the Park anytime between 6-7:30pm for a mixer and to form our posse!

If you don't feel like going to that portion or can't make it until later, we will then walk over to Balboa Park and swing slowly by the Museum of Man (which houses the Instruments of Torture exhibition) sometime between 7:45-8pm to pick up others.

We hope you'll also join us in getting geared up!

December Nights information here:


Saturday, December 7, 6:30PM in Los Angeles at the Tom of Finland Foundation: 40th Annual Toast of the Season with the Regiment of the Blank and Tans. Uniform/Club/Leather/Bar attire.


Wednesday, December 11, 7PM FMSD Discussion Group (HOST: Michael Perry)
Pleasures And Treasures2525 University Ave  San Diego, CA 92104

Meditation, Shamanism, and The Connection to Leather/Kink/Fetish/BDSM
To start the evening we will be presented with a very effective ‘being present’ group meditation led by my friend Richard. This may seem unusual for our wednesday night meetings but there is a method to the madness that will be explained during the introduction. After the break we will continue with a brief talk on the Shamanism/Leather connection to be followed by a group discussion about kink, BDSM, and altered states of consciousness and what it may or may not mean. Specifically how do we express and explain the states we acquire in our practices and how it enhances our life journey.


Fri, December 13, 10PM:  Harness @ Numbers San Diego
3811 Park Blvd, San Diego, CA 92103

On the 2nd Friday of every month, CUB CLUB SD and Numb3rs Nightclub present HARNESS, a monthly Leather/Gear event.  It's simple; wear what you want. However, we encourage strapping on your HARNESS. GET IN EARLY to entertain your friends & imbibe......You never know what will happen in the dark.



Wednesday, December 18, 7PM FMSD Discussion Group (HOST: Michael Perry)
Pleasures And Treasures2525 University Ave  San Diego, CA 92104

Meet Other Local Affinity Groups in San Diego.

Members and leaders of wide variety of the Fetish and Kink Groups here in San Diego will be giving an overview of the group they represent. This will be an opportunity to get to know the breadth an variety of groups, what they do, and how they do it. What I would like to see come out of this meeting is a good understanding of what is available in San Diego and also to give us as a group to pick a group or charity that we would create an event (remember event planning 101) to raise funds and provide our service to. We are really good at it.


Tuesday December 31,  8:00pm until 12:30am:
Daddy Ron's Housewarming/New Years Eve Potluck in Otay Ranch

No plans for New Years? Now you have some! I want you to join me for a Housewarming/New Years Eve Potluck at my home in Otay Ranch. I am inviting my close friends as well as members of Bears San Diego, Fetish Men San Diego, and San Diego Fetish Brotherhood.


(Use the first letter of your last name.)
A-K Salad/Appetizer/Side Dish
L-Z Main Course

Soft drinks will be provided for the entire evening. Champagne and sparkling cider will be poured just before midnight to toast the new year.

ADDRESS: 1477 Lavant Lane #2, Chula Vista, CA 91913

PARKING: Parking inside our neighborhood is by permit only. There is limited street parking available on Magdalena Ave. Carpooling is strongly recommended. We can shuttle people from neighboring shopping centers if necessary. (Please contact me to arrange this.)

GIFTS: This is optional... In lieu of gifts, I am asking that you consider a donation to Bears San Diego. This money will be given to the charities that they have chosen. (You can read more about them here... )

-Daddy Ron




Thursday, January 2, 6:30PM: FMSD GEAR INVASION
DiMille's Italian Restaurant & Lounge
3492 Adams Avenue, San Diego, CA 92116

Please join Daddy Ron Brundige & Family for a Gear Invasion of DiMille's:

Cost will be $20 per person and includes:

- Pizza square appetizers
- Salad and bread
- All-You-Can-Eat Italian Food Buffet:
...... Lasagna With Meat Sauce
...... Lasagna With Pesto Sauce
...... Chicken Parmesan
- Mini Canolli and Italian Cookies for dessert
- Soft Drinks (Soda, Iced Tea, Lemonade)

***Alcohol is not included, BUT FEAR NOT! There is a bar on site.


If anyone has a monetary concern, please contact Daddy Ron or boyJon and we will work with you. We want EVERYONE to be able to celebrate with us.


Good information from past FMSD Gear Invasions:

"This is our opportunity to share with the greater LGBT community what we are like when we are at our best. Therefore, we can break through stereotypes they may have before engaging us. Here is an opportunity for us to break out of our usual hang outs.

We encourage you all to gear up as a visual identifier and symbol of our community. Whatever gear that you choose to express your fetish. Please remember, these are restaurants and places of business. Use good taste and adhere to the San Diego Vice Laws."


Wednesday, January 8, 7PM FMSD Discussion Group (HOST: Daddy Ron Brundige & Family)
Pleasures And Treasures2525 University Ave  San Diego, CA 92104


Wednesday, January 15, 7PM FMSD Discussion Group (HOST: Daddy Ron Brundige & Family)
Pleasures And Treasures2525 University Ave  San Diego, CA 92104


January 17-20: Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend 2014


Wednesday, January 22, 7PM FMSD Discussion Group (HOST: Daddy Ron Brundige & Family)
Pleasures And Treasures2525 University Ave  San Diego, CA 92104


Wednesday, January 29, 7PM FMSD DEMO NIGHT (HOST: Daddy Ron Brundige & Family)
Location:  TBD


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