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Thursday, May 16, 2013

Upcoming Events

As always, check the FMSD monthly calendar-at-a-glance
which contains news about ALL known upcoming events. 
Be sure to click on "More Info" to get the best details!

Wake Up! Pay Attention!

 I am mentioning this now because I was shocked at how few guys at our last HARNESS Party knew about the BIG event coming up.

The biggest event of the last 35 months is coming up on June 1st. There are new, surrounding events, being announced here for the first time.

It would be a good idea to check it out below, because you will be angry at yourself for missing out on the fun! 

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Inexpensive, High-Quality Flogger Review - Hey Tops! If you want to be popular everywhere that you go, get an affordable flogger and learn how to use it!

"How to Be An Excellent Sir, and an Effective Top" Weekly Lecture Series, starting Wednesday, May 22. You don't want to miss this opportunity.

Long Beach's Leather Roots - Thanks to Aaron for the link.

Butch Cuffs for Sale Online - The newest fashion craze!

IML Lodging Available: Talk to Jeff Conley jeffery.w.conley @ for details.

Upcoming Events

Friday, May 17 (third Friday, every other month), 10:30pm: STUD Night @ the Eagle, at 3040 N Park Way. Featured guest will be Adam Russo.

Saturday, May 18, 9:30PM: LL Bear Dance Party @ Rich's, at 1051 University. Third Saturday of each month. I'm a BIG fan of the DJ!

Sunday, May 19, 10AM: Long Beach Pride Parade. Mr. and Ms. San Diego Leather 2012 will be attending. Aaron thinks it would nice if we could get a group of San Diego folks to head up to LB and show some support. All the folks in LB have been quite supportive of us. If you are interested, please email him at aaronbduke @, and we can arrange a caravan.

Sunday, May 19, 4PM onward. Barbecue outside the Eagle, at 3040 North Park Way. Folks, this is seriously gourmet-level stuff. Money well-spent. Hosted by our own Mr. San Diego Eagle 2013 Robb Rodd.

Monday, May 20, 4-8PM: Happy Hour @ Eagle, at 3040 North Park Way. Featuring Pulled Pork Sausages served up by Mr. San Diego Eagle 2013 Robb Rodd.

Tuesday, May 21 (first and third Tuesday of each month), 7PM: Hands-On Demos @ the San Diego Eagle, at 3040 N Park Way. These are utterly safe, relaxed and sociable opportunities to get better-acquainted with the kinky arts.  All are welcome, at all experience-levels.

Wednesday, May 22 (every Wednesday), 7PM: Men's Discussions. Tonight's topic: "How to Be An Excellent Sir, and an Effective Top" Weekly Lecture Series kicks off tonight.

Thursday, May 23rd – Monday, May 27thNasty Kink Pigs Weekend in Palm Springs

May 24-27: International Mr. Leather 2013 Contest in Chicago. Let's all cheer for our own Kane, who will be competing!

The monstrously huge Movie Night and surrounding events are on track in a big way!
Lots of out-of-towners will be attending:

Friday, May 31, 7-9PM - Kickoff event: "Welcome Home From IML, Kane" party, followed by...

Friday, May 31, 9PM onward: Rowdy Men @ the Eagle, at 3040 North Park Way.

Saturday, June 1 (first Saturday of each month), 4-7PM: Cigars & Boots at Bourbon Street at 4612 Park Blvd - Relaxed, happy, comfortable, serene. Pure brotherhood.

Very likely, there will be a group Gear Invasion dinner in between these two events. Once the details solidify, I will pass it along.

This is the big one - Folks are coming to San Diego from all over Southern California to be part of this:

Saturday, June 1, 9PM: We will gather on the sidewalk outside of the Birch North Park Theater at 2891 University Ave. We will be hosting a gear contest, taking our biggest group photo yet, and introducing out-of-town guests who have arrived for this weekend's First Annual FetishMen Family Reunion.  We will be enjoying the West Coast premiere of Interior. Leather Bar:
Interior. Leather Bar. (2013) - USA (CALIFORNIA PREMIERE. – Official Sundance Selection) Run Time: 60 min | Director: James Franco & Travis Mathews The 1980 film Cruising (starring Al Pacino as an undercover cop investigating a murder in the NYC gay leather bar scene) was plagued with controversy, and its director was forced by the MPAA to cut 40 minutes of sexually explicit material. Filmmakers James Franco and Travis Mathews set out to reimagine what might have transpired in those lost scenes in this documentary-style film about the making of a film. The cameras roll as Franco and Mathews assemble a mix of gay and straight men, focusing on the actor (Val Lauren) who portrays Al Pacino. What emerges is a portrait of the fascinating dynamics that drive the filmmakers’ need to challenge normalcy, the interplay of celebrity and experimentation and the dilemma faced by actors struggling with the idea of performing in a sexually explicit, gay, S&M film. The result is a provocative exploration of a radical and transgressive society and it’s importance to challenge us with new and unconventional ideas.
After the movie, we will be bringing our ticket stubs to the Eagle (a block and a half away) for a shot of our choice… whether it's a Flaming Fart, Hot Jizz, Cowboy Cocksucker or a Bartender's Wet Dream!

It is also likely that we will be having a Sunday brunch event.  Watch for more announcements.

Saturday, June 11: International Mr. and Ms Olympus Leather 2013 is on Saturday, May 11 at the Hilton LAX in Los Angeles, CA; doors open at 7 PM and contest starts at 7:30 PM.  We have 11 contestants which is a record high for International Olympus.

Six men and five women will present fantasies on stage. Past Avatar Club Los Angeles president Alan Stroik returns as our emcee and Michael Klyn is back as our ASL Interpreter. Winners' sashes and back patches by Leather Masters.ASL Interpreter provided by Sharon St. Cyr Fund.

See the contestants and judges at nternational Mr. and Ms Olympus Leather is being held during DomCon: Los Angeles.

June 14-16, 2013: All Male Butchmanns Experience @ APEX in Phoenix Arizona. A weekend opportunity for self-discovery...the emphasis of activities is on personal transformation and growth, particularly related to our fetishes. Strongly recommended by Papa Tony, who did this seminar weekend in June 2012.  PT is gathering a list of San Diego men who want to share lodging and/or travel, and the list is quite large!  Send an email to papatony @ if you are interested.

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